are you spossed to shave..'down there'? i dont know what to do, because i dont want to feel stupid when i do stuff with a guy(i havent yet) and im shaved or unshaved..when im not spossed to be or whatever, do most girls shave all of it? or just the bikini area?((thats all i do, but im not sure))..help! lol DOES IT HURT TO SHAVE IT ALL!?!DONT U CUT URSELF?..lol im sorry i need to know this stuff! i dont know what to do!!
and i shave a little..of corse but where i shave it, i get little bumps and they dont itch or anything but how do i get rid of them!!!
Ok wow (lol) Well it doesn't really matter if you shave down there or not... uh Personally I don't *Shave Down There* I just shave the bikini area ha, ha. But I don't think it would hurt to shave it all but you would have a high chance to cut yourself (lol) so there is a possibility that it will hurt a lil*. But I don't know how you would get rid of the (lil) bumps. Because like I said I don't do that so yeah. Good Luck With That! :) If you need anymore advice (uh *sure* you can ask me about something like this again ha, ha) but yeah anything else I can most likely help you with to just ask me :)! Hope I Helped You Out A Lil*.
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I got my lip periced last year and that hurt like woah. Does getting your tounge peirced hurt worse
Yes! That's just my opinion though ha, ha. I would just think and all because your tongue is nothing but muscle and your lip is just like extra skin. Its like getting your earlobe peirced it wouldn't hurt as much ya* know? But yeah "Hope I Helped With That (lol)! Good Luck! :)
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okay so my mom smokes and i hate it.. like all my clothes smell like smoke b/c our house always smells like it and my teachers look at me evilly b/c i smell like smoke but i cant do anything about it do you know any way to either get my mom to stop smoking or to like at least have my house not smell like it all the time?!
Well, ok my mom used to smoke and she finally quit becuase I wouldn't stop telling her that it can kill you, give you lung cancer, yellow teeth, and stinky ass breath. And she finally gave in and quit :). Just tell her how you feel about her smoking and if she really cares about you she would listen and atleast attempt to try and quit that habit of smoking. Ok Hope I Helped You A Lil* :)! Good Luck! If you need anymore advice just ask me and I most likely can give you some more.
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What do you think is the best way to figure out if a guy likes you? Lets say....you think there is a pretty high chance he does....so what do you think?
ps-i rate anyone who tries to answer this question! youre making my day by just helping me out on this!
Ok well you just straight out ask him what he feels for you and it may be the answer you were looking for might not be if its not then yeah he's not worthy. Then tell him how you feel! And you might be on a good path from there. :) Good Luck! Hope I Helped A Lil*!
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ok how do you tell your mom without hurting her that you dont really like her? I mean I like her sometimes when shes not grumpy but I dont like school, friends or anything I hate sports now and all I want to do is go to my cousins and go to their school. I love my mom but sometimes I need my time and when I go to my cousins I feel wanted and I have friends there. My mom doesnt get it tho becuz my cousins are my friends and they love their school and I want to love my school too but I want my school it to be their school. lately I have been so depressed it doesnt look like I am but anything can make me cry now and thats not me, when I got hurt I didnt cry but I cry when things get bad with me and people i mean at basketball i just start to cry cuz im so frustrated with everything I dont like it here I only have a few friends and I think I could go on without them please help me.
Well, ok first of all you have to love your mom. She brought you here. So I would truthfully skip the first question. Just think as it this way if she died tomarrow... how would you react
1) thank god now I can live a happy life
2) Oh My God mom I love you don't leave me.
Just think about ^ that ok. But you can't really do anything about the skewls* so I would just try and make the best of it. And be more open and outgoing get *MORE* friends it will be good for your social skills. And oh well if you don't like sports try them anyways you never know till* you try. Don't be so frusterated just take all that fustration and put it away somewhere like take all that stress and do something to relief it but NOT by like cutting yourself and attempting to kill yourself ok? Just relax life will get better and go on. Hope I Helped Just A Lil* :)! Good Luck. If you need anymore advice ask me and I will mostly likely be able to give you some ok.
