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Q: 13/m
A year ago i met this girl in 4th period. We instinly became really good friends. After a few weeks we started flirting a little bit. Over the summer i didnt see her but i thought to myself if i liked her. I still liked this one girl so i knew that i didnt. in the beginning of this school year i decicded to ask her out. She said no. A few days later this one girl asked me out. i said okay so i could find out if i would grow into liking her. She ended up breaking up with me for my friend then breaking up with him for my best friend. This made me pissed. Anyway, i started liking the girl i met a year ago. so, 2 weeks later i asked her out and she said yes :-). unfortunatly she broke up with him because she still had feelings for the person she likes. Everyone said she didn't however. Now i dont know if i like her or not. We're closer then ever and flirt all the time. I keep telling myself and everyone i dont like her (which im sure that i dont like her) but everyone says i do. I tried talking to her about this but she sounded like she didnt believe me. Even though i don't like her all i want is a second chance with her. My mind says another thing.
I have 2 questions:
1) how can i get her to make the move to ask me out or something like that
2) how can i get everyone (including her) to stop thinking i like her.
thanks in advanced
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Why would you want her to ask you out, if you don't like her?
I think you do like her, obviously everyone else is seeing something that you aren't, so just go for it.
Also, usually guys make the first move, so instead of waiting for her to ask you out, why don't you just ask her out?
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Q: so there's always arguements over what guys like about girls. we all think it's straight blond hair and big butt and all that stuff, what do guys really like in a girl though?
i know it depends on the guy, but do they like smart chicks, or ones that are happy all the time? what do guys in general like about any girl?
sorry for a lot of questions...
and thanks for answering. :)
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Most boys like a girl that is on their own intellectual level, so that they can have actual conversations with them, and neither shows each other up all the time.
As for looks, seriously, every guy is different. Around their friends they act like they like the "perfect girl" with the blonde hair and the big boobs, but in real life they don't.
I've met guys who like heavier girls, girls with no boobs, girls with giant boobs, girls with red hair, or brown hair, no butt, a huge butt, it really just depends on the boy.
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Q: is it safe to have sex after doing ecstasy?
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In my opinion this question has an obviuos answer, but if you must know, It is never "safe" to have sex.
Ecstasy is a stimulant that increases your heart rate, and blood pressure. It makes you capable of being active for long periods of time, hence the use at dance clubs and raves. It can cause dehydration and hyperthermia. It also convinces your brain into drinking too much water (yes there is such thing as to much) which then over-hydrates you and causes your brain to become "water-logged" and then impairs your judgement, shuts down your senses and can cause a coma, a cardiac arrest, kidney failure, and death.
So what some call "safe" sex during ecstasy is the least of your worries.
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Q: I need help. To start of there are two guys that i really like and they like me also and one guy is always tryin to get to know me better but at the same time he keeps trying to get in my jeans and i'm not sure if he totally respects my wishes and at the same time he cares about me so much and he like calls me every day and things like that and he's more like a boyfriend than just a dude that i like. and well the other guy is not as caring and nurchring as he should be but he respects my wishes and he likes me alot too but he hardly ever calls me. and well ima put it this way he's a great kisser.
WHO WOULD I BE BETTER OFF WITH?
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You would be better off withthe guy who you feel more comfortable around.
A.K.A. The one that doesn't want in your pants all the time.
He could act that caring and calling so much because he wants in your pants.
You never know.
It comes down to who you trust more.
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Q: I need songs for a hard-core rap playlist. Songs that aren't too well-known within the average white-girls group of friends, have a really good beat, have lyrics that are degrading to humanity, and are just purely blastable in the car.
Any ideas? Thanks
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NWA!
N***** With Attitude.
super good.
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Q: hello. i need some songs for the following situations:
-i really like this girl and she knows i do. i want a song that i can dedicate to her.
- i want to ask the girl out. any advice on what song i should play when i ask her.
we like any type of music. but preferably acoustic, indie, alternative, emo, anything like that.
something like: cobra starship, cute is what we aim for, albert hammond jr., etc.
THANKS SO MUCH IN ADVANCE!
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OH!
I have the absolute PERFECT song.
It's by a not so well known artist too, so it'll probably be her first time hearing it.
