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Do u know any of the self help lines? (link)
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For suicide, there is 1-800-273-TALK or 1-800-SUI-CIDE. For everything else, i honestly don't know...all calls are confidential.
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Im pregnant, and my boyfriend doesn't want the baby, neither do I, but he would like me to get an abortion, and I don't believe in that. What should I do?
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What i would do is have the baby, give it a name, and put it up for adoption. It may not be right, but if you don't believe in abortion, that's the next best thing.
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so im engaged to this guy..have been for two years... he lives in iowa and i in cali..dont worry he just moved there.. well he went there cuz i thought i didnt wanna get married now i do and i know for sure. my family dont want me to talk to him and dont know i do and i think im gonna just up and leave and marry him.. is it a bad idea. i dotn have a job there and he hasnt gotten a place yet i was gonna wait a lil while before i go but wat should i do (link)
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Decide what is best for you. Stay home and have some money from your parents and your parents support, or Leave and risk all of this for someone you love. I would go for the second, but it is up to you. Hope this helps!!!
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Can anyone give me any speech topics that I could write about??
It's just for this "writer's craft" class where we have to present an original speech, but I can't think of any topics.
It can be about anything we want, but I'd like it to be kinda like motivational/inspirational...well those kind of speeches would be better for the class anyways...
So if anyone has any ideas at all...that would be greatly appreciated!!
Thanx in advance! :) (link)
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I wrote about life this past school year and got almost full marks! Here's what I've heard about:
Russian/Georgian war, Music, Immigration. I would suggest something like schitzophrenia, turrets, or something that interests you.
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14/f
freshman
D = ex boyfriend
J = close friend
I still realyl like D. Last week I broke up with him and I had reasons. I still really like him and I regrett breaking up with him. This past weekend I was talking to J about this and she told me that if i really like him then I should go back out with him. J just got out of a three year relationship with her ex and she dated him on and off. Yesterday after school I was going to tell D how I felt but J told D she liked him and asked him out. I feel so betrayed. Now D and J are going out. I really like D and J and D himself know that. D says he likes me too. I already talked to J about this and she is trying to comfort me but I am still mad because Im close to being in love with her now boyfriend. I tried talking to D but he wouldnt talk back. U cried today when I got to school seeing them together. I really miss him. What should I do? (link)
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That has got to hurt. I had that happen to me before, and i lost BOTH friends over it. What i would do is if they don't talk to you, try talking to their parents or your parents and see if the parents will talk some sense into them. If that doesn't feel comfortable for you, it may hurt inside, but if they don't want your friendship, maybe you should find true friends.
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so the day before we broke up we were kissing and he said "i feel like a jerk for saying this but i want you so bad right now" (guessing as in sex). we're going to prom together this weekend...do you think he'd like it if i did things with him? i want to. but we broke up like 2 weeks ago so would he not want that?
17/f and 17/m (link)
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The first thing to ask yourself is: am i emotionally ready to accept what may happen if i do? If you are, and you are old enough and mature enough to handle what may come, go for it! If not, well...try finding other ways to pleasure eachother.
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My cousin's getting married next month. She wants all of us to wear red dresses. The thing is, I'm having trouble finding any that I like, let alone ones I can afford. I could use some help...? I wnat something cute but simple, knee-length or so, not too prom-ish but still pretty. Here's just an example of something I like:
http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-PD246030
...but it's like $150. I wanna find something nice for half that price or less. I know, that's kind of a lot to ask for, but if anyone can help...? Please & thanks.=] (link)
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This store that i am going to mention has really cute dresses for cheap:Ross. I got a really cute dress there for a dance at my school for about $29! WHat a bargain!!!
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15/f
lately ive been having these weird thoughts, i dont know if it means anything or what but please help and leave your opinion!
-sometimes when im holding a sharp knife and my someones around i think about what would happen if i stabbed them! NOT TAHT I WOULD! I PROMISE it just crosses my mind!
-im on a second story floor, and look down and wonder what would happen if i just hopped over and jumped!I WASNT CONSIDERING IT (oh yea this is when i realized maybe i was becoming suicidal?)
-i was holding my dog and thought what if i dropped him down the stairs(PROMISE I WOUDLNT!!I KNOW IT SOUNDS CRAZY)
-a kid was standing near by me and i wondered what would happen if i grabbed him and ran
OKAY I PROMISE I WASNT CONSIDERING ANY OF THIS IT JUST CROSSED MY MIND AND I DONT KNOW WHY I EVEN THOUGHT OF IT IN THE FIRST PLACE
-even though i wasnt considering any of this i just wanted to know if you think it will effect me in the long run.
pleasepleaseplease any advice is helpful! and maybe if you think its physological problems ask me any questions i really need help on this! please and thankyou soo much! (link)
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TALK TO SOMEONE!!! Tell your parents what you are feeling and see if they can get you into a phsycologist. You may think that they are crazy, but they are not. Trust me.
