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im 14 and my name is danieelle i was with a guy for almost a year. we both thought we were in love and we broke up about 6 montsh ago. im still in love with him although im with soemonelese i recently tol my boyfriend that i do like himk still and i will never forget the guy of a year. he said that it was ok and that we coudl work it out. he insisted taht we try but ididntw ant to hurt himlater on. we ended teh conversation by me saying that i guess we will see hwo it goes. im nto sure if tahts wat i want and i feeel im just procrastinating it. he is very sweet and i would never wnat to hurt him he tell me he loves me and i believe it and i told him thatits hard for me to "love" right now but that i liekd him alot. first question is what should i do with that?
and second. is it bad if a 14 year old has gotten fingered and made out with 3 guys?
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well for the first part of the question, I think that you need to listen to your heart. Right now it's telling you that you shouldnt be with guy #2. So you do need to break it off with him. Tell him you're sorry, and you love being with him, but you're 14 and you have too many feelings to control right now, and dating him just isnt a good idea. Tell him, it was a bit of a rebound thing, and you really like him, but you think you need to take a guy-free break. Then tell him that you hope that you can work things out and get back together with him soon, but if he doesnt want to wait around for you you dont mind. It's important to do what you feel is right, but remember that breaking up with him, is not going to let you get back with the guy #1. He's out of the picture, and no matter why you broke up, you cant go back with him. That stage of your life is over and you need to move on (let me know if you want some moving on tips) so maybe taking a few months to recouperate will let you go back to guy #2 and hopefully life will move on smoothly. But if not, thats not a big deal, youre only 14 you'll have other boyfriends.
As far as question #2, I don't know what that has to do with the first one (lol) but I think that your heart can tell you that too. It's your life, and if you feel that you shouldnt have done that, or let yourself go taht far with a guy, then it is bad. But if you think that its okay, (which I doubt, because you wouldnt be asking if you were totally sure that it wasnt a big deal) then thats how you feel. I think taht it would be a good idea for you to set limits for yourslef, and from now on, plan your life around the limits. Say, I'm going to do______ when I'm twenty, then when your nineteen and it comes up, say, you arent ready. It is important to not let guys do more than you think is appropriate, and sure you may be caught up in the moment, but thats life. Just make sure you listen to your heart and you'll do fine. Good luck, and I hope I helped you, but remember its ultimatly up to you, and any advice that anyone will give you, it doesnt matter, its not up to them. It's up to you! Let me know if you need any morehelp! Good luck,
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It kinda of mean to lead someone especcially if your heart is in the a different place it sounds like right now the boyfriend right now would make a great bestfriend..and I am sure he will help you out in any hard time so dont dump him totally....and no not nessarily...ive heard of 13 having sex like ever week with a different guy
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