It's called "Hey" by Backseat Goodbye.
check it out here
http://www.purevolume.com/backseatgoodbye
Or look him up on myspace, and its also available on iTunes and Limewire.
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Q: Yeah, the title...
I'm just wondering how many people here listen to any of those genres.
And I defenetly don't mean punk. or pop.
So like Slayer, Dimmu Borgir, Slipknot, Children Of Bodom, Thine Eyes Bleed, Gorgoroth,Sepultura and so on.
I think metal isn't appriciated enough.
:)
So...how many of you like the genres of metal above? :D
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Q: i have a burned cd that i do not know where it came from, who gave it to me, or anything like that.
i think the song may be called "still", but i don't know who sings it. the song, sung by a male, and some of the lyrics are " i can still feel you kiss me, love, love. i still see your brown skin shine, shine.."
i cannot find it on a yahoo search OR Limewire !! has anyone heard it and knows who its sung by and the exact title?! thanks in advance, i rate = )
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Q: well i love music i listen to it alot!!!....and im kinda getting tired of my music i have on my ipod i like to listen to alot of rock hard rock and i recently been getting into all that screaming crap but i only like the sound of the guitar solos....i like music like slipknot avenged sevenfold deftones i want more and need new music help on suggestions? and im also looking for calm music like acustic would be nice but in rock and love and hurt songs also in rock.
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Okay, we seem to have the same taste in music, so i may be of help.
Hard:
-CKY
-DethKlok
-The Black Dahlia Murder
-Dimmu Borgir
-Dragonforce
-Killswitch Engage
-Led Zepplin
-Madina Lake
-Cannibal Corpse
-Alice in Chains
-Atreyu
-Chimaira
-HIM
-Lamb of God
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Soft:
-Racing Kites
-Coheed and Cambria
-Backseat Goodbye
-Mayday Parade
-Emery
-The Starting Line
-Cartel
-The Decemberists
-Guns 'n Roses
-Jack Johnson
-James Blunt
-Jet
-Joe Brooks
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Q: ok well for a big music project part of it is to find song about something hat represents me, my philosophy, my ideals, my dreams, or my goals for the future.
i cant find a song!
heres a little about me please help me!
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i love music, i have a bf who i love and have been with for 5 months (6 on valentinesday :D) I love my mom she is my hero, i dont do super good in school but i would LOVE to be a pediatric nurse someday, and be known as the sweet lady down the road, i have a very bubbly personality, my favorite flower is the sunflower, i dont have a best friend but i have many friends, cant wait to move out of here and start my own family in a few years but im sure my parents wont like that they are gonna miss me, i always wanted to be a princess and live in a castle as a child and marry my prince charming...ive found prince charming as for the rest of it ya no, Im best friends with 2 of my cousins and we've made up a remix and dance to baby got back.....idk what else to say or even if any of this will help but im completely stumped and hoping you can help me.
-song?
-what kind of pictures could i use for the collage i have to make?
thanks in advance
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Sidewalk SingaLong by Backseat Goodbye.
It's a great, upbeat, happy song.
And the singer loves sunflowers just like you!
Haha.
Use pictures of you and your friends, and your mom, and different things you like.
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Q: Does anyone know some really awesome heavy songs, (preferably popular) any era I guess, that I can play on guitar (acoustic or electric) preferrably not power chords.
Thanks
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Anything by
-Killswitch Engage,
-Dragonforce (they god sick nasty guitarists, and therefore crazy solos)
-Avenged Sevenfold
-The Black Dahlia Murder
-CkY maybe?
-DethKlok
-A not so well known band is Dimmu Borgir theyre really really good and have great guitar solos.
-Chimara is pretty good too.
For acoustic,
-Emery does fantastic acoustic covers for all their songs, you should listen to them
-Cartel does as well.
=]
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Q: how can i lose weight on my thighs. i play soccer so they are kinda muscle but not all of it. i really really need to lose the fat cause im fit the rest of me and i wanna be ready for summer.
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Dear person below me,
Soccer = Running, Treadmill = Running.
I don't see your point.
Anyways.
You can't target weightloss in your bod, sorry it say. You're probably just pear shaped, and the ft in your body goes to your legs. Luckily for you, alot of guys find thicker legs more attractive than a thicker stomach.
The best thing you can do is be confident.
