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> Full name: Katlin Nicole Starr Mitchell
> Height: 5'3-5'4
> Eyes: BroWn
> Hair: BRowN w/ Red StreiKeS
> Location: Mauldin, South Carolina
> Sexual Orientation: Straight
> Ethnicity: WhiTe but w/ A Tan*
> Pets: 1 Dog and A Cat! RIP Robbie, Died Aug 1 2004
> Siblings: 1 Brother
> Movie:13 going on 30...The Notebook..A Walk To Remember...Grease...Dirty Dancing
> Book: The NoteBook
> Actress: Sandra Bullock...and Uhh...
> Actor: Shane West...and...uhh
> Singer/Band:Ryan Cabrera...and Sara Evans
> Song: On The Way Down and She Will Be Loved
> Quote: "...Our Love Is Like The Wind, I Can't See It...but I Can Feel It..."
> Food: PastA*
> Sport: VolleyBall, SurfinG...BASKETBALL*
> TV show: Dawsons Creek, Newlyweds*
> Drink: Sprite w/ LemonS
> Number: 10 and 11
> Accessory:PurSe
> Color: Pank and Blue*
> Lipgloss: Watermellon, or whatever my Fiance lovEs! *
> Ice Cream: Cookie Dough*
> Mag: Umm...counTrY Weekly?
> Cartoon Character: DINO!
> Animal: DogS*
> Chocolate or Vanilla? Verrnilla*
> Book or its Movie? Both
> Gold or silver? Silver
> Boxers or Briefs?: It Don'T MattER
> Black or White? Black
> Hug or Kiss? Both at one time!
> Computer or TV? Both
> Morning or Night? Night*OOO*
> White Chocolate or Milk Chocolate?White ChocolaTe!
> Serious or Giggly? Giggly
> Drive or Fly? Fly
> Dog or Cat? Dog
> Inside or Outside? Depends on the weather
> Fantasy or Reality? Reality
> Dance or Sing? SiNG!! LALAL*
> Write or Read? Write
> Social or..Not? Social...verY*
> Draw or Paint? DRaW
> Watch or do? Do...HEHEHE
> Eat or Drink? UmmS???
> Write or Talk? Talk!
> Summer or Winter? WinTer*
> Joel or Justin? Justin
> TV or Movie? Movie
> Cholcolate or Caramel? Chocolate
> Tall or short? On A guy...Tall...
> Pepsi or Coke? Pepsi
> Innie or outtie? InnIe
> Have you dyed your hair? Ya :(
> Have you ever fit your entire body into a relatively small compartment? Yupperss...A Drier! hahaha!
> Hobbies:Shopping...sports..and my Babie
> Interests:Music...and my babie!
> What do you like Most about yourself? My personalitY!
> What do you like least? My Temper*
> Whats in your CD player right now? Sara EvanS..Niagra :(
> Ever left the country? Yes!!!
> Where to? Europe, Mexico, Australia, Canada, Japan...and Jamaica
> Whats the worst feeling? Heart Broken..and guilt.
> Whats the best feeling? Being in LovE* Being HappY!
> Whats your sign baby? Capricorn*
> Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes
> Whats your best friends name? Nathan and BJ
> How long have you been friends? ForeVeR* haha..I Dk!
> Who, really, let the dogs out? HaHa..Me DUH!
> If you're life could be a book, which book would it be? Umms...I have no idea. Harry PotteR? Haha!
> Who stole the cookies from the cookie jar? Hahaha? What kinda Question...
> Is oscar, really, a grouch? He was mean to the kiDs...so was big BIRD!
> Have you ever caught a Leprechaun? Oh Yes..Hehe *WINK* Great times w/ Him as Well!
> Who do you admire? My brother and my fiancE*
> Whats your most embarrasing moment? Not going THERE!
Website: UndEr ConStRuCtioN!!!
E-mail: KateStar1011@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Greenville, South Carolina!
