I'm not very into making an elaborate profile. So that's why my profiles nothing :)
Well my names Matt, im 15 live in US. (My now ex) girlfriend always talked about going on advicenators and i thought id check it out and from my feed back i seem good at it =)
So just drop me a question whenever you want I'll answer it to the best of my ability.
I specialize in relationship problems, weather it's your bf/gf, best friend, argue with parents ect..
I'm also pretty knowledgeable about girl issues (ex gf lol) so I can answer those too.
Gender: Male
Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 27, 2008
Answers: 79
Last Update: September 15, 2009
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ok lets call him jake & letd call her ella
ok i liked jake ever since i met him but i would never admit it but than he changed schools and 2 years after i found his ms & than he finally liked me & we went out but than i broke up with him cuz i liek this other boy lest call him andrew and he said i had a chance to go tou with him than he found otu abotu jake and got pissed and was liek you told me you liek me but than he has other moree moree girls that like him i know becuase all hsi commetns are form girls nad they all say i lvoe you so much ..but he got pissed at me and i ahven talked to andrew fro 2 months than i stareted talked ot eachother again..it wasnt what i expected cuase we got itn a fight and i ahvent talked to him ever since i broke up with him so it was 4 months and than after liek a month after he strted calling my stupid and making fun of me...& now he likes my friend and i told him i like him and he told me who he likes
ok i will comment the rest bc ther is more (link)
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well when you post it ill try and awnser what your question is.
My only request is that you fix up your English a tad. Instead of leik hsi tuo moree ahvnt lvoe ect..
So it's easier like his to more havnt love ect..
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14/m
i have a big problem here. im going into highschool this year and i havent had a girlfriend in such a long time. the last time i had a girlfriend was back in december and it was a girl in a lower grade then me. and i have lots of friends and everything and i guess im popular. ive mad friends with pretty much all the attractive girls. and if i would ask any of them out they all say "were too good of friends" and dont even give me a chance. it makes me so frustrated. i think they are lying to me and just saying that as an excuse. ive tried changing myself so they will like me but it doesnt work. i think its because im fat. i think im fat. i just want to know why none of my friends will date me?? it makes me so sad and it makes me want to give up (link)
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I know what your going through except that i didn't really have ANY friends that were girls/ not popular.
It doesn't matter weather you have a girlfriend or not. You don't need one.
Your honestly better off being friends with your friends because your going to have friends forever but a girlfriend will last a few months, maybe years if your lucky. Don't try to change yourself to get someone to like you. A real relationship that you want is one where you can be yourself and the person likes you for yourself.
Trust me you will be so much happier when you know the person likes you for you, and not just what your showing them.
About being fat, well thats up for you to judge.
If you think you are do something about it, cut back on sweets, do some exercise, eat some fruits n veggies.
Some friends could not like you like that and are just being nice, or some just do feel that way. (because many times when good friends go out they end up disliking each other after break up)
Don't give up you will eventually find someone but your only 14, you got a long road ahead to find a girlfriend/wife.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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I’m a senior in aerospace engineering and my boyfriend just graduated then started his masters degree work in ocean engineering. We’ve been dating for almost a year now and I love him... but he’s boring as hell. We spend time together, but we do almost nothing during that time (well, except at night...). It’s hard to get him to participate in intellectual conversation; I much prefer bouncing ideas off of other friends, or even people at Mensa gatherings whom I’ve never before met. It’s nearly impossible to get him to do anything active; I live to swim at the beach, ride my bike, rock climb, etc., but it seems that the most active thing he does is walk to and from campus. When we’re together, we mostly just play cards or watch bad movies.
Also, I’ve been away for most of the summer. I was in China on an engineering tour for a month, then I spent a week at home, and I’ve spent the past couple months in Chicago. The distance has made me more frustrated with him, partially since I can have much better long-distance conversations with other male friends than with him. Also, my time at the Chicago Pride Parade and the Dyke March tested my faithfulness to him (I stayed faithful, but, in the presence of so many beautiful women, I really didn’t want to).
So, in short, he’s boring. I don’t know if I want to stay with the man I love, start looking for a man or woman who can make my life more interesting, or just be single. This might be an age thing (I’m eighteen and he’s twenty-two), so it is possible that I won’t be bored as easily in a few years.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
-L (18, female) (link)
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I think that your personalities are just too different. Your adventurous, fun, exciting, willing to try new things, out going.
He seems to be just boring, dull and not very exciting.
I think you should move on because in the long run you want someone who can participate in the things you enjoy. (or at least some of them)
It is good for both people to have things they do on there own away from their significant other so you don't feel smothered.
But when it's all on your own it's like your not even in a relationship.
I think you need to find somebody up to your speed. and him someone his speed.