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i love this guy that is 18 and i am 13 he loves me too but my mom dont like him but she is judging him before she meets him jsut cuz his age!! she has forbidden me to talk to him how do i get her to understand???
help me please!!! FAST!!!
signed : *Love HURTz*
p.s. rate high!!!
Well, there is no way to make her understand. No affense but you have to stand down on this one. I'm not a mother but if I was yours I would forbid you to talk and/or see him.. becuase well she trusts you just not him. I mean come on guys are pigs at age 10 he's already 8 years older than that and his hormones are goin* fast. Sorry but I can't help you there I just wanted to tell you that. :\ If you have anymore advice not about this though. Then ask me I most likely will be able to give you better advice then this one :)! Sorry again.
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Okay, well i'm 15 and i have never had a boyfriend, i really want one, but i dont think anyone likes me. I don't think that i am shy, and i don't think i'm that ugly to not have a boyfriend. Do you have any advice that could help me feel better or any advice that would help me get a boyfriend.
Well, I could tell you somethings that I did to get the guy I am with right now. Pick your best *Guy* friend if you don't have one go up to the boyy you like most and just start to talk to him. Then once you get to know him a lil* better just be a lil* more open to him. Ask him how he feels about you. And then tell him how you feel about him. It should go on smoothly from there but if he says I just think of you as a friend then still tell him what you really feel. Just think before you do it and follow your heart it should lead you most of the way. Hope I Helped You! :)
If you need more advice you can ask me again. I will most likely be able to help you out again.. I mean if I even did this time.
Good Luck! :)
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i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.
Well, I will tell you what I have told everyone else that is *semi* to this question. Follow to what your heart tells you. Don't worry about what other ppl* think.. Remember if you do worry about what ppl* think all the time then how are you gonna* get through life! So yeah just like him for him and believe what you wanna* believe. The real person that can give you advice is you I can just help you think of what you can do. Hope I Helped You :)! Good Luck! If you need more advice ask me I might know what your looking for :).
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Whenever I eat something in front of my boyfriend, I get all embaressed. I guess its because Im afraid I'll get food on my lips or face or something like that, so I only take a bite when he's looking away. Its so weird - I dont even notice Im doing it until he says something to me. I feel stupid eating when he's staring right at me tho. Does anyone have any suggrestions for what I can do to fix this ? Thanks a million.
Well, I was embaressed eating in front of my boyyfriend too then I just got used to it because it has almost been 5 months and all but that habit will soon fade away. You can just think that he is one of your family members and eat the way you do with them (lol) Hope I Helped You! :) Good Luck!! If you need more advice then just ask me I most likely can give you more advice!
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I will rate if you answer!
I really like this guy and I am going to tell him I like him. What is a good way to tell him? I want to "seduce" him with my words (lol). Thanks!
Hmm... Well,
1) Try and get his attention
2) Say I need to tell you something
3) Take him somewhere, where no one else is around
4) Ask him what he feels for you
5) Then tell him what you feel for him
6) Go on from there (lol)
^ Hope I Helped you :)! Good Luck.
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13/f. I have this friend. We've been friends for two years already. Well, he's nice a lot. We make jokes and all. But other times he makes me upset. He talks badly about my friends. He also always comments on my profile on AIM. He tells me somehow how I'm wrong in what I put, or how it's dumb. He promises time and time again to keep my crushes a secret, but tells them anyway. Half of our grade finds out and soon enough I'm a laughing stock. I no longer tell him but sometimes when he's nice I do it anyway. In person he's got a really great personality. We used to date in 6th grade and he was the sweetest guy. When we broke up he talked about all the things I didn't do perfectly when we were going out. He makes me upset basically just online. So what do I do?
Personally, I would just stop talking to him online for good. Because I'm sure that you shouldn't be treated that way. Hell! No one should. Maybe you should just start ignoring him in person as well see if he does anything because that sounds to me that he can't say it to your face he has to say it online and bullshit like that because he knows its not true and/or is to (don't want to say pussy) but pussy (lol) to talk shit to your face. Don't take it from him no more. But be nice. Just talk to him about that and how you feel about it all. He should listen if he really is your *Friend* if he doesn't listen and won't stop then just forget him (until he finally wants to listen). If you need more advice ask me I'm sure I could give you some more advice or even better! :) Good Luck. Hope I Helped You In Some Way.
