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My boyfriend is doubting that he's the father of our baby
I met this guy during my vacation in Europe. We fell in love right away because we have the same interest and we are both loyal and devoted when it comes to relationships. We were inseparable for 3 months of my stay in Europe. He already introduced me to his family and stayed to his place a lot of times. When it was time for me to come back to my homeland in Asia, I found out that I was pregnant. We were both happy and promised each other that we will be together soon in the future and that he will be with me when I give birth. We're both so excited for the baby. Although sometimes, we have misunderstandings too because of long distance relationship. Until one night (18 weeks of pregnancy), he told me that there's one time it came to his mind that maybe he is not the father of my child cause I have lots of friends in Europe who are guys. And he one time read into my facebook account that one of my closest friends told me that he wants to have sex with me. But I assure him that I never had sex with anyone else during my stay in Holland and that I was not meeting my friends anymore when I met him, which is so true. He was really sorry that he told this to me and promised me that he will not hurt me anymore. He said that he knows he's the father of the child but he can't just help it thinking about my guy friends. But I am really hurt and I didnt expect it that he will say that to me. I told him that it is the worst thing I've ever heard and that I can never forget it. I want to break up with him because I cant accept it that he thought like that to me, and I felt sorry for my baby that his father once doubt that he's not his. But I love him so much. What is the right decision to make? Thanks in advanced.
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He was just anxious, paranoid, and or missed you from the long distance relationship. If he really loves you it must be unbearably hard to be separated for even a short amount of time, also sparking some jealousy from the guys that see you often. That can really screw with your head and with that said, I would let it go.
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Added onto what Angel already said, If you really want to be sure then have him take a parental test.
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Follow your heart, and do what you heart says is best for you and your child. This decision should be truly your choice.. because down the road you don't want to regret losing him or staying with him when your unhappy all because of people on an advice website said.
In my opinion, it sounds he is just sounded a tad jealous of your other guy friends, and that's all.
As I said.. follow your heart, only you know what is best for you and your child.
Best of luck.
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