Your going 80 mph and he is going 20mph it just won't work.
Hope it helped.
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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I've known this guy for 2 years now. He just graduated and is leaving at the end of this summer for school. When I first met him I was crazy for him but he never made a move on me until last summer, when I was dating someone else. Well now I'm single, and I don't know if we still have anything. He saw me from a distance the other night and came running over to me and gave me a big hug because we hadn't seen each other since school got out. I still like him, but I don't know if I should bother. I mean, he's gonna be gone soon anyways. (link)
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I don't think you should do it. If you get attached and then he goes and leaves you then you'll just have your heart broken.
BUT
If hes going to a college near you (In state college) then i say give it a shot.
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i need to find more information about high schools that are all about the performing arts such as acting and so forth can u give me any ideas? (link)
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http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X&oi=spell&resnum=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=performing+arts+high+schools&spell=1
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What does it mean to have your cherry popped? Does it hurt? What happens after and what's so important about it? (link)
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1. Having your cherry popped means having sex for the first time.
2. Yes it does hurt. ALOT. It hurts because virgins have whats called a hymen. A hymen is small patch of skin covering the entrance into the vagina. (getting all the way in)
Although you might have alrdy broken your hymen via tampons, horsebackriding, or even some contact sports.
3. What happens is that you start to bleed alot once it is broken
4. Lastly nothings importent about it. You don't need it to live or do anything.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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In 2006 my ex want me back, i get confours sorry (cant spell) but after 2 years he want me back, he ahve been trying to get in torch with with my old number that i dont have anymore then the next thing gone off with me, have i done something wrong? i was a bit over weight
how can you tell that my ex-boyfriend gave an evil look at my male friend?
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You really didn't ask a question here. And it's hard to understand the broken English.
But from the "?'s" I will assume those are your 2 questions.
No i don't think you did anything wrong.
You can't "prove" it unless you caught it on camera or video
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Ok im in 8th grade and i am 13 well my bf is 15 so of course he wants to have sex i mean im not sayin it in a bitchy way im actually curiouse and i wanna have sex with him.I mean im not a hoe or anything i just reallllly like him ALOT and i wanna take it to another level.Im told that i dont act my age that i act alot older and look it to so i dont no if maybe the way i act is makin me wanna have sex so fast.But anyways ill get to the point ok i told him that i wasnt a virgan even tho i really am and im scared that when we have sex he will find out that i was a virgin and get mad at me.I mean i no you can tell by your cheery gettin popped but i think mines already popped because i use tampons and i have to use the large ones and i still have to change it every 30 mins so i thot since its so heavy and since i have to use large ones that maybe my cherry got popped by the tampons but other then that will he be able to tell if im a virgin u no while his thing is in me?And also he always askin me when i give him head if i will deepthroat i no wat it means but im afraid if i try that i will puke on his dick and that would be really embarising so is there any way i could be able to deepthroat on him or if i could practice on somthen cuz he said that his dick is 7 almost 8 inches so wouldnt that be hard to do? i dont no just please help me..(And please dont tell me im to young or anything like just help me out please) (link)
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Well firstly you are kinda young but thats never stopped anyone. ;)
Ok well about the deepthroating isn't as great as people put it out to be. The tip of the dick is the most senseitive part and gives the most pleasure, deepthroating isn't anything special.
But if he says he needs it, then practice on a cucumber. They are around 7-8 inches. (make sure it's not too thick though.)
And the sex part, if your hymen is gone then there is no way he can know your a virgin. So don't worry about him finding out.
But i think you should tell him that you are a virgin, if he truely likes you as much as you like him he won't care. He would love you for whatever you are.
I hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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We broke up after dating for about 3 weeks. Before then we had known each other for about 6 months and we talked to each other about everything, he was pretty much my best friend. Right after we broke up, we didn't talk for awhile and I missed him a lot but I thought I would get over it. Then he started texting me again and we were getting back to being friends, and it wasn't so awkward... until he told me he wanted me back. But a couple weeks after I turned him down (reason being I have a new bf), he started telling me about this other girl that he wants to ask out, and he wants me to help him "get it to flow". So... he asked me if I would go on a double date with bf with them. Do you think he's really moved on and that this would be a safe move? Or should I turn him down again incase he's still not over me? (link)
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I think that you should go for it.
As long as your over him then even if hes not over you, your in a group setting it's not like he can make a move while hes trying to get another girl/your with your boyfriend.
If somehow he does get a move in there towards you then tell him no and that if he can't just be friends then you can't hang out with him.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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Hey man. So yea i talked to my girlfriend, and she admited that she is,and she was waitng to tell me cause she didnt really believe it herself. Wow im so scared i dont know what to do. Shes coming over tongiht and were going to discuss our options. I think shes gonna wanna keep it. But i dont think that would be best for us right now. So idk. (link)
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I know excately what your saying. If my gf got pregnant i know shed never want an abortion and i would problly lean more toward that. But physically her bodys incapable of having one, she would die.
