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at my daughters school ,(9th grade) in PE there will be a swim unit and boys and girls have it together? Why is this allowed? Wouldn't this make girls feel uncomfortable, being in a bathing suit around boys. Wouldn't boys use this opportunity to harass or humilate girls
I don't find that acceptable. In my 9th and 10th grade PE. We were divided. 9th and 10th girls togther, and 9th and 10th boys together. Then 11th and 12th was co-ed.
As a parent you have a right to fight for this, I would go to the school board about this and fight it.
Edited October 29 @ 12:22AM: Excuse me.. this is a silly answer? I don't know what you expected as an answer.. I just outright told you in the first sentence that it I don't find that acceptable...
I met this guy during my vacation in Europe. We fell in love right away because we have the same interest and we are both loyal and devoted when it comes to relationships. We were inseparable for 3 months of my stay in Europe. He already introduced me to his family and stayed to his place a lot of times. When it was time for me to come back to my homeland in Asia, I found out that I was pregnant. We were both happy and promised each other that we will be together soon in the future and that he will be with me when I give birth. We're both so excited for the baby. Although sometimes, we have misunderstandings too because of long distance relationship. Until one night (18 weeks of pregnancy), he told me that there's one time it came to his mind that maybe he is not the father of my child cause I have lots of friends in Europe who are guys. And he one time read into my facebook account that one of my closest friends told me that he wants to have sex with me. But I assure him that I never had sex with anyone else during my stay in Holland and that I was not meeting my friends anymore when I met him, which is so true. He was really sorry that he told this to me and promised me that he will not hurt me anymore. He said that he knows he's the father of the child but he can't just help it thinking about my guy friends. But I am really hurt and I didnt expect it that he will say that to me. I told him that it is the worst thing I've ever heard and that I can never forget it. I want to break up with him because I cant accept it that he thought like that to me, and I felt sorry for my baby that his father once doubt that he's not his. But I love him so much. What is the right decision to make? Thanks in advanced.
Follow your heart, and do what you heart says is best for you and your child. This decision should be truly your choice.. because down the road you don't want to regret losing him or staying with him when your unhappy all because of people on an advice website said.
In my opinion, it sounds he is just sounded a tad jealous of your other guy friends, and that's all.
As I said.. follow your heart, only you know what is best for you and your child.
Best of luck.
What does it mean when a guy calls a girl lil woman or lil mama?
In my opinion.. it's a horrible way of flirting.. but in most cases it is flirting.. or showing a sign of attraction
I have attended community college for about 3 years now. During those three years i have accomplished nothing. My transcript consist of horrible grades and a couple of "w"s (withdrawals).. and since my major was undecided/undeclared for 3 years, i have taken classes from all sorts of major (got bad grades in most of them) im 20 now and have finally decided i want to get into the medical field as a nurse or a doctor. since i cant retake classes i got a "c" in, im wondering if my chances of getting into a medical school is screwed because of the many "c"s?
ps. not worried about d's and f's since i can retake them.
I'm confused as to why you can't retake your classes.. I know someone who is trying to get into the nursing field and they are in community college and they are retaking classes that they got a C in. As a community college you should be able to retake your classes..I would really look into talking to an advisor about this.. because it doesn't sound right that you can't retake it.
So my friend asked this guy if he would go out with me && were both 11 ,he said he doesn't think he's ready for a girlfriend and maybe he might go out with me.He stares at me sometimes .Idk What do u think it means when he said maybe?
You're 11 years old.. be a kid. Do you really want to grow up that fast? When I was 11.. I was outside playing sports and being a child..
I didn't worry about dating until my senior year of high school, besides do you really want baggage when your 19-20 years old.. "oh I have been dating for almost 10 years now.."
Do you really want to look back down the road and see how many heart breaks you have had?
As for future reference, you're 11 years old. You do not belong on this sight until your 13.
My mom said to stay away from the guy I like. I told him she said that and now he is staying away from me. We used to be best friends.What do I do? I am 12 years old and I am a girl.
You are 12 years old. Mom always knows best, though I know you don't want to hear that. Your also too young to be dating and obviously this kid has brains to respect your mother's orders. Maybe overtime you can talk to your mom about talking to him again if you go so long without talking to him.. she can maybe see you can handle a friendship with him.
But again your 12, don't try to rush into something. Down the road you don't want so much baggage of old boyfriends and 10,000 heartbreaks.
So i was suppose to start my period on the 22nd of October and i started the 24th so i was two days late . now im 4 days into my period but the third day it was light and now today its brown? any help? im alittle confused and i took a pregnancy test because me and my boyfiend have been having sex every weekend and i was alittle worried but it was negative.. Help please.
It's normal, periods are irregular. The brown can happen if the period is too early or just happens to be late. You are fine, if you are very worried about it I would suggest talking to your gyno.