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Okay so, how should I put this, there are bright spots that are few and in between...I love my fam to death except for one. WHat should I do? Issues, issues. I hate my sister, she's a complete and toatal bitch. SHe's always rude and mean to me I don't know how to handel it? (link)
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I would say that is normal, but what i would do is either talk to your sister or to one of your parents and ask them to stop treating you like that. Handle it by ignoring her. It may seem impossible that she will stop, but given some time and patience, she will stop.
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alright, well me and my boyfriend brokre up because of alot of random things. But he says that i am his bestfriend still? Yet the inly time he talks to me is when he either is bored orr needsd somethiing. its never "hey ____, how're you". ughh i dont know anymore (link)
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That sounds a lot like what my mom went through with her first husband. Since this is definitely fishy, maybe try talking to him and tell him what you are feeling about this.
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ok
theres this guy i met over the internet 3 years ago his names Mark (link)
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long distance can really hurt with a relationship, but i say follow your heart...Would you be willing to Risk your relationship to be with him
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months. We're both 14 and he's my first bf. For a while things were great, but lately, there have been times where he's with his friends and me at the same time and he acts like a jerk. When I started talking to him about it, I realized that he has no self confidence whatsoever. He started saying that the only reason he has friends is because he's funny and he's funny by being a jerk so if he changed he wouldn't have any friends. Then the conversation progressed into the fact that high school is pointless becuase he's not smart enough, won't get into college, will end up with a really bad job or no job and will be a failure in life. He says he's made too many mistakes and he's just not good at anything. He thinks that there's nothing to look foward to in life besides eventually getting old and dying. I've always been a determined and optimistic person and I try so hard to talk some sense into him and get him to enjoy life but its not working. I think it's the way his parents raised him. He's just kind of accepted that he'll never amount to anything. He's always afraid that I'm going to realize what a failure he is and break up with him. I just don't know what to do. It makes me sad that anybody would feel that way about life, especially someone I care about. What can I do? (link)
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this sounds like a problem i deal with...depression or worse...suicidal. Talk to an adult that you trust and maybe get him some counseling. Sorry if this doesn't work
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alright well im auditioning for a performing arts school and i really want a dramatic monolouge. preferbly nothing from shakespeare and its got to be from a play (link)
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well, a good dramatic piece is Going Crazy. It is about a kid named ted in a mental institution and a new guy comes and Ted tells the new kid everything there is to know. It is sad, yet funny. GOING CRAZY is a good piece
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Okay so I sent an actor I like a letter today with a card a friend and I sent out and signed it too thanking him for some things like the signed picture he sent us and all and the kind words he said about us and all as he is on a social networking site(Yes it's really him and he has pictures of his family and all and most of the pics you cant find on the net, etc so yeah, it's him. Not a poser. He said some nice things about a friend and I. ), so I send a letter thanking him for his interest in trying to help with the issue as he was interested in giving advice for it and all and told him about this issue what was going on and that it ended. Got some good advice just to be done with this person and ignore her, etc. Also said who I thought was a cast member 'The real deal" from a tv show he was a member of on this social networking site because the rest are fake or fansites. I hope I didn't get him mad. I think I did, but I am not sure. Told about the posers how people like to pretend to be people they aren't. Was this a good idea? I mean it's the truth. I always state the truth. Also said I owned a site on this site as he tried to add as a friend and he thought it was the real person, but it wasnt. I was a site I owned on the person and most sites he tried to add were either mine or someone elses. Oh gosh, Im scared. I hope I didn't get him mad. Also told I was denied by all the cast members of this tv show he was part of who had accounts on this site all except for hte ones who i thought who were the real person, I mean I was denied by one of the cat members of this show he was on as a other sites so I was denied. I just wanted to see if they were the real cats members of this show. So Im guessing they are posers or just a fansites. I think they are posers because I was denied friendship with some of the cast members who I thought they were the real deal too but I guess not. I hope I dont make him mad, etc. I told the truth and Im worried. I hope this was okay to tell him this though. I feel embarrassed and hope he doesn't get mad that I told the truth and all. Let me know if I did the right thing cuz I felt I did something wrong that could upset him. thanks. So, did I do the right thing by telling him about this. He's new to this social networking site and isn't aware of this kind of thing happening, so did I do the right thing? i just hope he isnt mad and all. thanks. (link)
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you did the right thing, but don't let that worry you because of the GOOD that you did
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Hi, i have a question regarding my dreams. I have a boy close friend
and we had a misunderstnding. We havent talk for 4 months until now.
