Ok im in 8th grade and i am 13 well my bf is 15 so of course he wants to have sex i mean im not sayin it in a bitchy way im actually curiouse and i wanna have sex with him.I mean im not a hoe or anything i just reallllly like him ALOT and i wanna take it to another level.Im told that i dont act my age that i act alot older and look it to so i dont no if maybe the way i act is makin me wanna have sex so fast.But anyways ill get to the point ok i told him that i wasnt a virgan even tho i really am and im scared that when we have sex he will find out that i was a virgin and get mad at me.I mean i no you can tell by your cheery gettin popped but i think mines already popped because i use tampons and i have to use the large ones and i still have to change it every 30 mins so i thot since its so heavy and since i have to use large ones that maybe my cherry got popped by the tampons but other then that will he be able to tell if im a virgin u no while his thing is in me?And also he always askin me when i give him head if i will deepthroat i no wat it means but im afraid if i try that i will puke on his dick and that would be really embarising so is there any way i could be able to deepthroat on him or if i could practice on somthen cuz he said that his dick is 7 almost 8 inches so wouldnt that be hard to do? i dont no just please help me..(And please dont tell me im to young or anything like just help me out please)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? surferchick16 answered Saturday July 5 2008, 9:06 pm: I am not meaning to sound rude by any means, but you seem set on your decision to have sex. Please know that if you are a virgin and you have sex you can never get that back. You may love him, or like him ALOT but sex is a huge deal.That decision will change the rest of your life, and your relationship with him. You are 13, you have so much in your life, I mean for real you haven't even gone to highschool yet. Sex really will change everything. I mean I'm not trying to tell you to definitly wait til your married, thats your decision, but its a good one. Think about if you guys break up, how would you feel knowing you gave him your childhood. Please don't rush into it, it may not have the reaction or effect that you want it to have. And although abstinence is hard, it is so much more worth while. I promise. [ surferchick16's advice column | Ask surferchick16 A Question ]
InsaneChildz answered Saturday July 5 2008, 7:42 pm: Well firstly you are kinda young but thats never stopped anyone. ;)
Ok well about the deepthroating isn't as great as people put it out to be. The tip of the dick is the most senseitive part and gives the most pleasure, deepthroating isn't anything special.
But if he says he needs it, then practice on a cucumber. They are around 7-8 inches. (make sure it's not too thick though.)
And the sex part, if your hymen is gone then there is no way he can know your a virgin. So don't worry about him finding out.
But i think you should tell him that you are a virgin, if he truely likes you as much as you like him he won't care. He would love you for whatever you are.
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