Cardio burns fat, and running is cardio, so do that, not like you already aren't. Also you could do leg lifts, or just do stretches and stuff.
Buying a treadmill would probably be a waste of money when you run at soccer practice already, so i wouldnt suggest doing that. But maybe you could get a gym membership for conditioning, you could use the elliptical machine and lift weights to stay in shape.
Also, you could try to eat healthier, but i guess thats kind of a given.
Good luck.
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Q: Can someone help me try to achieve this photographic effect?
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/41/105591093_a1b5aea8ff.jpg?v=0
Step-by-step? I have a camera that doesn't take flash and black and white film.
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leave the shutter spead open for a long time. anything longer than 1/30. if you have a 1 or 2 second shutter speed use that, and put your camera on a tri-pod.
push the button, and have the person use a light of some sort (cell phone, lighter, flashlight etc.) and movie it infront of the camera.
thats about it.
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Q: what would you say was the symobols of the book twilight was? Do you have any metaphors?
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! =)
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what do you mean by symbols?
like the apple on the cover?
that would be representing the forbidden fruit of the garden of eden.
because Edward was forbidden and such.
but if you provided more insight on the question, im sure i could come up with some better ones. =]
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Q: How can you prevent having lazy-ish looking eyes in pictures? The flash always makes me blink! Is there any possible way I can prevent this?
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you could always turn off the flash, pictures generally turn out better without the flash anyway.
also, if you take the picture at an angle, usually arial, it will make it so you wont have a lazy eye in the picture because of the line up of your nose and eye.
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Q: how do you take photos of like, say, the moon? is there a special type of film that lets you photograph in the dark? my camera doesnt have bulbs or anything..
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actually, i disagree to the person below me.
if you want to take a picture of the moon, open up the aperature/f-stop. don't slow the shutter speed.
slowing the shutter speed will allow more light to reach the film, but it will also allow more room for error as far as a steady hand goes.
so only slow the shutter speed if you have a tripod or something to set the camera on.
mainly slowing the shutter speed if for action photography.
i would know, im a photo major at school.
so dont worry about it.
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Q: I met this nice Italian guy on Myspace,
and he wanted to know if we could talk
over MSN, so of course, I was like, sure.
He seemed really nice but then he wanted to
get on his webcam, so I said alright.
I've watched other people (non-sexually) on webcam.
Of course I had to tell him: don't strip or anything,
and he said he wouldn't, but then I guess he
changed his mind and took all his clothes off?
I felt weird saying "No" and he obviously wasn't
going to take "No" for an answer.
Oddly, I watched him but felt really nervous the whole time.
Not to sound like a dork or anything,
but I've never really seen a guy close up naked.
However, I was kind of disgusted with this naked guy.
I was also really scared, which is weird,
because most of my friends have actually
had sex with a guy and obviously they are
comfortable with even more than just looking at that!
Is this usual? Is it ok to feel a little freaked out by...male parts?
I am really boy crazy and I love guys, so why
do I freak out so much if I see a naked guy?
What if I'm a Lesbian?
And by the way, I won't be watching that
guy on webcam again so don't worry!
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dont worry about it at all man.
everyone matured at their own pace, and you shouldnt be in any rush to have sex. you were probably more freaked out because youve never really met this guy, and he was probably alot older than you.
most of the time, you have to really like someone to appreciate the fact that their naked.
if you really like guys, your probably not lesbian, so dont worry about that.
i would be scared and disgusted too, your not alone, im pretty possitive most girls would be grossed out with a naked guy theyve never met trying to talk to them via webcam.
also, since hes italian, and probably lives in europe, hes most liekly not circumsized. and to sometimes, uncircumsizion is gross, or abnormal to americans.
so you have nothing to worry about.
except that guy.
hes weird. lol.