I been dreaming of him for 4 times already but in my dreams we also
didnt talk. What do you think the message of my dream? (link)
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I think the message the dream is trying to tell you is that it is bothering you. What i would do for this problem is consult the boy about what you are bothered about and see if you two can work it out.
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okay so i met this kid and i don't wanna seem obsessive and clingy but hes kinda sending mixed messages i met him at a party a couple weeks ago and we've been talking and he came over once and said i was cute after but whenever he texts me he just stops or is like well what are you doing today lets hang ill call u after work and crap but never does..and it bugs the crap out of me so i stopped acting like i care and he kind of noticed he sid i was being "quiet" so what should i do is he interested or not? (link)
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if he was really feeling love, he would tell you. Why don't you tell him and try working things out?
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Iam a 19 year old female and around thanksgiving of 2008 I weighed about 168 pounds and now I weigh about 158 pounds so i've lost about 10 pounds. How can I lose 30 more pounds?
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try running or jogging around your neighborhood
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ok well 15/f i recently had sex and i eat a lot of chocolate (you'll find out why thats important later) but i dont know from what but i got this pimpples on my chest and now on my back there not big just liek red dots but its scaring me because i had sex and yea we used a condom and his not sick with anything but i dont kno if it could be from that or if it could be from eating chocolate because i love chocolate and one time i got realli bad hives like red patches on my skin from eating an oreo sundae in dunken donuts..and ever since then my i think im allergic to chocolate but i really dont know what its from either that or that..any advice?
i got rashes and now these pimpeles becaus ei ate this huge block of chocolate and then 2 boxes of chocolate candies because i was on my period and then for new year a chocolate cake..so any advice? (link)
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I would say stay away from the chocolate
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*i'm sorry, this might be a bit long.. but i need to say all of this so it'll make alot more sense.
sooo, i just got a boyfriend... ever since 12/29/08
he's sixteen and i'm fifteen.
what i mean by he's not that active, is not in a sexual way.. but i mean in a relationship way.
before we started going out, he SAID that he liked me.. but didn't really seem like it.
he doesn't text or call me as much as he did before, makes it seem like he was losing interests in me. and whenever i texted him, he only texts back when he WANTS to. makes me feel like i'm just there, because he WANTS me to be there.
before, i couldn't take it anymore.. so i texted him saying that he was confusing, and he FINALLY texted back asking why. and i said "tell me this honestly, do you like me or not?" he goes "yeah.. why does it seem like i don't?" and i said "somewhat" and he goes "why" and i said, "because you SAY that you do, but it doesn't seem like it." and he told said "that's because i'm not sure if you like me" that kind of made me go like "what the heckk?" because I'M the one that's been texting him, and he's the one that hasn't been answering. but, we worked that out... but he can't really use that excuse anymore since we're together now.
my last couple of relationships, i didn't take really seriously. but this time, i would actually try to make this one work out. but the relationship can't work out if only ONE person tries to make it work, right? SUPPOSEDLY i'm the first girl that had ever gaven him 'butterflies' and really liked before going out with. he says so, but it sure doesn't seem like it. i'm not sure if he's busy or what not.. but after we went out, my boyfriend doesn't even seem like a boyfriend! our last conversation ended with "HAPPY NEW YEAR!" and "YOU TOO!" *ends...
i would talk to him about it, but it'd probably end up the same as before.. i'm not even sure if he even takes this relationship seriously or not. because i don't want to, if he isn't going to.
sooo, the questions that i'm wondering is.. what do you think is running through his mind? do you think he lost interest? what's your opinion on this? what should i do?
your response is very important to me! please & thank you (: (link)
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I can only guess that if he loves you, not all guys like saying that over and over just to make it special. Tell him this is troulbing you and see if he and you can work it out
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16/f I have a little hair on my stomach and back, thats only really noticeable in the sunlight. Well, I'm going to be a camp counselor this summer and spend pretty much 3 months running around in a bathing suit. I'd like to wear a bikini, but i'm worried about how noticeable the hair would be...
I don't know how to get rid of it! its mostly on my lower back, which is hard to reach. suggestions!?! pleaseeeee. its kinda embarrassing... (link)
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keep it. If you shave it, it will grow back darker and thicker
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