E-mail:
Goateeruffian@yahoo.comGender:
MaleLocation:
IowaOccupation:
NordstromAge:
19AIM:
GoateeruffianMember Since:
September 18, 2004Answers:
207Last Update:
May 18, 2007Visitors:
12552Favorite Columnists
HIMlovemetal325
about
Hey well as you probably see I am 19 and I'm Christian (JesusFreak) and go ahead ask me something hopefully i can give you an answer thats right and ok with you. Have a good day
advice
15/f
When a guy asks you to see a movie, does that necessarily mean it is a date? What if he is bringing one of his friends but doesn't care if you bring someone?
I suppose I am going to get different answers, but I'm sure there must be a way to figure it out.
Thanks! =)
It actually depends on your seating arrangement when you get to the movies if you sit next to the guy who invited you hen yes it is a date...but the chances are it is a date hes just nervous and thats why he is bringing a friend along
We are going to have an Oregon-Oxford debate for one class and that's our topic. I'm for the birth control side. Meaning, having [premarital] sex is okay for as long as you use birth control methods(be it artificial or natural). I'm so sure that the opposition(Abstinence) will read us some biblical stuff and will probably tell us that no contraceptive is 100% effective.
Pleeeeease give me good and strong answers to these stuff because I (and my group) don't wanna look like a fool in front of everyone.
I'm all for abstinence but a good arguement is Mary from the bible had a baby and she was abstinent obviously abstinence isnt 100% effective then...that will be a stunner to them...
okay i love my boyfriend of 9 months more than anything in the entire world. theres just one problem, he gets high all the time. he says its impossible for him to stop and i shouldnt make him choose. i know he might sound like an asshole but other than that he's perfect for me. but constantly worrying about him is really starting to upset me.
Nothing is impossible to stop..its that he doesnt want too which makes him it impossible to stop...you can keep worrying about him but the worrying isnt going to stop until you make him make the choice it either his love for you or love for drugs...and if you and your boyfriend are meant to be he will ask you to help him quit..otherwise if he choses pot over you that is someone you do not want to be with because his life going down into a dark deep spiral
i am from canada and i am 18 years old. i am having trouble finding what my sexuality is.any advice would be very greatly appreciated.theres this girl,shes my best friend.i cant get her out of my head. i get this jealous feeling when i see her with other guys.she felt that i was into girls and said it was okay if i had a crush on her.thing is shes 30.we have alot of chemistry and we do tend to flirt alot.she also told me i had stole her heart.i find myself confused because she is straight and way older than me.but at the same time i want to be apart of what makes her happy.i feel there are moments we have where we would happen.to be honest there are thoughts where i wish i could be with her.but as a friend i know that someone as great as her deserves alot,alot that i can admit i can't give her.but i know that i would try everyday.im not sure what to do?i only find myself most attracted to older women,is that wrong?
No I dont think so...You cant really help you attracted to older mature women...or since your good friends it could just be that your jealous that when she is with a man she is taking up her time that could be yours...but it does seem like you are attracted to her which there is nothing wrong with that...if you love her you can wait it out till shes really to come to you
OK well i got this girl i care the world for. I have wrote her a poem and am thinking bout printing the poem on microsoft word then putting a picture of a rose below the poem after i type it. Then i am going to roll the poem up and wrap it with some kind of ribbon. Then i am thinking bout getting her some real roses and being like i got you these real roses cause my love for you is real. And then getting her a fake rose and being like i got you this fake one to let you know my love for you will never die it will always be there. I have had people telling me to stay there and watch her read the poem and see her flowers then i have had some saying i ought o take it to her then leave my question is which should i do stay there while she reads the poem or give it to her and leave and wait for her to call?
I think it will sound like a good idea...I am in favor of being there when you present them...you see the reaction on her face and that will be worth a million life times
My best guy friend usually helps me through everything, he seems to understand and listen. But recently he hasn't seemed to care about me as much. He used to call a few times a week and ask how I was doing, and if I had a problem we'd talk it through.
It's been 11 days and he hasn't called once. I feel like he really doesn't care about me anymore. Today he helped me with a problem but only because I told him I had one, and I felt like he felt he HAD to help me. I only see him on the bus to school, and I never ask about it. I don't know, I've tried talking to him about the not caring thing and he says, "How am I supposed to know you have a problem if you don't tell me?" I mean yes, that is understandable, but he used to check in with me at least.
I don't know what to do. It's honestly really hurting me, I cry everynight, and have NO ONE to talk to. I feel like I'm losing my best friend, PLEASE help me. Anything is good!
