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I hate my life
Okay so, how should I put this, there are bright spots that are few and in between...I love my fam to death except for one. WHat should I do? Issues, issues. I hate my sister, she's a complete and toatal bitch. SHe's always rude and mean to me I don't know how to handel it?
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I would say that is normal, but what i would do is either talk to your sister or to one of your parents and ask them to stop treating you like that. Handle it by ignoring her. It may seem impossible that she will stop, but given some time and patience, she will stop.
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First of all, it is very harsh for you to term your sister as "toatal bitch". That is a real derogatory remark (by the way not intending to be harsh on you) to use on your sister (born from the same womb as you were born) despite how bad she is. Anyways, if she is always putting you off, I guess you both need to take out sometime for each other and reflect on your relationship. You need to find out what is going wrong and why it is going wrong. Both of you need to discuss with an open mind and accept your faults rather than being stubborn. I am saying so because it is far better to develop a constructive relationship with your sister rather than to completely destroy the relationship as a solution. Politely ask her (and so should she) why she is being rude and mean to you and tell her which aspects of her behavior is putting you off and also ask her if there is anything in you that she does not like. Try to convince her you want to develop a healthy relationship with her and be with each other in good times and also when the going is not so smooth. If you can rationally and logically explain to her and both of you are honest, whatever differences are there between you, will go away. Don’t forget you will need your sister and so will she. I hope that helps. God bless you and your family.
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If I were you, I would try to talk to my sister. Tell her that the way she acts hurts your feelings. Try telling her that you would like to have a good relationship with her. If she doesn't fall in line, try talking to your parents. Tell them what she is doing and how it makes you feel. Maybe your parents can calmly talk to her and let her know what she's doing and how she can help make your relationship better.
Also, try hanging out with your friends more and involving yourself in an aesthetic hobby that can become an outlet for stress. Whether it's drawing, writing, music, movies, books, etc. They can help to keep you calm when life gets to be a bit too much. If you find something that you are good at and enjoy, you will have something to do when you get down that will take your mind off of the situation.
Hope this helps!
Darby(:
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Depending on how old you are I would get a job. This will allow you to get out of the house and away from your family. Then with the money you can start to save for college so that you don't have to stay at home.
Or.
I would join a club. Make new friends. Basically try to do things that will allow you to be away from home and your sister.
Also try talking to your sister. Tell her how much she means to you and her behavior around you is hurting your fellings. I know it may seem hard to do, but it needs to be done.
Also you can involve your parents if you need to. I'm sure they would do something about it.
If you need someone to talk to just message me.
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