But enough of me.
Personally at your age i dont think you should have it. It would dominate your lives, and you would end up resenting the baby itself because it ruined what you could have done in life. You would have to go from playing sports hanging out with your buds, staying up late at night and partying ect... to making sure you can support the kid with a job, and babysitting and all the parenting things. I think you should tell her how life changing it actually is. Tell her to think of what it will do to her life. Getting up at 4 A.M. because the babies crying feeding it breast feeding ect..
And lastly and worst of all what happens if one of you decided to break up with the other. She would have to live with the baby for the rest of her life.
It's just a baby at this age has too many complications and too easily fallen out of love because youve only seen 1% of the world. You might want different things out of life.
Tell me how things go
Well i hope it helped.
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
Hey im just checking up on how it went. Tell me how it went and what you two decided
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Well ok my boyfreind and I HAVE BEEN DATING FOR OVER A YEAR NOW BUT W ELIVE AND HOUR AWAY FROM EACHOTHER AND I REALLY DONT KNOW IF HE LIKES ME ANYMORE
WHAT SHOULD I DO
P.S I HAVE HIS NUMBER BUT I'M SHY TO CALL CAUSE IDK IF HE STILL LIKES ME (link)
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Don't be afriad to talk to him, even if you think somethings wrong.
Ask him if he still feels in love with you. If he says no, ask why he feels that way and what happend. If its something you could work on ask him to give it some time to see if you could fix it. If it's something out of your control then thats it, its out of your control theres nothing you can do about it.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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Basic Question: I'm in love with my best friend who is a guy, should I tell him?
Details: Okay, so this year I had my first "guy friend" and he is really nice and we talk on the phone all the time.I moved away and so now we talk on the phone even more.I really like him as more than a friend and he is my first crush i have liked for more that looks it being he's not hte most beautiful guy, he's kinda a nerd but that is beyond the point. For a while he was going out with this one girl so I had to pretend completely not to like him. Now they have broken up it's been about a month and from what he is telling me it wasn't a very dramatic break up. I really want to tell him and but I'm horrid nervous it will ruin out friendship.I'm just not sure if i should tell him i like him. Should I? What are some ways I could tell him casually. (link)
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Well seeing as that you said you moved away would you have moved so far a realationship would be impossible? If so I don't think you should tell him because it would make it a bit akward when you talk.
But, if you only moved like 10-20 min away from your orignal house then thats a different story.
In my personal opnion i don't think you should tell him just for the fact that alot of times when best friends go out, and when they break up they stop becoming friends. Or you both still want to be friends and its always akward when your around eachother.
Friends will be forever, but most realationships will only be there for a few years.
Well hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for six months. I love her so much. I never loved someone this much in my life before. I'm 16 and shes 15 gonna be 16 in September. We don't go to the same school. I go to a Catholic school, and she goes to a public school. About two months ago we went out to eat, Saw a movie, and went back to her house. Her parents were out at a neighbors party so i decided to stay with her until they got home, So she wouldnt be scared. So we were laying in her bed, Watching a movie and listeing to music, i was holding her in my arms and its was quiet, and I told her I love her. And she turned around and we started making out, Then one thing led to another i started taking her clothes off and she started taking mine off, Then Well I think you know what happend next, We ended up having sex. (We were both Virgins) I did use a condom and everything, so we did have protection. So now that its 2 Months later, I kinda think she might be pregnant. She hasnt mentiond anything, but I noticed Her stomachs been getting bigger and bigger, nothing like huge or anything just like a little bump. I keep telling her theres nothing she can't tell me. And she always says the same thing "I know, I love you, and I could never keep anything from you." I trust her, but her friend even kind of slipped and said did you tell him yet, and she just gave her a look. And lately shes been sick alot, She throws up everyday for like a month. IF she is pregnant i want her to tell me. Should I mention something to her. Im scared, I dont want anything to happen to her. I want to be with her and help her through anything. Also Any ideas on how to help her through this if she is... Thank you man. (link)
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Me and my gf are both virgins, and that is the excate thing i worry about when i even think about having sex with her. So i can understand the worry.
From what you told me. Yea shes pregnant.
Some signs are
Wight gain
Werid cravings (like pickles and ice cream)
Sickness.
No more period. (if you have noticed she doesn't anymore)
Cramping.
Irregular bleeding from the vagina.
Excessive tiredness.
Swollen or tender breats.
Those are a few.
What you should do seeing that the friends screwed up and pretty much told you.
Sit your girlfirend down and tell her you think shes pregnant, tell her that if she is you need to know so that you can help her with her decesion.
