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Confusion with my current boyfriend.
So, I'm dating this guy that I have been in absolute love with for nearly five year now . We just got back together finally and I'm very haph to be with him. I've only seen him a couple times this year, because of certain situations we can't get past right now in our lives. I really and truly love him.. I wish to marry him honestly. But there's this guy at work, and yesterday I was walking from the back, back to the front where the counter is, and he stepped in front of me, and said "Do I have a chance with you?" I just started stuttering and said "uhm, I don't know." And chuckled and went around him and walked off. Later during the day when I got off work, I went not the office to get my jacket and he walked in there and I said "I mean, I just never really thought about it." And he said "well think about it now. Off the top of your head." And I said "yes, you have a chance with me." And I walked away. I haven't stopped thinking about him hardly! What should I do about this?
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Well honestly, this is all you and about how you feel.
You said you truly love your boyfriend and want to marry him so then why did you tell this other guy he has a chance with you?
I'm assuming you and your boyfriend are in a long distance relationship. Well either way, the fact is that you don't see your boyfriend very much so maybe you're lonely. But even so, you need to know how you feel. So if you're not happy with your relationship, or you don't want to be in a relationship with someone you don't get to see, you shouldn't be with your boyfriend. It isn't fair to stay with him when you're telling other guys that they have a chance with you.
If you like this other guy and would rather be with him, give yourself some time to think about it and see if that's what you really want.
So once you figure out how you feel, go from there. If you're planning on staying with your boyfriend then tell the other guy you have a boyfriend. If you would rather be with this other guy, let your boyfriend know that the relationship isn't working out.
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Well you just got to be honest with yourself. Are you entertaining the idea of getting with the guy at work because you dont get to see your Bf that often and are feeling lonely and like the attention from someone you see all the time (which is understandable if you and your Bf have only seen eachother a couple times this year) ? Or do you really like the guy at work and are not sure if you and your current Bf are really gonna work out because of whatever situations you can't get past? After you ask yourself those questions then you will know how you truly feel. If you really do want to be with your Bf then you'll have to be honest with the guy at work and tell him you have someone else that you just really miss. Or if you don't think you'll ever get past the certain situations in you and your bfs lives then you shouldn't hold yourself back from experiencing something new that could be great.
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