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Girlfriend....


Question Posted Thursday July 3 2008, 1:32 pm

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for six months. I love her so much. I never loved someone this much in my life before. I'm 16 and shes 15 gonna be 16 in September. We don't go to the same school. I go to a Catholic school, and she goes to a public school. About two months ago we went out to eat, Saw a movie, and went back to her house. Her parents were out at a neighbors party so i decided to stay with her until they got home, So she wouldnt be scared. So we were laying in her bed, Watching a movie and listeing to music, i was holding her in my arms and its was quiet, and I told her I love her. And she turned around and we started making out, Then one thing led to another i started taking her clothes off and she started taking mine off, Then Well I think you know what happend next, We ended up having sex. (We were both Virgins) I did use a condom and everything, so we did have protection. So now that its 2 Months later, I kinda think she might be pregnant. She hasnt mentiond anything, but I noticed Her stomachs been getting bigger and bigger, nothing like huge or anything just like a little bump. I keep telling her theres nothing she can't tell me. And she always says the same thing "I know, I love you, and I could never keep anything from you." I trust her, but her friend even kind of slipped and said did you tell him yet, and she just gave her a look. And lately shes been sick alot, She throws up everyday for like a month. IF she is pregnant i want her to tell me. Should I mention something to her. Im scared, I dont want anything to happen to her. I want to be with her and help her through anything. Also Any ideas on how to help her through this if she is... Thank you man.

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InsaneChildz answered Thursday July 3 2008, 4:34 pm:
Me and my gf are both virgins, and that is the excate thing i worry about when i even think about having sex with her. So i can understand the worry.

From what you told me. Yea shes pregnant.
Some signs are
Wight gain
Werid cravings (like pickles and ice cream)
Sickness.
No more period. (if you have noticed she doesn't anymore)
Cramping.
Irregular bleeding from the vagina.
Excessive tiredness.
Swollen or tender breats.

Those are a few.
What you should do seeing that the friends screwed up and pretty much told you.

Sit your girlfirend down and tell her you think shes pregnant, tell her that if she is you need to know so that you can help her with her decesion.
(i do not know your views on abortion )

Tell her how importent it is for her to tell you and maybe have her take a pregnancy test.

Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
P.S. tell me how it went

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