He's 16/m, and I'm 16/f.
It sounds like your bestfriend had a crush on you...and when he realised that he didnt have a chance with you he gave up really trying to be your friend...or he has a girlfriend and the girl doesnt like him talking to other girls...or maybe something is bothering him...maybe you should ask him whats wrong see if he says anything
I've been friends with this girl[emma] ever since we were 5. We have always been super close & we told eachother everything. She has been ignoring me lately & shes been rude. Like for example: Her 13th birthday was the 21st of Jan. and she didn't invite me. We had even talked about what she was doing for her birthday. So when her mom called earlier to talk to my mom she said that she didn't invite me because i would've felt left out with emma's school friends. Her school friends are really good friends with me though.
Ugh it makes me mad & even sad. I cried about it once or twice & i cant get over it. How can she just turn on me like that?
Well theres two reason either she thinks you did something to her or one of her friends doesnt like you and shes influening emmas decision either way I think you should talk to her about it and find out the real reason
Theres this hot guy, and i want to hook up with himm. I talk to him on facebook, and see him on weekends. What are some things that i can comment his facebook with that will make me sound sexy&that will make him want me?
You can flirt with him if he has any picture of him like say to bad i wasnt there to hang out with you or if he is in a picture with a girl...man i wish was that girl...just stuff like that
I have been coughing horribly for 3 straight months! I went to my doctor and he said it was allergies mixed with acid reflex. He gave me medicine for both, and my acid reflex has gotten A LOT better but I'm coughing even more now! It sounds worse too, and I cough up mucus every time(yes, I know it's gross). Does this mean it's getting better or what? I can't go to the doctor again because my step dad thinks I'm a hypocondriac.
I actually had something similar and my doctor said i had broncio-asthma I usually only get it once a year and its like i can do words at a time then have a coughing spell...i learned that helped sooth the coughing for a while or if your suckng on sometihng but it does have to do with allergies...i had to use a nebulizer to help but after that i was alright
14/f
okay, so heres the deal. i always know when im about to get a sore throat, i feel my throat acting weird a few days before, and i get chapped lips. well i got that sign yesterday and its a little worse today, but im not totally sick yet. i have something important to do saturday, so i need something to stall my sore throat until late saturday or something. ive been drinking alot of orange and grapefruit juice for the vitamin C and ive been using chap stick for my lips and everything. i need something to stall/eliminate this cold or whatever it is, so please, if you know anything that will help let me know asap. home remedies are great also! early answers are appreciated
THANK YOU!
Ive heard honey helps it coats the back of your throat so it stops it from irratating even further just keep up the vitamin c to fight off any sickness that is coming on
I'm 17 years old and a female.
Okay, So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 18 months and we are totally in love and everything. I want to do something nice for our 18 months, but I don't have any ideas. I want to do something creative and "made with love." I've already baked him cookies, gave him a picture framed of the two of us and I want to stay away from the whole scrapbook thing since it's so overdone and every girlfriend makes one for their boyfriend...so if you have any ideas, let me know!
My girlfriend gave me a teddy bear and sprayed it with the stuff she usually wears that can be a gift...i sleep with it everynight..but i would go with him to his favorite restaruant and then watch movies..he will just enjoy being there with you
Alright this is kind of a weird question butttt is it a serious problem that whenever I pee it's been burning? This has been going on for about a week now. I'm on birth control and have sex if that helps? Right now it hurts a little and feels like I really need to pee when I definitely know I don't need to. Does anyone know what could be wrong? Should I go see a doctor? helppp =[
15/f
Ive heard it can be a urinary tract infection which you can get from sex you should definately see a doctor because it can cause some serious damage
15/f
Yup, you guessed it. I'm a girl who can be outgoing but who can also be quite shy. I'm confident but when a guy is shy I tend to act the same. This guy at school likes me and it is common knowledge. He has asked me to a movie a few times but I have always been busy, unfortunately. We see eachother sometimes in the halls at school but only say hi rather than full conversations. I was wondering if anyone had some good techniques to catch his attention during those brief moments or "excuses" to have a conversation.
Other info:
- I am thinking of inviting him to a party next weekend but before then I would like to talk to him more at school
Thanks! =)
sometimes you can wink at him which is kind of cheesy but it will work...or you can even right him a note sometimes and pass it off to him so that way you guys can talk...inviting him to a party would be great...there other people there its a no pressure date
Alright, I am very excited because on january 31st its me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary (not sure what else to call it). Anyways, i just wanted to know if any of you had any ideas on what to do or what to get him, i have a job so i have some money as well. Please give me some ideas, even you dont think they are good, just please tell me because its only 6 days away.