Age: 18
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Member Since: July 16, 2004
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ok me and my best friend got in a huge fight for nothing now all we're doing is bi***ing after each other and well I don't know I want to stay friends but from the looks it's not going to well I don't what I should say to make it stop got ne suggestions??
lots of love cutie_babee (link)
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Since both of you are best friends, it's going to be hard to get along sometimes because of the simple fact that you guys are best friends. It'll be tough, but both of you guys need to stop fighting like children. Ya'll need to sit down, and have a mature conversation about it without any fighting. If you both of to write down your feeligns about the argument on a peice of paper then give it to eachother that'll work...then talk about it. You'll soon find out that it was a really dumb fight,and that it isn't worth loosing a friendship over.
I hope I helped, Good luck, and have a great day!
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im getting new rims on my car (cuz someone at school f'd mine up) but i cant decide what would look best on my car, if anyone has any suggestions let me know cuz i have no idea, oh and i have an 02 trans am so no like 24s or anything, im think i wanna go with 18s, thanks (link)
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What color is your car? Anyways, ya..I would go with 17 or 18s...if your car is black go with some crome ones, and if it is red...i've always like the bullet metel ones. Hope I helped...
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i just got done menstruating and im still really moody and emotional.. is there such thing as like after pms? (link)
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HEhehe...
Yes sweetheart there is. It'll still hurt a little bit, and you'll still be moody for a couple of more days to a week. You're body and mind just has to go back to normal, that's all. :) I hope I helped...
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How many people are on a typical volleyball team? And what are the names of the positions, and describe what each postition does. (link)
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Well....usually in middle school...You only have 6 people on the court. Always. There at 3 in the back, and 3 in the front.
You have a setter, and two hitters. The back row...that's usually people who back up the front row when they mess up. It's been a while since I played middle school volleyball, but I go to my neighbors games. I hope I helped!
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me and my boyfriend give each other oral every now and then. well he recently mentioned something about me shaving my pubic hair. he said it would be sexy and easier to perform oral on me. i dont know if i should, it would grow in thicker and darker and id have to shave it all the time. i wouldnt mind it tho probably... what do you think ? (link)
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Well...
It doesn't really matter what your boyfriend thinks about your sex life. He shouldn't date you, nor love you for the sex. Ya know? But, since he said, it would be easier...which is just an excuse...it's easy no matter what. Go ahead and shave it...but you have to shave it everyday...and if you are just starting...you'll get rasor burn the first time, and it'll itch a little. So...good luck...Anymore questions, you just let us know.
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can i have a lover before my university level or in my university level (link)
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Oh course you can. You can have love or a love whenever cupid does his work...and trust me...give him time! :) Good luck my love!
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do guys prefer blondes or brunettes? (link)
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Oh hunnie!!!
I'm a brunette...adn trust me, LOTS of guys go for blondes, but...some guys don't. Give props to the ones that don't cause they ususally care how you are inside, and not by your hair color! :) Either way, we are ALL beautiful! Have a great night!
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hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.
Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help! (link)
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Awww...Wow...
I'm a little lost too. :-/ Unfortuantly sweetie, guys and girls are very very hard to understand. One thing you need to remember though is...it was totally right for you to tell her your feelings for her, and about that situation. You should never regret, or have any other thought but good about standing up, and telling your feelings. Honestly, I don't think that she got it that you really like her. I kind of need to know how that conversation went with her and yourself. (If you are willing to share, not pressuring or really asking..)
I think it was really good that you said something to your best friend, but...then he told you he wouldn't make a move...then said, ya.I would start dating her if school starts again? Umms...I'm confused on that one.
Let me tell you something that happened to me when I was about your age...Basically it was the same thing, but the guy was my best/f and he liked my best/f. We all went to the same highschool and remained friends, but once we all got to highschool...we found lots of other different people. High school is such a big difference from a small junior high, to High School. Even though you are just Freshman, you'll all find somebody that really catches your eyes all the way through HS. It's a givin. I know that you really like this girl, but trust me...I bet she won't like your best friend for very long once she starts high school. That's when ever girl goes absolutely BOY CRAZY. Hehe...trust me. I hope I'm helping on this...if you need anything else...please let me know. I'm here to listen and help you through this. Hope to hear from you
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I am going to a different city in my state like I do every Saturday and I met this hot kid there who was real nice and he's 2 yrs older than me and he asked me out last saturday and I said yes so I am scared b/c I knew he liked me and he knew I liked him ever since like april 2004 and my bros friends who are his friends 2 said he is planning on kissing me and I am scared what if I dont wanna kiss him or freak out or what if I dont know how to french kiss and make out cuz I dont really.....well then if any of that happens what should I do? I wanna be nice and make him no I like him a bunches! plz help, thx a bunches! Ill rate ya! (link)
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At the beginning, you said he was a nice guy. If he is a nice guy, then he'd understand that you do not want to kiss, nor make out. You have to tell him straight up, and if he isn't so nice about it, then he isn't such a nice boyfriend. Tell him you do still like him, and you like him a lot, it's just that you don't want to this early in the relationship. Hopefully he'll understand. I hope I helped! Have a wonderful day, and a wondeful Saturday w/ him!
