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My name is kristi, and i love giving advice, i have always been the trouble solver aslong as my brother. I like waking up knowing that i help people with their problems! I give advice about mainly anything, since im taking the time to actually write and help you on your problems, id like it if you would rate and leave comments. Im willing to give any advice to anyone! besides people who right me about stupid things, like playing jokes. Im always on here, so if theres anything you need to talk to me about, im here, so just leave something in the inbox (meaning write me, {top of the page it says Ask a Question }, so just hit that) So thats mainly it

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i recently went on vacation with my family and a few cousins whom i hadnt talked to in a long time to california. me and one of my cousins started getting somewhat close, and i am ashamed to say i like him. eh. any help?

You like your cousin?? well if its not by blood and by marriage i guess its okay, but sexual intercourse with one of your cousin would be kind of wrong. I would find out how he is related, talk to your parents or uncle or aunt about it, and take it a little slow, its your cousin dont forget. My cousin likes my other cousin and its by marriage, but everyone still believes its kind of wrong, hope i helped you some

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alright i have a problem sweating and its really gross what can i do for it....will it ever stop

well, it will adventually stop, your just going through stages and everyone goes through it, wear deonderent and always wash under your arm pits when taking a shower to get rid of the bacteria. Hope i helped

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does anyone know how to get rid of excima!
please don't say go to the dermatologist
i'll rate high

You could use different kinds of loction..

http://www.vanillagroove.com/main.html

http://www.findacnetreatments.com/acne/body_acne_treatment.html

Hope i helped some

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um i just put this under a random category but...im going on a really long road trip in a few days and im gonna need some serious entertainment...any ideas besides anything that involves reading?(i cant read in the car, makes me feel sick and stuff) thanks soo much i rate

you could do many different things..hm where to start

1: Bring a cd player, listen to your music

2: Portable DvD player, watch movies

3: Camera, take pictures, it keeps you occupied

4: Food, Got to love to eat haha

5: Cell phone, call some of your friends

6: Cards, maybe if you have a friend or sibling that you can play with

7: Mini ipod, once again listen to music

8: PSP, play games

you could do many different things, but its your choise to make it fun or not, hope you have fun, and hope i helped

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I h8 my family my sister is a fish and my and she is 14 years old my mum always belives her and it so anonnoying she never harly believes lke when my sis woz smoking on da top of da waterfall and i told my mum and she asked laura and she denied it i need 2 calm down any ways and help lines coz i am so stressed.
HELP!!!!!!!!!
KIRSTY PS.MY DAD IS NOT ANONNING NEITHER IS MY BROTHER JUST MY SIS AND MUM

Ok, i understand just how your feeling, my family is like that to me all the time. Im the youngest in the family, and im always the one getting blamed for things, and it gets very anoying and you get mad. You think that you want a new family and that feel that your the outcast in the family. Well if you think about it, telling on your sister all the time isnt going to help you. I learned that one too, i used to tell on my brother and sister all the time, but of course they were going to denie it, so there for my mom believed them and not me, but then i learned that telling on them isnt helping at all, but just making it worse. Sometimes you just have to stay in your own bisness. I know its really not helping you, but the best thing you can do is talk to your parents and let them know that your not lieing, and you also have to see from their eyes, is your sister perfect? maybe thats what they think that maybe thats why they think your lieing. good luck and i hope i helped

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Ok..I have reeeally curly hair. I want it to be straight but when I try to straighten it there are 2 problems:
1. It takes me 1 and a half to 2 hours to get it completely straight.
2. My hair only stays straight for a day or overnight..even if I just straightened it.

Are there any easier ways to make my hair straight and make it stay straight for a while?

Thanks ahead of time. I will rate high for helpful answers.

Sincerely-
Curly wanting to go straight

I know exactly how you feel, my best friend has extremly curly hair but wanted it straight. You can go to an beauty salon or just a hair place, and you could get it permanently straight. It does work, i have seen it work, all you have to do is go or call the place, and ask them to permanently straighten your hair and they will..Search online where you live and hair salons

http://www.freshlookhair.com/site/681420

http://www.allebiz.net/tanaz/aboutus.html

http://www.allebiz.net/tanaz/listings/51.html


Good luck


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I'm 16/f. I've liked this guy for about four years. We'll call him Joe. I really can't get over him, and i think it's because i always knew he liked me, but i never told him because i didn't think anything was actually going to happen out of it. Now that i'm getting older and i try to get close to guys i just can't because then i can't stop thinking about Joe. I mean like last week we were talking and he said like he missed hanging out with me and stuff and anyways.. it was how he normally talks to me. Then last night i was online and i was talking to his best friend (Aaron) and his best friend told me he liked me. So since obviously he knows his best friend better than i do, i asked him for help on what to say because well, i didn't feel the same way. and he told me to say stuff like "well i don't really know you all that well right now" and stuff.. Which is true i mean i've only met the kid twice. I can't have feelings for him like that. But Aaron was always the one i could talk to about Joe because they are best friends and seriously like two weeks ago he was still telling me Joe liked me. And i don't know it seems kind of amazing that after four years of liking me to just stop. But i dont know. I feel like he was telling me to say like "well nothing between Aaron and I yet, because we don't know eachother well enough" and that makes me sad. I feel like he's saying Aaron can have me or whatever. Or maybe he's just helping me be nice instead of saying like "No, i'll never like you." What's your opinion?