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Q: There is this girl at my school and she is amazing. She is always happy, extremely nice...and i swear she is friends with everyone! I'm really falling head over heels for this girl. I've noticed she acts a bit different around me now a days...and I was wondering...did i do something wrong? She always looks at the floor and has trouble keeping eye contact with me. Plus, she giggles a lot? Is she laughing at me..something I do? Anyway, it would help if I knew what these meant. A few weeks ago i started a secert admirer thingy. I've sent her flowers and wrote her short little love letter/poem things. Any chance she found out or something. Should I stop with the whole 'secert admirer'...do girls think that's lame? Well, anyways, I'm planning on asking her out, but I'm really nervous and I'm not too sure how to ask. I really like this girl, i want to impress her, put a smile on her face.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! =)
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aww thats so cute!
she totally likes you tho.
not keeping eye contact and acting differently are total give away signs.
then again, she might know about youre admirer thing, someone could have blown your cover and told her. she probably thinks your the most adorable guy ever in that case. lol
most girls love it when guys do stuff like that for them. its a kind of chivalry that is unknown to the majority of boys these days.
go for it =]
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Q: i think, but i just dont know, but i think im in love...see this guy i just dont really know a whole lot about him, but he is everywhere i look...i told him i liked him like two months ago and i think i scared him off,,im in the process for asking for a truce and getting to know each other...but i have tried to get over him and just when i think i do, he pops up again...i dont know why...but all of these quizzes saying are you in love they wont tell you,,they are mostly about when you know the guy really well...but i dont hardly talk to him like maybe once a week...if i am in love i dont know what it feels like..i just know that i have never felt like this about anyone ever before...he is with me everywhere at everytime...but i see more to him than when others just see a pretty face..i see that he is a good person and has a lot of poteintial in his life..i see that he cares and is a gentlemen...i see him not the cute guy that plays soccer,,you know..i just dont know what to do...so can you help???
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well, im not quite sure i understand what the question is here.
but, i understand how you feel when you think your over someone and then they just come back into your head.
ive been through it before, and it will eventually go away, i can promise you that.
im also pretty sure your not in love with the kid, cause youre probably too young to know, and now a days in america, people use the term love very lightly, you probably just have strong feelings for him.
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Q: My story is too long, So im going to summarize it. I am so in love with this guy, There realy isnt any comparsion to how much we loved eachother. We were together for 2 years, And basicaly legends in our school. All because of how much we loved eachother. people would envy us so much and everyone said there is no way are we ever going to end up seperated.
Well we were going through alot of fights and problems lately, And i had decided to end it. He became furious and full of rage, And he said we shouldnt speak. Its been now 3 weeks and a half..He has tried to make small talk with me. We see eachother EVERYDAY in school which makes it harder to move on. Everyone see's it and as do i, He stares at me alot, Always glancing when my back is turned, He tries to have small talk with me, but always seems just angry during it, And he heard i was dating someone and actualy asked me about it. But though he does all that all his friends and his own brother said taht hes over me. My question is..How could a strong love relationship that was legend had him get over me so quickly? Is it possible that in 3 weeks and a half he could be over me soo soon? Even though he does all that.
I also want to add when he was trying to get over me he went out and did weed, Hung out with sluts ( but never did anything with them, I think it was just to get me jealous) He went out and smoked, and though he never played soccer at school everyday he plays soccer now, And before he had told me that soccer was a way of him keeping his mind off things.
I have no idea whats going on. Or what to do. I dono how to tell if a guy is completely over me or not. I dont know if he is. And its killing me so much to think he could be done. Usualy after every fight if i dumped him hed run after me but this time he was the one saying he didnt want to speak anymore. I just have no idea whats going on.
Help =[ I dont realy ever ask for advice..But im just so hurt, Thankyou in advance =]
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you broke up with him, and now your sad that hes over you?
im sorry, but thats not how heathly relationships work. if this is what was going on, getting in fights, him chasing you, then you getting back together, throughout your entire relationship, then it was incredibly unhealthy.
if your gonna be in a relationship with someone, and say your in love with them, then you shouldnt always be waiting for them to come back all the time. you should be nice, and dont get in fights and break up, soley because you want him to chase you.
in my opinion, its a good thing that is over you, or trying to be over you. because you seem to be really bad for him. and he should defaintly move on, because you want him to be happy, he wont be happy if hes always chasing you.
sorry if its not what you want to hear, but if you really did "love" him then you would let him go, and do whats best for him, becasue you should put him first in your life.
and personally, judging by the decisions youve made and how you handle your problems, your much to young to comprehend what love is.
sorry if its not the best news, but its the best advice.
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Ask me something, I'm knowledgeable.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Occupation: Student Age: 16 Member Since: January 7, 2007 Answers: 271 Last Update: March 10, 2009 Visitors: 16701
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