My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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I have very dark brown hair, almost black, and I was looking to lighten it with Natural Instincts. Do you think that would work? What shade would you recommend? (link)
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I Have Very dark almost black hair too. in fact i was think of getting it highlighted. My aunt is a hair stylist and with me she recommended Carmel, like not light light but just warm and dark a bit.
You could try that.
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idk,i'am just so sad right now and like my tears are just coming down :[ last night he was across the street and he had this thing that has a red light and he put it on my window and wen i opened it he was in the other side of th street and i just close the window on him,he didnt even cross the street not even to give me a kiss or to say hi :'[
im soo disapointed,i dont know what to do..
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So your disappointed because he didn't cross the street? See Sweety what i think the reason is why he didn't cross the street is because he is creating space between you two because he knows you need it or that you told him you didn't want to speak or see him and he is respecting that but this is a his way of telling you he still wants you, or wants to talk. So it's like an election right now you don't know which way he is going to turn.
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aww tank you,and i talked to him today,but this morning my boyfriend was sitting down at the table and then my best friend came and started giving him a massage on the shulders,then after that she started pushing him and then she stopped.then i stood up because it was time to leave and he stayed there sitting down and i left and then he started chassing me.and everytime i stand up he always stands up too.i just think he wanted my friend to do it again prob because that turns him on or something.idk.i dont know i just need some advice on this one,cuz nobody will help me.i dont even know what type of friend is that. :(
if you were in this situation what will you do..? (link)
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Well it seems to me that maybe you know why he isn't spending that much time with you, ever think he's cheating on you? Or maybe this is a message to you to either do something like this to him also or maybe it is a message to get out of that relationship while you are ahead of the game. if i was you i would be mad, i would try to cool down and then think of my possibility which i just listed. I am not one to point fingers at a cheater but it does sound odd that she would even come up behind him and do that to him and he allowed it, in front of you at the worst. i would think of talking to this girl, and than maybe him. try to find a piece of ground on this subject and if it doesn't look good on either stories i would get out alive with a little bit of dignity left. But on the bright side this could all be a misunderstanding and you'll move on and be happy and work things out with him, like in one of those fairy tales your mother used to tell you. One can only hope.
Always here to help!
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ok,so i have a boyfriend and he works from monday to saturday,he only comes to my house on friday,and saturday because on sunday's he has to help his brother at work,when he comes to my house he comes around 7 in dha night.and when there is no school he goes to work he dont even bother to stay with me,but if i tell him oh there is no school tomorrow come to my house to have sex then there he would come right away.is like i dont get it,on saturday he came at 8 in dha night with his friend and i was kind of pist because he came at that time,sometimes i think he dosent'even cares,because i think that if he was a tru man he would come on sundaysz nd spend a litle time with me and then leave.tomorrow i aint even gonna look at him,if yu were in my position what will you do,nd sorry if this si too lonq,i just nedd someone to help me cuz i dont have nobody to help me :[ (link)
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You Know i never see a girl with a relationship as good as gold so your not alone. I will say to you that i think you are wanting what every women wants a perfect man without looking at the flaws. why do you think he doesn't care? is it because of the time he spends with you or is it because of the way he spends his time with you? every one has something they want to work towards so maybe he loves his job and helping his brother but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you. i can see where you getting at with the come spend the night thing, but did you every think that maybe that is not what crosses his mind. i can see the reaction in him that says that he wants to but i believe this guy is preoccupied and you need to either talk to him about it, which is what i would do. or you could find something to preoccupy your time as well. another good choice well if you need any more help, i am always here and always wanting to help.
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anybody give me some tips or step clear my head (link)
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Ten Clear Thinking Techniques And Tips
1. Take a walk. Science will eventually prove this to be a great way to improve the quality of your thinking, but don't wait for the proof. Aren't there enough other reasons to take a walk anyhow?
2. Stay away from sugar. If you want to understand what brain fog is, eat a sugary donut on an empty stomach, then do math problems twenty minutes later. What you will experience, along with the "sugar blues," is brain fog. At least lay off sugar and simple carbohydrates when you need to think clearly.
3. Organized space means clear thinking. It's rare that a person can actually work better in clutter. Organised working space means you won't have the thought "where is that..." distracting your mind.