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hey I need help. I'm 13 and my friend likes this guy I like and we were best buds now I hate her. She thinks she should be the only one to have a boyfriend and she thinks i'm to shy to talk to him. HELP!!! ps i'm a girl LOL
Well, prove her wrong. By talking to this guy. No affense but your friends a bitch for saying that. Just try to win the guy over but don't be mean. Don't stoop down to her level. That's all the advice I can possibly give you. If you need more advice then just ask me. I will mostly likely be able to help you. Good Luck!!! :)
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um hey one of my friends is having a party at this place where our friends go for dances. i love going there, but (the dances are held twice a month) i have no beat and no rythem and usually i dont dance because im afraid people will laugh at my poor skills. i also dont know what to wear. im pretty much broke and my mom is pretty srict about what i wear. if anyone could help me. that would be great! thanx!
Well, you might just think I'm saying this becuase of what I'm about to say but I'm somewhat of a hip~hop dancer. And I just dance now and don't worry (either becuase I was told I dance good no need to be shy) or becuase of one of my bestfriends gave me good advice as well she said "Don't think about what other ppl* think of how you dance. Just dance." So I took that and got better by dancing in front of ppl* and them givin* me advice by saying you can do this instead of that and stuff like that. And you should wear something somewhat hott* and since your broke something that you already have possesion over. But make sure its appropiate for your mom. I'm sure all moms wouldn't wanna* see their daughters dressing like sluts. But yeah just make sure you show off your *Low* dance skills and don't worry too much about what ppl* think because if your one of those girls that worries about what ppl* think about them then I honestly don't know how your gonna* make it through life. All ppl* judge other ppl* its just an instinct. Hope I Helped You atleast a lil*! Good Luck. :)
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im a 13f and i just got my first thong. is it slutty to have one at my age? ill rate! thanx
No not really, Unless it becomes visable to others hah. Mostly men But yeah no i wouldn't say its slutty! So yeah go buy a whole shit load of them. :) Hope I gave you good advice ha, ha. Good Luck With That!
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Before I begin I want to say that I am not complaining, I absolutely love my mom and my life.
So my problem is my mom's yelling. It's almost like she feels that she cannot get anything across to my siblings and I unless she yells. Sometimes she is even too busy yelled that she doesn't realize that we have already done the things she's asked us to do. I've tried talking to her about it several times. My younger sister once told her that sometimes she doesn't listen to my mom because of her shouting at us all the time. Talking to her never works. I can understand that she is very stressed out at times and wants to come home without any trouble. But instead of asking us to do something, she'll say something like “GET OFF THE TV/COMPUTER AND CLEAN THE GAME ROOM NOW!!!” I'm even embarrassed by it at times because she does it while we have friends over also. I don't think she's simply asked us to do anything in a year.
I want to know if anyone ones anyway I can get through to her. And once again, the talking about to her does not work. I can't even talk to her about anything any more. It feels as if she just does not like having us around even though I know it's not true.
My parents are divorced so it's not like he can help. He lives in Iowa while we live in Texas.
Well, before she starts to yell just do everything like clean all the rooms like do things for *~Her~*. My mom is the same way. *She hears but doesn't listen* I get ya* but you gotta* learn to respect her even though she does all the things she does. There is a reason for why she's doing this. There is always a reason you just can't see the reason yet. I don't know what else to tell you. But you can probably get through to her just by doing what I adviced you to do it may work it may not. If not just tell her you love her more often and just hang out with her a lil* more. :) Sorry but I have nothing else to say. Hope I helped you a lil* if not I'm sorry.
Good Luck!