(i do not know your views on abortion )
Tell her how importent it is for her to tell you and maybe have her take a pregnancy test.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
P.S. tell me how it went
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Is there any "remedies" that help you lose weight? Like I know if you drink the snapple green tea you start to lose some weight because it boosts your metabolism. I would like to know anything & everything. I am open to any answers you may have... but I would like to know that this is tried & true but either you or a friend so I know that it actually has/does work.
Thanks (link)
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Well i lost 25 pounds or so in approx a month completely healthily by just busting my ass completely. I wanted to cut weight for wrestling.
My solution was cutting all my food to smaller portions.
Eating only lean meats, furits, vegtables, water, milk, cereal.
And adding about 2hrs of stationary biking (with literally 4 seatpants+sweatshirts) after my 2 hr wrestling practice.
But that is just me. I know that eating organic spicy foods before every meal increases matabolism.
I say google "foods that boost matabolism" or something like that and follow through.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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THis may be complicated.
I live 28 hours away from the person I love. Here is where it is complicated. I've met him once, he has been my pen-pal for almost 2 years now. I "met" him through my friend which is also his friend as well. (they've actually met) I went down this summer and I met him and things went more then great. I would move for him in a heartbeat & i am sure he would too but he cant (literally). Any advice as what to do? I cant stop thinking about him, i know my world would seriously flip upside down if I did not have him. Call me crazy, but i love him. I am not young & stupid. I am 19 and this is not just a toy thing because if this was just a lil dinky stage i was going through i wouldnt waste it on a guy 28 hours away.
SHould I move?
What should I do? (link)
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Well you said you literally can't move closer so then moving is out of the question.
Maybe ask him to move then?
Just keep in touch and keep talking and writing and try to see eachother as much as you can.
You might have to wait untill you can move to him or him to you. Because 28hrs is too far to keep driving every week.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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Why does my male dogs penis get red and weird at the top. Is he horny or something? Lol, this is weird. Can someone explain? (link)
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If you can see it then yea pretty much.
It is problly mating season and he well wants to mate. He will problly hump anything in site so either let him mate, keep him away from girl dogs, or nuder him
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hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was wat should i do to help our relationship
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This sounds like hes being very selfish.
At the begging of relationships guys try harder because they are working on getting the girl. Once they have the girl they try to relax and tend to not try. (marriage is the ultimate form of this)
Tell this guy how you feel. Tell him you feel left out and that hes not the same guy as 6 months ago.
Tell him you like him and you want this relationship to work.
Ask him to hang out with his friends some times. (not too much he does need "guy" time)
But his whole life cannot be guy time you need to be including wayy more then he is including you.
Tell him what you need he needs to fix, and that he needs to step it up.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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does my period last my whole life or what (link)
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No. Once you hit whats known as menopause it ends.
You hit menopause at approx 51.
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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I know this is an issue that many people deal with and i have tried just about everything that i know but nothing seems to work....I think i have an addiction to porn and i dont know what to do...i went a whole month and a half without doing it and it was the hardest thing for me....i dont know how to get it out of my head,.i pray about it just about every night and im tired of being this way please help (link)
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Well i dont know about addicted.
Addicted is thinking about porn almost 24/7 and thinkin about watching it.
90% of guys (my own approx figure) have watched porn at least once in a lifetime.
Some personally like to watch and use it.
But, if you dont want to do it anymore and your bent on no more masturbation then cut off all temptation.
If you do it while on the computer block those types of sites and make a password even you dont know.
if its magazines then throw them out, same with movies.
Afterward just pray and ask for forgivness. If your sorry youll be forgiven
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well so i met this guy and i just moved to a new place and im going to a new high school and everything. im gonna be a sophmore. i used to live here so i still have some friends from when i was younger. anyway my friend introduced me to this guy and a few of us went to the movies and he kissed me. now since we barely knew each other we are getting to kno each other and stuff. the problem is i dont think i actually like HIM i just like the guy attention. a few months ago my bf and i broke up and now ive moved on but now that im single i really want guy attention. the guy acts like he likes me and we do flirt but i dont think i actually like him. i really dont think i like him i think i just like the attention. he says hes been thinking about me a lot and has even brought up us dating in the future but i dont kno what to do. if he only had a casual relationship would it be ok that i dont like him a lot? cause lots of people date people casually that they arent in serious like with. but i also dont think its a good idea to date someone before i even go to the school because i dont want people already making assumptions of me. the guy seems nice and genuine but im still not sure if he is. i have a hard time trusting guys. anyway thanks for your input!! :) (link)
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Your right you just got there! get to know him better and see if you like him.
But dont go out with him if you dont truely like him. He has feelings too and if he likes you i am sure he wouldnt want to be strung along like that.
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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