On my 1 year anniversary we went out to a nice early dinner and then watched movies for the whole night and eat out of an ice cream bucket together just a relaxing night away from everything else in life
im 14 and my name is danieelle i was with a guy for almost a year. we both thought we were in love and we broke up about 6 montsh ago. im still in love with him although im with soemonelese i recently tol my boyfriend that i do like himk still and i will never forget the guy of a year. he said that it was ok and that we coudl work it out. he insisted taht we try but ididntw ant to hurt himlater on. we ended teh conversation by me saying that i guess we will see hwo it goes. im nto sure if tahts wat i want and i feeel im just procrastinating it. he is very sweet and i would never wnat to hurt him he tell me he loves me and i believe it and i told him thatits hard for me to "love" right now but that i liekd him alot. first question is what should i do with that?
and second. is it bad if a 14 year old has gotten fingered and made out with 3 guys?
It kinda of mean to lead someone especcially if your heart is in the a different place it sounds like right now the boyfriend right now would make a great bestfriend..and I am sure he will help you out in any hard time so dont dump him totally....and no not nessarily...ive heard of 13 having sex like ever week with a different guy
So im kind of in a process of talking to my ex boyfriend again,we are both kind of scared but im truly in love with him and he still holds back a bit.Today my best friend took a step and called him and let him know that she didnt want him to play with my feelings and she asked him what he felt for me,he told her was still in love with me and what really holds him back is the respect my parents lost for him and he feels that there is no way to get them back.I still have hope and i want him to have hope too but i dont know what to do to let him know,i dont know what he can do so my parents can at least give him another chance.I feel that if we still love eachother there is much worth to fight for but how is my question?how can i motivate him to,what can we do...what can i do too so i can show him again to my parents without my parents killing us both.Please help
Well it really depends on what happened that they lost trust in him...parents are really hesistant to trust again because it involves there children feelings I think the best way might be if you talk to you parents and let them know that you guys have been talking about getting back together and just ask them for their opinion that way they feel included and a little better about the situation
Ok so my boyfriend and I just started having sex regularly and I doesn't feel all that great. I always thought it would be something amazing but I don't really feel anything. Please give me some advice on what I could do to make it feel better for me!! thanks =)
Ive heard at first for girls its painful...But experiment with different positions..girls are harder to stimulate then guys are...just explore different stuff did you find something you really like..I think the easiest way to do that is by fingering so you can instruct him better
im going away to camp this summer to learn and become better at flag spinning and tossing. i was wonderign what it would be like and what i should bring? im very nervouse about it because ivenever gone to a camp before and im nervous aout going. so if you could tell me about naythign ot expect that would be great. thanks
I would think your basic toiletries definately comfortable clothes to work out in...probably mostly girls at the camp...so some makeup but your not their to really impress guys
okay, so theres this guy, lets call him.. well, lets just call him boy. so last year, by friend really liked boy, and i thought he was adorable as well, cuz well, he`s the cutest thing ever, but i didnt know him. he was in high school, and me and my friend that liked him were in middle school. so my friend moved about half an hour away, so she goes to a different high school and doesnt talk to him. at the beginning of this year, we started talking and we hung out a bit. then he snuck me out, just the two of us, and he kissed me. but at this time, he liked another girl. like, really really liked this other girl, but that other girl went to a different school, so they didnt talk much besides online. the next day, after the kiss, i asked him what it was all about. he said it was just spur of the moment and stuff, but i really liked him. after that we kinda stopped talking. now hes trying to get over the other girl, and were talking again and stuff. today, when we were walking, he grabbed my hand and now im so confused and i dont know what to do.
You have to becareful of that..hes acting on his hormones until you know he is completely available I know its hard...but you shouldnt recipicate..I am sure he likes deep inside but you should wait so he can be faithful to you..so you know for sure he isn't the same with anyother girl
my guy friend goes to a different school. he was supposed to go to the dance with this other girl but those plans fell through. i was thinking if he still wanted to go, i could get him a ticket. but maybe his plans fell through cause he didn't want to go??? i don't want to be turned down, but should i ask him anyways? i think it would be fun if he came. what should i say to him?
Hey...the safe way to ask to see if he wants to go to hang out so its not a date..and if you guys dance together you guys can talk about that then...if he did say no to going to the dance with that other girl becareful when you bring so she does not start drama