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My mom was mad at my dad because a few days ago he went to New York without letting my mom know (he works there he didn't run off). Then like a day later my mom went to go pick up my brother somewhere and my dad thought they were just going to the highschool to pick him up but then they went to another town to another town. My dad didn't know that and he had a meeting to go to so he told me to tell my mom when she came home. Well a couple hours later my brother calls and is like "Tell dad we're coming home now and that we're sorry we were so late," and I'm like dad is not here why didn't you call eailer. Well anyway I got mad and my brother put my mom on the phone and I'm like "You can't be mad at dad anymore for not telling you where he was going," and she got mad and didn't say anything so i apologized and sahe just said bye. Now I think my mom is mad at me and my question is how do I get her to forgive me? Thank you I'll rate fives just for reading this.
Well, ok you need to appologize to her again and again until she *Finally* gives in. She just needs to understand what your coming from. Ya know? You gotta* let her know what you really meant. But if she doesn't forgive just leave her be for a while and she will come to you and forgive you sooner or later. I mean come on she's a mom she can't be madd at you forever. It's her job to always be there for you. Hope I helped! Good Luck With Your Mom! :)
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I recently ran into a guy who I have known since we were little kids.It's been a long time since we've seen each other,and I always had a crush on him when we were young,and I didn't wanna let myself feel it again but when we ran into each other it brought back all those feelings.Anyway,my BFF,tho I love her,she...well,sleeps around a lot,and she right away started saying how hot this guy is and how much she wanted to *get* with him.I asked her to please not do anything with him because I do still like him,and it would hurt my feelings a lot.She said she can't guarantee that she couldn't do it,and that she's "taking a chance" with him.Basically,she's gonna go 4 it anyway.She says he told her he couldn't date me because it's me(meaning we go back so far as friends and our families were real tight).And she tells me he asked if it was ok if he called HER sometime.But when we were all hangin together he was acting interested in me and seemed...less than amused or interested by her.It's breaking my heart that she's gonna do this.The thought of them together makes me sick to my stomach.I've had nightmares,been unable to sit still,felt sick to my stomach,all because I'm so upset over this.But she says she basically doesn't care,and that she's not gonna fight and I can "take it how I want".What should I do? Even the mere idea that he would be into her is mind boggling to me,and especially cuz he really wasn't all actin like that,he kept huggin me and talkin about old times,and he even talked to my mom on the phone for God's sake!And the idea that he would ever be into her makes me feel sick.I cried all night last night and all morning this morning. HELP!!Thanks,I'll rate ya!
Well, ok if this guy doesn't want to go out with you because he always known you as family and just nothing more than a friend or best friend then I would agree with him and just get over him and find someone new like they say *there's more than one out there*! :) But if your friend says she can't garauntee that she won't hurt your feelings then that's not a true friend either becuase 1) I would ~Never~ do that to one of my friends nor would they do that to me 2) You deserve to be treated better most likely because you sound sweet and all. But you do need to get over him because first of all if you and your friend and him are hanging out and he *Finally* notices you that means that he needs someone there to show off that he can get you. That's my advice to you. Talk to your friend once more and if she don't listen screw her *Not litterally* haha but yeah and get over that guy. Becuase if he really cared or had feelings for you then he wouldn't be all up in your bestfriends shit ya know? Well hope i helped good luck :)!!
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I am 16 years old and I have been through hell and back! My mom was with a guy for nine years and I was molested by him. Now every year she is with a new guy. In February I was raped by my brother in-law and my mom didn't believe me at first, I was called a liar and I was told that I asked for it, the cops didn't even believe me until I took a polygraph test! I eventually got away from my mom because she hit me one day. I was living with one of her friends which kicked me out of her house for smoking cigs (She knew before I moved in that I was a smoker and I NEVER smoked in her house or even on her property!) I tried to kill myself because I didnt want to go back to my mom, i was placed in a mental institution for 4 months and now I am living with my mom again! She of course is with another guy. In the last few weeks my mom has had two strokes because of her boyfriend yelling and threatning her! I can't take it! I have enough problems of my own and the other night I tried to kill myself again! I dont want to end up back in the hospital and my moms new boyfriend is cool as long as they aren't fighting. I am scared that my mom is going to get hurt and I am going to end up dead because the slightest things make me want to cut, burn, or die! I still don't feel close to my mom, but I spent so long fighting her and finally gave in. I have no where to go but back to the hospital and I dont want that! WHAT DO I DO!