I want to break up with my girlfriend but she is still very much in love with me. We have had a conversation and are currently on a no contact break for a few days. She thinks i'll regret it and don't fully appreciate what we have (She's my first girlfriend but she's had a couple before). I do really care about her and hate hurting her. When she tells me how much she loves me, and how she doesn't want to lose me, I really struggle as it makes me love her (how many people are we going to have love us in such a way in our lives?!) and so I really doubt whether I am doing the right thing.
Our relationship isn't helped by me being away at university and when we're together, it is great. However, I really struggle when we keep going for weeks without seeing each other. I find I forget why I love her and find it frustrating.
I'm pretty sure I want to break up due to the way I have these doubts and how when we're apart, I start to become distant from her and not that interested. I just really don't want to hurt her or regret what i'm doing. Advice would be hugely appreciated.
I can completely understand, and long distance relationships are hard..especially being away at school. Explain to her what you feel, and tell her what you told us. Long Distance is a hard struggle and it isn't easy being that far apart for so long. Ask her maybe to be still friends, and see when the summer or school is done for both of you.. how you would feel in the future about perhaps getting back together, but for now to just remain friends as you are still long distance.
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I have a lot of spare time, now that I'm done with sports and athletics. My friends say I'm pretty, so i'm considering looking for a modeling job? preferably just photography model, I do not want to be an actress or anything. I'm just lost on how to become one. I've done some thinking about this and this is my plan so far..
-get a photoshoot done at a photography place (just like people do for Senior Pictures in high school).
-send those pictures to modeling agencies nearby and see what they say.
But my problem is.. I have no modeling experience. So i'm trying to find newer agencies that will accept new models. Does anyone have any tips or advice?
Also, if I can't find any good modeling agencies online, what do you think about looking on craigslist? I am kinda scared because what if its not a real agency and its just some perv trying to rape someone haha. How can I trust if an agency is real or not? I don't really want to go alone, but I have no one to bring with me..
help!
You can try Monster.com instead and search for jobs.
While sometimes you can trust craiglist, on a topic like this.. I would not. I found myself looking at craigslist a few weeks ago because I myself, ironically am a photography major just about to leave college. Try monster.com and search for agencies that way.
I am a young woman ( 15 years ) of age i need a job and i need it bad i am trying to find a job but there is one problem i don't know where to look and or what place would hire me since im so young could you help me?
As Zane had said, most fast food will hire you at 15, I know McDonald's will hire you at 15. You need work papers from your school.. after you obtain them, you can ask your school what places will hire you at 15.
what the difference between a thong and a g string?
It's the same thing, just 2 different names.
A G-string (alternatively gee-string or gee string) is a type of underwear, a narrow piece of cloth, leather, or plastic, that covers or holds the genitals, passes between the buttocks, and is attached to a band around the hips, worn as swimwear or underwear by women and men. It is also a style of thong swimsuit whose rear area can become so narrow that it would disappear between the wearer's buttocks. The two terms G-string and thong are often used interchangeably; however, they can refer to distinct pieces of clothing. In Australia the term "G-banger" is often used.
Ok I was looking on the internet for about a week now but I cant find the answer im looking for. I have a ipod idk what generation thought but it doesnt have a camera if that helps any but when I try to go on the internet or app store or itues it says "Cannot connect to Itunes Store Invalid argument" I cannot find the answer that I am looking for. I cant reset my router cuz I do home schooling on the computer and if I reset the router it will mess up my schooling. I tried to forget the network and enter it back in again but it just wont work. If you can help please do so. Thanks.
I would contact your local Apple Store.
Edited: October 27, 2011 @ 4:44PM
I'm guessing you do not have a local Apple store you can go to, Apple is very organized and you are not on the one with them for "3 hours." No one here is going to be able to help you if they do not know the generation and such. Obviously this problem isn't that life threating being you are willing to wait for responses from us which you may not get.. rather than calling or going to the store to ask someone who specializes in the company products. If it was me, I'd pick the Apple employee's over advicenators. :)
I had oral sex twice, and before you say anything hear me out. I was 16 years old and very naive. During that time I was going through an emotional and mental roller coaster from abuse to suicide. I'll admit at the point in my life I wasn't 100% there. Even when I did oral sex it wasn't sexual for me, i panic and reacted to the situation. I was always panic when I'm around guys because i was abuse sexually. Anyway, I feel in my heart that I am a virgin because what I did honestly wasn't sexual at all. Am I still a virgin?
I classify virginity as actual sex, where the penis goes inside of a vagina.
If you go by what I classify as a person, then yes you are still a virgin.
well what if a guy has the balls to go flirt with another girl and hold her hand while you were dating him and trys to ignore you , is he trying to get me to dump him! >:(
My opinion is.. that he is done with whatever he had with you, and that you really weren't something to him.
Sorry if it's blunt, but you don't need a guy who does that.
tryin to get back with my ex they just wanna be friends for now theywasnt ready for a relatonship.They said dang back up and give it a rest, put a lil space there then maybe you will get the answers you are lookin for. whats that mean?