4. Get better sleep. Sleep requirements vary, but the minimum for most is somewhere around five hours. Some suffer if they sleep less than eight hours. The research, however, indicates that after a certain minimum quantity, the quality of sleep is more important to normal brain function.
5. Try meditating. No time? Just close your eyes, relax, and watch your breath for a while. Accept that your mind will wander, but continually return your attention to your breath. Five minutes of this, and afterwards you'll feel a boost in your brainpower.
6. Resolve your "mind irritations." Watch your busy brain. Maybe a call you need to make has been bothering you, just below consciousness. Find these stressors, and do something to let them go. For example, make that call, or put it on a list, and your mind will let go of it for now. Just seeing a problem and saying, "There's nothing I can do about this until Friday," will often stop unconscious worrying.
7. Don't drink alcohol. At least don't drink too much. While moderate amounts can be conducive to creative thinking, all the evidence says that it is bad for the long-term health of your brain.
8. Make decisions quickly. Nothing gets in the way of clear thinking like a dozen decisions hanging around unmade. If nothing else, decide when you'll make the decision.
9. Get some fresh air. Go outside and breath deeply through your nose. You'll get a good dose of oxtgen to your brain, and the change of surroundings can help clear your mind.
10. Satisfy your physical needs. Clear thinking is easier if you aren't too hungry, thirsty, or hot.
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I'm in college and I have a few good friends. I'm not shy, I'm just very picky and cautious about befriending people and trusting them. I do not go out alot. Some college girls like to party, but I'd rather just relax and watch a movie at home. I'm not incredibly social, and it's mostly because I choose to be this way. Is this a really bad problem/issue? I've had boyfriends and big groups of crazy friends before, but now, I'm more into family and studying. (link)
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your like me in a way, and i don't find being this way a problem. but i would say you should make sometime maybe once a month or once every two months to go out and hang with your friends. it's good for you and it keeps those friends your not to picking about close.
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k my mother met this guy some time through a friend but i never met him. while we were in memphis she was going to go out to the club with him and spend the night at his house and she didnt even ask me if i was ok with it ( i was going to stay with my cousins). then the next night she was going to stay over there again but i got sick so she didnt go. and now he is coming into town and staying at our house and im not ok with it at all. i mean she divorced my dad when i was six and i cannot have some strang man sleeping in my house. i'm not ready to meet him yet at all so i volunteered to sleep at my grandmas but my mother said she was going to have him sleep in his truck after i suggested it. my question is if she says they are just friends why is he going to be sleeping in our house. and why do i feel like i cant trust a man in my house at night. ( i tend to stay up until they leave then go to sleep) i hope you can help because i know this question probably made no sense i am just so uncomfortable right now (link)
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If i were you i would try talking about this to your mother this may help. i think you have a problem with guys staying over in your house because you don't know them or what they would do. so buy a lock and put it on your door and even try to get to know the guy first hand. this may clear up the trust problem with them. try to think back to when you first got this problem and why, thinking back could help you find the problem and a easy way to fix it.
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just like the title says. im 17/male. and i guess for a dude, when i find a girl i like, i mean really like. i fall hard for them. then something happens, and it ends. but my problem now is this girl who i've known for about 6 months or so. and around aug. sept. we got serious. but it was wierd b/c, we really wasnt "going out" but we acted liked it. in sept. we went to the fair together, made out, had alot of fun. but we still wasnt "going out".and i asked her out, she said no, and basicly the reason was b/c shes best friends with one of her exs. and that was the reason b/c the dude don't really like me. and me and the girl told each other we loved each other all the time. but still wasnt "going out". and few weeks after we went to the fair, we started drifting apart, and i asked just the other day if she still loved me. she tells me that just as a friend. and basicly she jumped the gun when we went to the fair. so im hurting bad. still love her/like her w/e. and it sucks. can't sleep. don't eat much. and idk what to do really. so just some guideance would be really nice. (link)
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If i were you i would try to be friends with her again. this will help you with the feeling you have. it might draw you closer together though. i would also say that you should move on with someone else or try to get her ex to like you so she would consider going out with you and your current feeling wouldn't be a waste.
