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How to let him know...
So im kind of in a process of talking to my ex boyfriend again,we are both kind of scared but im truly in love with him and he still holds back a bit.Today my best friend took a step and called him and let him know that she didnt want him to play with my feelings and she asked him what he felt for me,he told her was still in love with me and what really holds him back is the respect my parents lost for him and he feels that there is no way to get them back.I still have hope and i want him to have hope too but i dont know what to do to let him know,i dont know what he can do so my parents can at least give him another chance.I feel that if we still love eachother there is much worth to fight for but how is my question?how can i motivate him to,what can we do...what can i do too so i can show him again to my parents without my parents killing us both.Please help
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Well I dont know what he did to lose their respect, but you need to talk to your parents. Tell them how you feel and talk about whatever happened. Tell them that tou are thinking about going abck to him, and ask them how they would feel if that was the case. If they say that they wouldnt feel right ask them what he could do to fix it. Then talk to him and tell him whats going on. I dont think that you should let your friend talk to him about it anymore. (I know she means well and stuff) It is important that if you and him are going to work things out, then it has to be just between you and him. If you're in love like you say, then you shouldn't have any problems with talking it out. If there is something your parents want him to do so he can gain their respect again, that is just too had (or impossible) then just be his friend. Or, that might not be a good idea if it makes you too hard to get over him, if thats the case and you need to move on, then thats what you should do. Listen to your heart and do what feels right. If you need tips on moving on let me know.
I think that the most important thing to do is keep the lines of communication open, between you and your parents and you and _____. Talking is the best way to get things done. Good luck, and I hope everything works as bestas possible. Love ya,
Angie91
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Well it really depends on what happened that they lost trust in him...parents are really hesistant to trust again because it involves there children feelings I think the best way might be if you talk to you parents and let them know that you guys have been talking about getting back together and just ask them for their opinion that way they feel included and a little better about the situation
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