Well, i think that you should yourself tell joe that you like him. I mean your kind of letting him slip away, and he could be the "perfect one" you wont know untill you try it out. Aaron, well i mean yeah he sounds like a very good person to talk to about joe, but if joe is all you think about you should talk to him, and if aaron is trying to make you say that "oh well me and aaron has nothing between us yet, but we know each other like that, blah blah blah" aarons trying to get close to you, well if he cant see that you like joe and that your trying to talk to aaron about joe, then hes just one dumbass haha, But i think that you should talk to joe, because tomorrow you might wake up and him totally hate you, Yeah you only met him twice, but even just meeting someone online is good enough. It doesnt matter how much you guys seen eachother, it matters what you feel for him and why. I hope that things work out and that you take my advice. Good luck on everything

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I'm being blammed from my friend that i have been hacking onto her account on another site!well, i'm not!how do i convince her i would never do that to her?

Well, you need to explain to her that its not you and that you have your own account, thats if you do, and that there is no point on getting on her account. Do you know the password? if not then tell her that you dont even know. Let her know that your friends, and friends are suppost to tal to eachother about problems that they have, and their suppost to trust eachother. Hope i helped and hope things work out between you too

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I'm thinking about getting the top of my ear periced does anyone know how much it hurts? and if it is worth getting it done?

i believe your talking about your cartalige, i dont know if i spelled that right haha, but i have mine done and it didnt even hurt, its just like a little pink, its just like getting your ears periced. just count to 10 breathe and think happy thoughts, like maybe a friend.. boyfriend.. a party something you did in the past that made you happy, and in even 7 seconds, it will be done. just remember to stay calm. good luck

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ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx!

oO ik exactly how you feel, the best thing to do is to relax and take it easy. Did you stretch every time before you did anything? well the truth is that you should actually keep doing what your doing, but you have to be extremly carefull and dont work out to much, Take warm baths, Put ice only for about 4 minutes on your sores then take it off for a little while, then put it back on for a bit (keep doing that for a little bit), stretch before you do any activties, and that should do it, hope you feel better

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ok im 13/f and ive never done anything bad but last night me and my boyfriend did a lot of stuff..it felt really gooa at the time but today i dont feel good..is something wrong with me?

Theres nothing wrong with you, everythings fine! You probley just are not used to knowing what you did last night, maybe you are feeling bad that you did it or maybe you got feelings that maybe things might change. But theres nothing wrong, your bodys just going through a change and so are you, and you have to get used to that

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What is Emo? I hear every1 saying it, but i am clueless.

Emo is depression, saddness..

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i have a siriouse case of cancer and need to know what im supposed to do to stay calm!the docter says i may not make it!PLEASE someone help me!!!

Well, the best thing you can do is stay calm and always talk about everything to someone, wiether it be friends or family. Dont freak out because then it scares you more. Many cases of cancer is helped with talking, go into a support group, theres always a place near a town or city that helps kids and adults with cancer. Hope i helped some, and it will be ok

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14/f

How often should you change the your razor head for shaving your legs/under arms/pubic area? There's nothing on the box. I use Venus if that helps.

i would change the razor head about every 2 weeks, if it does get dull before that, change it before that so it doesnt cause irritaion.

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ok i'm 13/f and i'm not sexually active or anything but i am just wondering how effective condoms are. i know that sometimes they have a hole in them or something, but about what percent of the time are they safe? thanks!

Condoms are about 90% safe..it depends on if the guy wears it right, But to be more safe so you do not get pregnant is to get on the pill. It will be more safe, good luck and hope i helped u sum

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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks

Ok, i used to cutt to, 4 times a day, untill i found out the types of affects, yeah sure you think that it cures everything, and that its the only way to make you happy. Please!!! It gives you major infections and many many people stay away from people if they find out that its happening. You should deffently stop! I know its going to be hard, but just think about the things that could happen. Infections could just be little old infections, or it could go very wrong and become a serous illness. I hope i helped you and courged you to quit.

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Ok, Im 14, turning 15 in March and ive had my period since i was 10. I was supposed to get my period last Tuesday and it hasnt come yet, but I have had discharge since then. Why is it delaying so bad? I havent had sex, but is there another way i couldve gotten pregnant?

Dont worry, your not pregnant..Periods just play games sometimes, it could be what you ate or what you didnt eat, or it could just be because its skipping. Its competely normal. If you had your mom get you to go to the doctors, they could put you on the pill, which you know right when your period will be and how long it will be. Good luck

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Heyy
well u see i really want o wear a thong but i dont no how to ask my mom. If u could, please give me lines. Thx a lot

Why do you have to ask?? Just do it..if your a person that needs permission for that kind of stuff, say that your sick of wearing..granny panties lmao. Good Luck

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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed?

Its compeltly normal, i just got over a cold a few days ago and my sister and nephew still have colds. Your body is just getting used to the weather changing, from freezing cold to nice warm and hot. Just take some medicine and cough drops. Hope you feel better

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okay i am really shy and i would like some advice on how to be more outgoing and social. I feel that if i was more outgoing and social i would have more friends. Does anyone have any tips?

Well, ik exactly how you feel, i used to be extremly shy, untill a little while ago. Friends could deffently help your shyness. Go to the mall, or the movies with your friends. Dont be afraid to go up to other people or talk to other people. Thats all i really can tell you. Hope i somewhat helped. Good Luck

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