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 months and we're really close and shit im not sure if i should tell him tht i cut myself cause i dnt want him to find out from anyone else but eventually hes going to so i dnt know.im not sure how he would react cause hes like rlly straight edge and like an effin saint sooo wht should i do????????????
btw no lectures pleez
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I believe you should be straight up honest and tell him, because if you don't someone else will or he'll see the marks and ask about them. if he doesn't like it, he'll lecture you and maybe even get mad. but at least you can say you were honest with him and got it off your chest. the sooner you do it the better you'll feel and the less you'll have to worry about.
good luck.
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I recently lost my virginity to a guy i barely know... He was really feeling me & i really was feeling him, I was comfortable with having sex with him, But now he wont answer his phone tha last time we spoke he wanted to hang out but i had school and i havent spoke to him since. What could that mean? Does it mean he doesnt want to be bothered with me anymore? Gie me some advice.... (link)
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Well it seems to me that maybe this guy is one of those hit and run guys if you catch my meaning. He may just be to busy to answer his phone, or maybe he doesn't want to be bother with you because of the fact he is the hit and run guy. So you can look at your issues in a positive and negative way. But which it is you'll find out sooner or later.
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is it weird to look at another girl and have feelingd for that person (link)
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What do you mean? do you mean like a girl you used to know, or date? well if it is in that case than no it's not uncommon because you can never unlove someone and it doesn't matter if your completely over that person or not memories make your emotions want to push and earn to remember that person and feel it all over again. It's weird how the mind and emotions work, and no one has figure it out complete yet.
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why do people sound different from themselves on recordings? (link)
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Well you may think you sound one way, but you don't. you can't really hear your own voice when you talk, like you know what it sounds like. Or do you mean like when a singer is singing? that could be that the company remixed his/hers voice.
Hope i helped.
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what are some things to talk about when you're just getting to know a guy that you're attracted to? i dont want to be boring or have long awkward pauses (which always happens) so im kind of nervous (link)
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Try talking about him or your self. this way you learn more about him and he with you and you can grow closer. Also try talking about sports, his favorite team or yours. or you can talk about current events, like news, festivals, movies. get use to pauses can even in on going relationships it sometimes happens only then it doesn't seem so weird.
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Okay so I am 4'11" and I'm about 115 pounds or so.. I know I'm not fat, so don't get me wrong, and I know I'm not like a twig either. But I just would like to be in better shape, so what are some good exercises? Atleast once a week I run three miles, and I try to eat healthy. But any tips? (: (link)
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My best guess it to keep running, maybe join track at your school, (if you go to one.) or get involved in a sport. this is a great way to get and stay in shape or you could do push up, crunches, or just rent some exercise tapes and go to town.
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My family is horible. My sister and brother constantly call me fat and ugly. I'm always in the position where it comes off like i'm the mistake of the family. I'm short tempered, but I can control it but not with them. It's like I can control it at school, with my friends and everywhere, just not with them. I don't know why. I've tryed to talk it out with them, but it comes up empty. I'm just really ready to be done with them. Tonight my school is having a bonfire where the whole school goes and celebrates for homecomming and i can't go. Then i'm grounded this weekend--with the homecoming dance. I'm grounded for 7 weeks, well now 5 because I asked why I was grounded for a weekend prior to that. Make sence? Anyway, I get this attitude. I don't know what to do. I have no one to talk to. I'm not suicidal. I want to go away to bording school, anything would be better than this.
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If you want to go to bording school keep pushing for it. Also try to strength you self confidence by wearing things you normally wouldn't and getting out of your comfort zone alot. also when the grounding over try to get out of the house as much as possible and hold your tough completely around your family maybe that will make a tiny bit of a difference. but mainly i suggest working with your self image and confidence and trying to make your self seem worth wild before you try to show anyone else. Try not to let them faze you, make it see like your emotionless around them. when they see it no longer effects you it will stop or at any rate slow down and hopefully become rare. For the thing you got going on with your parents i would say just to stay clear of them, do what they say and don't give any options or else that might start something they don't like and through you back in grounding jail for another 7 weeks. (That Sucks!!) Hope it all works out and if you want to get away from them all bording school might be your best bet you never know. go after what you want and push towards your dreams also don't let them faze you when they you as you already found out they can take more power over you than they have.
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here's the deal theirs this guy named justin who i really want to impress so i try dressing up but my hair or make-up alwais gets ruined cuz it's last period so my make-up starts to smudge and stuff. and when i think i look good i find out a zit or pimple has popped up oh how to impress this guy withh alll my flaws >=(
Grrrr.........Please gimme any kind of advice.! (link)
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My best advice is too stop stressing yourself out so much that is why your getting these zits. and fix your make up before the end of the day, go to the bathroom and redo it. than you'll look good, impress him and will learn how not to stress yourself out.
