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I'm in love with my Best Friend...Help!
Basic Question: I'm in love with my best friend who is a guy, should I tell him?
Details: Okay, so this year I had my first "guy friend" and he is really nice and we talk on the phone all the time.I moved away and so now we talk on the phone even more.I really like him as more than a friend and he is my first crush i have liked for more that looks it being he's not hte most beautiful guy, he's kinda a nerd but that is beyond the point. For a while he was going out with this one girl so I had to pretend completely not to like him. Now they have broken up it's been about a month and from what he is telling me it wasn't a very dramatic break up. I really want to tell him and but I'm horrid nervous it will ruin out friendship.I'm just not sure if i should tell him i like him. Should I? What are some ways I could tell him casually.
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aww,that a tough one since you moved away.If your in driving distance of him,then i would say tell him.The best relationships are when your friends first,he might even feel the same way about you.If he's farther then 3 hours away though drivingwise,it would be difficult to carry on a relationship because of the distance,but it dosent mean that it wont work.When your on the phone with him say something like so...(insert his name here)we've been friends for awhile now and well ive started to developed feelings for you as more then friends..something along those lines.I hope everything works out for you :)
♥ danielle
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Well seeing as that you said you moved away would you have moved so far a realationship would be impossible? If so I don't think you should tell him because it would make it a bit akward when you talk.
But, if you only moved like 10-20 min away from your orignal house then thats a different story.
In my personal opnion i don't think you should tell him just for the fact that alot of times when best friends go out, and when they break up they stop becoming friends. Or you both still want to be friends and its always akward when your around eachother.
Friends will be forever, but most realationships will only be there for a few years.
Well hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
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