They are saying, back up a bit give them space and let them breathe a little.. give them time to think about how they feel and what they want. If you push it too far.. you are going to push them away for good. Give them 5-7 days without talking, and see where that leads.. start off as friends again..and work from there.
Stressing out over what to do the rest of my life..I am stuck between things along the lines of photographer, photojournalist, visual communications, advertising, art therapist, lab assistant, medical researcher, research pharmicist, and business starter.
What would be the most entertaining, long lasting, good paying, hands on, and short enough schooling job out of thoes? it doesnt need to be all of the qualities but generally any opinions as to which way to fall?
I am.. on the same boat you are on.. like no joke. I went from Photography, to Psych, back to Photography.. now I'm trying to figure out what to do myself.. I'm stuck between commerical photography, photojournalism, fashion, children..and art therapy. I decided that I am going to get my Associates in Photography. and then later on once I get my bachelors I am going to get my master's in art therapy when I'm about 28.
All of the schooling takes about the same, depends on the college and the program. Medical often takes a lot longer than art and business.
I discovered what I wanted to do by a book called Photographer's Market I think it's called..as well as Digital Photography: Best Practics and Workflow Handbook. it's basically a job guide of photography jobs, pay rate and etc.
If you need anything else feel free to inbox me :)
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Added at October 26 @ 10:30PM.
Art therapy does require schooling unfortunately a lot of art and psych classes. If you have AIM, IM me at lostraindroopx. :D
What shows up on a debit card statement when you buy a vibrator from http://www.adameve.com/?
Will it say exactly what it is?
Please only answer if you know 100%, no guesses.
It's going to say the company name, and the transaction amount.. it won't say you bought a vibrator.
im 14
well, ive been dating my boyfriend Jonny for about 3 weeks now. & im not 'in love' with him. hes a sweet guy and everything, but im not in love with him like i thought i would have been. me and him went through so much to be togher :/ befor we dated he was my bestfriend. and i always went to him for all my guy problems, and like i cant help but think of other guys sometimes.
i really dont wanna lose him bc i really like him. like, is it a good thing that im not in love so early in the relationship? or should i end it befor it gets seriouse? :/
Your 14... you do not know what love is.. it takes a while for someone to know what love is, it's okay to date your best friend..
If you become in love so early in a relationship, your confusing lust with love.
Okay, so I've been talking to this guy I like for 2 weeks now. We hold hands & he walks me to class & we hug and stuff, but we're not officially together. Today, he was acting really strange. Right after walking me to my class, he was like "Can I talk to you about something at lunch?" and I just said "Okay?." He never did. He just acted really weird, and he asked me why I never really look at him. I hate making straight eye contact too long with anyone. Anyways, before going home..we were waiting by my bus, and I had already hugged him and stuff and he was like "i'll let you go." so I started to walk away..and he goes "wait! give me a hug." and I did, then he said "Why do you always just turn away?" & i was like "..sorry" and he said "Whatever" and left. /:
Later, I texted my friend who he's also friends with. I told her how he had been acting funny today & she told me she thought it was because he told her the week before that he was upset because he didnt think I even liked him because I never look at him & he wanted to kiss me but I always turn away.
I dont know what to do. I think he's mad, and I dont know how to fix it. I wont be able to talk to him till tomorrow, but what should I even say??
I always f**k everything up. /:
It's okay.. just talk to him, rather than wait for him to ask you what he wants to ask you.. ask him instead.. be blunt about how you feel about him, I'm confused on how he doesn't think you don't like if you let him hold your hand, walk you to your class and your bus.. it's okay if you always turn away.. but he can be a tad bit forceful..or even give you a kiss on the cheek when you hug someone... usually a kiss on the cheek can turn into a kiss.
since i was a freshmen & a virgin i have always been bullied and told i was a slut and to be honest i had only kissed one guy and i thought it was just a temporary thing. when i finally lost my virginity at 16 with a guy i liked a lot i had left him for i was embarrassed and ashamed that i didn't wait. so i didn't have sex for the rest of the year until i met another guy who i was with and had sex with him but that didn't last very long and so i went on and didn't have sex for another year and during that time i use to always drink & people just couldn't stop thinking i was a slut and i was having sex with the world so when i had a new boyfriend months later & quit drinking & stayed with him people from my old school kept repeating to him that i was a slut and to be honest it's embarrassing though i know im not & he knows, it sucks because i can't seem to get people to believe me. If i have a guy friend they think i'm doing him too and i hate that, what should i do? by the way i'm 19 now
Just ignore it, they have no lives and they rather talk about you than live their own life.
Trust me.. around this time last year I started talking to a guy I worked with at my old store.. and word got around and people couldn't stop talking about it.. then I left the store I was at..and stopped talking to the guy, I moved for 7 months across country to do an amazing program.. then I moved back home.. and went back to the store I was at before I left.. and 4 people have asked me if he and I still talk... like seriously? I just find it funny and an honor that people are taking their time to talk about me and what not.
Just keep your head up high, smile and think that they have no lives and all they care about is your life.