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This Subject probably doesn't match but any wayz, I've heard that eating a lot of carrots makes your boobs grow bigger and my friend had like none and then like a few months later like 6 months or something maybe a little less, she has huge! Is it true? She said carrots helped since she ate some like every day! Thx I'll rate yall 5! (link)
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It's not true. You're friend hit growth spurt and puberty at the same time. Carrots help the eyes and bones...not breast. I'm sorry, but..it's not true.
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how do u girls keep ur hair down like i have straight hair but liek 10 mins after brushin it it get tangled up all messy can yall help me out
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Well...sometimes I can't keep my hair down for that reason, I have curly hair, and when I wear it curly, it tangles in minutes. But, there is this stuff called Redken Full Frame. It works great to give your hair body, and strength. It keeps your hair feeling smooth all the time, and it isn't that much. $, It's only about 15$ and it last for a long time, because it doesn't take much. Ususally you can get it at your local hair stylist. I hope I helped! Have a wonderful Day!
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I`m 15 in about a month or so and I think i`m an alchoulic. I want to quit at times, but then again i dont. I didn`t come on here to get lectured, just advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks.
Signed
xx CaM (link)
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None of us are here to lecture you. We give you background, because it gives you more of a thought pattern of what to do in the situation...but...If you want it just plane and simple...then just Decrease your drinking each day, or whenever you want to drink. Drink a little bit of it, then stow it somewhere in order for you to stop..just at that bit. Then, if you want more, get it out of the same bottle, and do the same thing...you'll more or less decrease your drinking, but if you want to stop...then go get help from your parents or guardian.
I hope I helped! Have a wonderful day my darlin!
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ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar? (link)
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Yes, bipolar is indeed split personalitys. It can get pretty dangerous too.
Anyways, about your ex. That's not nice at all. It's a great thing that you guys broke up...but did he call you a Hoe when you two were dating, or after. Because...when he said..Baby, I love you. I'll never leave your side...he was dating you wasn't he. When you two break up, the "boy" side of the relationship thinks it's "cool" to call their ex names, and starte rumors. Basically, he's being childish.
If you two were indeed dating, then he was a little bipolar and a jerk..other wise...if he said Hoe when you two broke up then he was just being a jerk, and saying lies, and call you names for no reason...or for his reason "to look good." Which, some advice for him...it doesn't do you much good in the long run to do that.
I hope I helped!! Have a great Day my love!
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hey...
i'm really shy around my boyfriend most of the time ... how do i stop being shy? (link)
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Sometimes people are shy around there boyfriends, because of so many thoughts that go through a guy and girls head when you guys are dating.
You can't really stop being shy, because once you have started, it's hard to stop. All I can tell you...is to relax around him. Find out more things about him that you couldn't find out because you were all up tight. I'm sure you are yourself, but in some ways not, because...you're being shy. You just need to loosen up, and have fun. It'll take time, but...it'll work.
I hope I helped, have a great day!
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Hi Alicia im 13 and im in a rilly confusing situation...Well ive been best friends with this rilly sweet girl since about January of this year..were great and all except when it comes to guys.....She absolutely HATES it when i talk to guys that she knows because i have gone out with like 2 of her past boyfriends...She told me about how it bugs me when iwas at her house once a while back when i talk to "Her" guy friends on the computer...ive tried to tell her that it hurts when she says stuff like that or acts like she doesnt trust me with those guys or something....But latelty theres this guy chris that were both friends with and she helped me meet...She told him stuff about how he shouldnt go out with me(bc he likes me) and a lot of other stuff i heard from him that makes me feel thatshes not a true friend to me and she gets really pissed at me when i talk on the phone with him and asks all these questions..and everytime im on the phone with him she wants him to 3-way her..Ive always wanted to talk to her about it but i hate it when she gets mad bc shes -SUPER-sensitive and has a very extreeeeeme attitude...its really complicated...BUt if you have any advice at all that you can give me, please please please do...Id *REALLY* appreciate thankyou SO much you seem soo sweet (link)
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Hey Alicia!