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like theres these guys that i'm going to hang out with tomorrow. so i need and answer fast. i've hung out with them before with my friends who are alos coming tomorrow.
well how can i like flirt without seeming TO flirtatious.
or without my friends really noticing. only the guy.
haha thank youu!! (link)
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I know this answer is a little late, but really if they pick up on thing fast your friends will know even before you realize your flirting. flirting is a very noticable thing that anyone even the dumbest person in the world can pick up on, it's just they guy that it's aimed towards might not get the body language.
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I am thirteen
I am a girl
so there is this EXTREMELY cute boy who is right next to me in the locker bay. I have a crush on him and i don't know, but I think he might like me too. I talk to him a lot on IM but when it comes to talking in person,
1. he is really shy
2. there is not much time to talk at school
3. Ibecome overwhelmed by his cuteness (yes he is that cute
so they are pretty short conversations. Also i think his friends make fun of him saying stuff like "ohhh you like her" when he talks to me which i am sure doesn't make it any easier for him.
what are some ways to make talking in person easier? (link)
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My best guess upon your situation is to just, get him away from his friends and speak to him. that way some of the pressure is off. also you can try to ask him to go do something with you and a bunch of friends and get to know him better and stuff like that. that will make talking to him easier and all that. for the cute factor i would try just to cut loose and try to push that in the back of your mind. if you even have to make a stupid subject to talk about do that will prepare you for further conversation with him and get you two more comfortable around each other.
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I really want to learn how to play the guitar; however, I am a total beginner and I have no idea to look for when purchasing a guitar. I need some advice on where to begin!
Since I am just learning how to play, which guitar is best to begin on: acoustic or electric?
How much should I expect to spend on a good guitar for beginners? How long should a guitar last me? A lifetime? A couple of years?
I have seen some cool brands called Gibson, Ibanez, Fender, and Peavey. Which brand is best to start on though? I know the model or style might vary according to what stage you are in playing so any information on finding the right guitar for me is appreciated.
I want to end up playing some Jonas Brothers songs. I really love the Jonas Brothers and I think they have great music. The Jonas Brothers' songs don't sound too difficult to learn, I think, but I have no idea where to start. I know I need to look for guitar tabs for the Jonas Brothers but I don't know where I buy guitar tabs at or where to find guitar tabs online! If anyone could direct me to that as well, I would be thrilled.
As a note, I do plan on basically teaching myself how to play. My best friend plays a little bit and she has agreed to help me start out since she taught herself how to play guitar.
Any and all information is welcome! (link)
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I was there. I started on acoustic, but i think you can start on either, but the electric is heaver. i have an acoustic electric now. I spent 200 for my guitar from American Musical supply and got the amp and the picks and CDs, lesson dvds and the works. Bad part it broke, i mean just broke it didn't fall or anything, just broke, in a really bad place too. but i took it to a guitar shop and they glued it for me perfectly. and that only ran 30 dollars. so what i am getting at is it can pretty much last a life time if you get an adult sized guitar and you have someone to fit it when worst comes to worst. For finding the right guitar i would talk to the person going to give you lessons. on an acoustic i believe it doesn't really matter cause i started with one brand and been playing for three years. it was an eipiphne. My best guess for you is to get a guitar teacher cause they will take you to the top and they know pretty much where to get and do everything. Don't get me wrong your friend might be really good, but there may be some things that she can't teach that a guitar teacher might and they are inexpensive for lessons. (Or at least mine was.) I get some of my songs on line and i mostly get them a e-cords.com
So have a great time playing.
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i learned in school that 47 major drugs come from te rainforest, and keeping it would be a good idea so that we can have more drug possibilities. This got me thinking: companies cut down tree's of the rainforest for timber, but is the rainforest more valuable as timber or as it is? whats your opinion? :) (link)
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I believe it is more valuable as it is because of the thousand of animals and insects that live there. plus when can contract medicines for newly found illness from those trees, plants and ect. I also believe that if they want to cut down the trees they can cut them down somewhere else cause it really is doing a number on what is in there and what we can have and learn from it.
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