aww tank you,and i talked to him today,but this morning my boyfriend was sitting down at the table and then my best friend came and started giving him a massage on the shulders,then after that she started pushing him and then she stopped.then i stood up because it was time to leave and he stayed there sitting down and i left and then he started chassing me.and everytime i stand up he always stands up too.i just think he wanted my friend to do it again prob because that turns him on or something.idk.i dont know i just need some advice on this one,cuz nobody will help me.i dont even know what type of friend is that. :(
if you were in this situation what will you do..?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Kittzen answered Monday November 3 2008, 10:39 pm: Well it seems to me that maybe you know why he isn't spending that much time with you, ever think he's cheating on you? Or maybe this is a message to you to either do something like this to him also or maybe it is a message to get out of that relationship while you are ahead of the game. if i was you i would be mad, i would try to cool down and then think of my possibility which i just listed. I am not one to point fingers at a cheater but it does sound odd that she would even come up behind him and do that to him and he allowed it, in front of you at the worst. i would think of talking to this girl, and than maybe him. try to find a piece of ground on this subject and if it doesn't look good on either stories i would get out alive with a little bit of dignity left. But on the bright side this could all be a misunderstanding and you'll move on and be happy and work things out with him, like in one of those fairy tales your mother used to tell you. One can only hope.
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