Well, you need to stop that bullshit cutting and attempting to kill yourself that will get you back into the mental institution quick dont ya* think? You just need to try and handle things better. Like find something else that reliefs your pain and stress. Yeah I know why ppl* cut becuase I used to be one too like a year ago then i quit becuase I found someone. And also because I found out expressing my feelings on paper relieved a *lot* of pain and stress. Tell your mom what you really think about and go on from there. Just please don't cut, burn, or attempt to kill yourself again I don't want ~anyone~ to hurt themselves. It will be ok just find another way to take all your pain out. For example:
1) Scream in your pillow ha, ha sometimes I still do that
2) Start to write and express your feelings with a piece of paper and a pen/pencil
3) Just take a couple of breaths and just chill
^Hope I helped you a lil*
Good Luck!!
Please don't do any of those things again :(
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Well, about four years ago, my father divorced my mother. It took a little over three years for the divorce to go through. During that time, my father treated me like crap. He was constantly yelling at me, picking on me, and just making me completely miserable. On time, he told his family that I should go to fat camp, and they all laughed at me. He's called me "fat, ugly, stupid, and a piece of sh**." I tried running away, but he caught me, and dragged me back. He also dropped me off on the side of a highway in the middle of winter, and drove off. He lead me to become so depressed, I would hurt myself.
Their divorce was finaliazed, but we had to move our of our house and move in with my grandma. I still visit him on Fridays and Sundays. He's been making us look at houses for him, which makes me really upset. He won't support us at all because he claims he has no money, but he owns his own business, and I've done some detective work, and found out how much he makes. I hate going with him because all we do is look at houses, and it bothers me because we had to move out of our house. My 16th birthday was in September and not one person from his side of the family realized how old I was. My father didn't even have a cake for me. This was one of the most important birthdays for a girl, and he totally ignored it. He just left yesterday to go with his girlfriend to Florida, and didn't even invite us, and also waited until the night before to tell us he was going. He doesn't plan on seeing us when he moves to Florida in a couple of years. Should I just stop goign with him? I'm 16-years-old, and I would rather spend my Friday nights with my friends. I want to have a father, but not one that makes me feel so crappy. What should I do? Should I continue to visit him for the sake of having a father, or should I just forget about him? Thank you so much for helping!
Well, personally I think he's an asshole and he's the one that's the shitty person becuase he isn't even mature enough to raise you or even treat you like you should be treated. I would stop visiting him that's just me but if you would rather just visit him just to have a father hey be my guest. But would you rather stop feeling shitty on those Friday nights or instead just hang out with your friends and chill? I would just stop visiting him completely he probably wouldn't care anyways of what your saying about him. Just leave him be and see if he responds to you about not visiting anymore. Good luck with your dad problems! Hope i helped atleast a lil*
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OKay my 2 friends and i are in a fight because it all began when they started taking drugs, smoking, and drinking! i felt uncomfortable so i left them alone and i kind of ignore them too! so anyway today my other friend tells me to come sit at the same table as them i did! well they didn't give me the time of day! last i heard one of them is smoking weed afterschool and it all started with these girls they have been hanging out with! What should i do? My other friend is determined to get us to be friends again! I 've already tried talking to the 2 of them but they won't listen! What should I do? I rate!!
Well, you should tell those 2 *friends* of yours how you feel about it that you don't like them hurting themselves like that (once more). And if they don't listen to you (again) and do it anyway then they really don't care so that means they aren't really your friends. Just talk to them as soon as you can and be very persuasive before someone *~*Quote*~* Really Gets Hurt!! I have seen ppl* in the hospital for overdosing themselves on drugs. It wasn't a pretty sight. So just go along with it and do what your heart tells you to do. Remember if they don't listen they truley were never your friends... Hope I have helped you a lil* Good luck with that!!
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