What's going on girlfriend? Alright...here's the spill on your friend. I think it's great that you have had that friend, but she sounds like she is trying to start something that mostly happens in middle school, or around your age...that is Using. She might not be "using" you nessesarly...but...she helped you meet this guy, now she is talking behind your back, which is wrong. There is no excuse for anybody to talk about you behind your back...even if it is the smallest thing, such as "Don't go out with Alicia." Now...tell me how stupid this sounds for her to do this..."I helped you meet Alicia, but don't go out with her." Umm, doesn't make much sence does it? Unfortunatly...no.
You are going to date some of her past boyfriends, because you two are friends and obviously have pretty good taste together, so you're probably going to date the same guys.
This is what I think about Chris and your friend and yours conflict. Have you ever thought that she might like him? She might, but can't admit it to you, because she thinks she is the bigger one in the friendship. Even though she is sensitve...you still said she has a big attitude. She thinks she is the one that can get away with everything...so what you have to do, is STAND YOUR GROUND. She might cry, and she might snap back at you...but think about the background and all that she has done. Think deeply into it, and get her back. CAll her on the phone and say...WE have to talk. You have raise your voice a little too, so she knows you really mean it. Tell her, that when you talk on the phone with Chris it's your time w/ him. She needs to call him on her own terms. You'll learn a lot around your age..you'll learn very very much. And what you need to do through all of middle school and high is to stand your ground, and stand up for what you believe in. I hope I helped, I know this was long, but sorry! *wink* I hope you have a GREAT day, and good luck on your friend problemS! :-) Mwah*
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Hi i got a embarissing problem and i was wondering if there was another address you had i could ask you. thanks (link)
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Yes sweetheart,
If you want to e-mail me...my email address is KateStar1011@yahoo.com. Or you could talk to me one on one on AIM or Yahoo...(AIM preferably) and my sn is KateStar1011. Please feel free to contact me. I'm here to listen and help you.
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ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u
sighned
boy in denile
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AWww...
That's really sad. She sounds like she didn't appricate anything you did for her. I don't think she deserves you at all. I think you need to kind of move on. I know that sounds bad...but you need to find somebody that'll appreciate the things you do for her. It's going to be hard, I know...but trust me sweetie, keep searching. Have a great night!
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Schools starting verrry soon and I am going school shopping in like a few dayzz so give me all the tips and advice there is to create a fresh looking preppy/whatever else me so that i can be original AND cute...
*im a girl*
XoXOoOOXooOO
i.love.you.forever.and.everrr (link)
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Oh hunnie...
Well.i wish I knew how old you are...but here ya go..
PINK IS IN!! Pink tight little shirt are IN! Hehe...If it's you, wear it.
Jeans and some heals...Are soo in!
PearlS! Those are really cute.
If you're not that preppy...then some chucks and I've heard a cute little skirt..is cute.
I can't really tell ya how to dress..but BE YOURSELF and get creative!
Good luck w/ schooollll!!
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how do i know if i need a bra? (link)
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You know when you need a bra when you start showing through your shirt...or whenever you start getting breast. I was one of those girls that thought it was good to wear a bra when I didn't have any breast...now..I'm like...god I hate these things. Hehe!
I hope I helped! :)
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Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox (link)
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Haha!
HEY Girl...Dang, sooo soo true. You go through that dang depression, then when you find somebody everybody wants ya. Then, us girls are like, dang! :) I'm just kidding. Congrats on the wonderful man, he sounds luckY!
Ps...You sound really really fun, and I need somebody to talk about the wedding for me. I'm trying to plan, but I never can get started and stay on it...it's sooooo much to plan. Haha...If you don't mind, maybe we could talk about it!
Have a great day!!
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