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Can I still be friends with my ex?


Question Posted Saturday July 5 2008, 1:38 pm

We broke up after dating for about 3 weeks. Before then we had known each other for about 6 months and we talked to each other about everything, he was pretty much my best friend. Right after we broke up, we didn't talk for awhile and I missed him a lot but I thought I would get over it. Then he started texting me again and we were getting back to being friends, and it wasn't so awkward... until he told me he wanted me back. But a couple weeks after I turned him down (reason being I have a new bf), he started telling me about this other girl that he wants to ask out, and he wants me to help him "get it to flow". So... he asked me if I would go on a double date with bf with them. Do you think he's really moved on and that this would be a safe move? Or should I turn him down again incase he's still not over me?

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UpStep answered Saturday July 5 2008, 6:56 pm:
I agree with Insanechild.
Go for it.

There's no reason you all can't be friends. He might actually be serious this time and trying really trying to move on.

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InsaneChildz answered Saturday July 5 2008, 4:15 pm:
I think that you should go for it.
As long as your over him then even if hes not over you, your in a group setting it's not like he can make a move while hes trying to get another girl/your with your boyfriend.
If somehow he does get a move in there towards you then tell him no and that if he can't just be friends then you can't hang out with him.

Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
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