Member Since: December 1, 2013
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...I believe him, but then again...
Me: "I'm not feeling right..."
Him: "What wrong..."
Me: "I'm feeling extremely suicidal right now..."
Him: "No.....if you do.....I will"
And when we were on Skype, he said that I saved his life. That when his friend died, he was about to jump off a four-story, then he received my Kik message and he said that stopped him.
He's said so many things like this. When he says them on Skype, his face shows that he really means it. But I want to know if it's possible he really does mean it. I ask this because we just got together a week ago. But he keeps saying that we've got this connection that's made him feel this way already.
Oh! And he's also saying that he's going to purpose to me on New Years Eve. We're only sixteen. I'm going to say yes though. Because I know I need him since he's the only one keeping me from killing myself and I genuinely love him. I can say that already because of our connection. No one understands our connection, but we do. We know how we feel, and nothing anyone says is going to change it.
If you were me, would you say yes? Especially since all the things I've told you? And we're not thinking getting married like a year later or whatever. After we graduate from college and all. (link)
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If I were you Hun, I would not say yes. I promise, there will be so many other guys. And I'm sixteen as well, and I even know that. There was a guy I loved for five years, and I'm just now being with him, but even now I know there will be others. No need to settle now, and boys will say anything to get in your pants . I'm not saying that's what he's doing, but test him. Say "I want to wait until I'm married to have sex." (Even if you don't) and see how he responds. And don't just let him respond and say that he was like "oh that's fine" they say that in the beginning. Just let it go on and make sure he KNOWS you feel that way and see if he slowly a backs off. Then you wi know if he means what he says. If you need any more advice, e-mail me at destiny.mcrae@aol.com :) good luck!
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I'm a 13 year old girl and I am not self conscious about my weight.... I weigh 50 kg for a 13 year old, is don't know of that's good or bad and frankly I don't care. But my mom tells me off for being so fat, and she has for years... Lately its been getting to me and eat a considerably less amount than normal but we keeps saying it. My friend noticed and asked why, and that's when I realized that the only reason I reacted is because I am adopted and I felt that my mom choose me to be perfect, and I'm not showing her Enough gratitude and changing myself when I'm So obviously letting her down. My friend says its wrong, but I don't know how I approach either if them about it. Is what I'm feeling right? Can my mom even love me even though I'm not her real daughter? If she does why does she say what she does and hit me for it? I would be so grateful for any help.... (link)
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Sweetie, I deal with my mother doing things like this as well, except mine is about my anxiety and depression. Don't let it get to you! You are your own person, and it doesn't matter, what anyone, even your mom says about you. Your friend is right, it isn't right. Maybe you should try and talk to your Kim about it. As impossible as that may seem, you should still try. If you would like to discuss anything further, you Ardmore than welcome to e-mail me at destiny.mcrae@aol.com . I'm available basically all the time. Good luck sweetie, keep your head up.
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Would a true friend date your ex even as much as they desire and wish to, is that nice. (link)
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I think that you should be the bigger person and get over it. Everyone has that certain someone they are supposed to be with, and eventually when you find them you won't even care who dates your exes. What if that special person for your friend, was your ex? Would you want to deny them the chance to be happy? No. You wouldn't. I don't think it's a problem.
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