Hi I am Amanda i am about 16 years of age and i have brown hair origionally but i died it blonde... i have brown eyes... i am about 5'3" and about 107 pounds. For all you georgeous men out there... im sorry im taken!*love u Bryan* and very much in love! and ladies im always here to help you on your guy problem... trust me i know what they are like!! haha (guys you know im here for you too... ive got a girls mind! its the best way to figure out your girls!) if you would like to know more about me you can IM me!
E-mail: paulsbutifulangel@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: United States
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
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i like Zain Motani could you get this message to him so that he can respond some how and tell me what kind of girls he likes please if it is not too much trouble i really like this guy (link)
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i dunno who that is sorry
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He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am? (link)
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okay hun... you like him and he likes you! he likes you for what you are doing now... so KEEP DOIN IT!!! who cares what other people think of him... if you like him thats all you need! if your not ready to date... all you have to do is keep likin him till you are and keep doing whatever your doing to make him like you... im sure hell stick around... and if he asks you out and your sure that you are still not ready explain that to him... tell him you still wanna be friends and when you are ready tell him he will definetly be the first one you go to! but keep it real with him... and dont let what others think of him stop you! its not them going to be with him... you are... and you should do what makes you happy! hope i helped!
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14/f i have trouble with cutting my self and i really dont kno what to do!!! any advice would be nice! (link)
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hi.... i used to cut myself too... its a big problem... but you are good to have the strength to admit it and try to get help with it... but it is not the answer. look at the problems that are making you cut yourself and try to work them out. the thing i did to help me is whenever i felt like doing it or got really angry i wrote a poem expressing how i was feeling... you could write poems or even start a journal and in that journal write down how your feeling at that time...and mabey take that journal to a close friend or relative and let them read it and see if they have any suggestions on how to help you out with what is making you angry or what the problem is! if you need anymore suggestions or help you can instant message me on my AIM screen name or e mail me... im always here to help...
AIM: HTooHelp
Email: Bryansbabygurl720@yahoo.com
Hope i Helped!
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My dog is a sweet Fullblooded boxer. The problem is she wont stop bitting my feet and when I walk she pulls on my pants.She is about 7 mounths, WHAT SHOULD I DO (link)
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This is so funny... it just cracks me up cuz i have a jack russel terrior about a year old that does the EXACT same thing! what i do with him is when he starts to do it be firm with him and say NO and get a tug a war toy and play with him with that... it will show your dog to play with toys and not your pants! hope i helped
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dude, iim flippn in love with this guy... hes 19, and im 13.. but hes rele hot.. he asked if i would do him but it just wasnt the right time..........and he said hi.... and i said hi and thats how it started. o yeah and he has a girlfriend.. but he doesnt like her so its ok. but all my friends tell me that i cant hang out with them if i do the hot guy while i still have a boyfriend... but i need a boyfriend at all times, its my mom`s rule. my mom had sex with my teacher and now things are rele akward... but ne ways. i like him.. should i dump my boyfriend? (link)
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if you do end up dating this guy and he dumps his girlfriend and you dump your boyfriend... this girl is going to be very mad and probably challenge you to a fight so BE CAREFUL! plus you are 13 and he is 19.... thats a 6 year difference and it is illigal... trust me... i am almost 16 and i dates a 23 year old and it just doesnt work... youll date him for a while fall for him and most likely he will find someone older.... i cant say what hes thinking but anyone that old that goes for someone that young is mostly only in it for sex... and trust me if you end up getting pregnant by his kid after having sex with him... he will most liekly not be there for you... and you are much to young to be doing things like that with people that old... but if you do decide tog og ahead and do it then its your choice... the only advice i can give you then is be careful because you may end up getting hurt really bad! i hope i helped.
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Okay I have this friend who is 12 and she is wanting to save up some money but for being as young as she is she is having trouble earning money so if any of you have any good ways she could earn money then plese help as soon as possible!!! (link)
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what your friend could do is have a lemonade stand or sell cookies... if not she could just save up the change she gets or finds! every penny counts! hope i helped!
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okay heres the thing... im 13/f and on saturday im going over to my KINDA boyfriend's house... we arent exactly dating but we both like each other.. i know, its confusing right? so anyway, i know that this guy is going to make out with me.. and i want to make out with him too.. but i've never made out with anyone before. Hes experienced and im sure hes made out with girls before.. but if im new at it will i totally suck?? someone told me that if the guy knows what hes doing then i can just go along with it.. is that true? (link)
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aqll i can say is just go witht he flow.... dont worrie to much about and just go with it.... hope i helped
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I feel really dumb asking this but what do you exactly do when you give a guy head? (link)
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dont feel dumb.... everyones gotta learn! well what you should do is lick it up and down a few times up and down first get it up a little more... then put it in your mouth and go up and down mabey move yourr tounge around while doing it to make it feel better... make sure you dont go to far down or you may gag and thats not good! but go down as far as you are comftorble to... a good hint to make it feel really good for him is to hum while your doing it that will put a little vibration in for him and a little kink into the mood! hope i helped tell me if u need to know anything else!
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both of my ears only have one pericing, and i want to make alot of other peircings myself but im a little scared and i kinda, dont know how to do it. i want to do my cartiladge on the top and another hole by my first hole on the lobe. but i want to get an industrial (its like a bar that stars at your cartilage and ends somewhere on the bottom somewhere, im getting that professionay done if i have the guts) so i dont know if thats going to interfere with my peircings. i wanna do it myself but im not sure what teh steps are. does anyone know how/have experience? or are there any sites with pictures and explanations for me (someone who is realy slow). ive never done anything like this before and any info would be great! thanks! (link)
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well ill tell you right now i know nothing really about how to pierce things myself... but i do know it is not good to pierce things yourself.... your earlobes is alright yourself as long as it doesnt get infected but other places if you hit a wrong nerve you can paralyze parts of your body so BE CAREFUL
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why are love handles called love handles? explanation please! :) (link)
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they are called "love handles" because ithey are used in sex... when you are having sex with a guy he may use them to grab onto.... not always but sometimes...in other words they are used when making love! so they call them love handles! hope i helped!
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my friend doesn't really like this guy who i like but she's leading him on. she said to my face she's doing this on purpose. he likes me and we are like best friends but my friend askes him to dances a month early so i can't ask. What should i do?
female 16 (link)
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confront your friend ask her why shes doing it it seems as if shes not a very good friend if she would do that to you.... if that doesnt work... dont tell her who you like.... and stop talking to her as much and when she asks why you guys dont talk as much anymore tell her becuase of what you do with the guys i like! im sure she will get the message really quick! hope i helped!
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what are love handles? (link)
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love handles are the extra fas around you hips... most likely around where you would put a pair of hip hugger jeans... its the extra fat that hangs off the sides... its kind of hard to explain without showing you!
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i think i did the wrong category but o well.
it starts like this: i live with my aunt now and its ok but sometimes i wish i was with my mom, but my mom left me when i was 2 and my dad has always been in jail. I dont remember my parents at all. i want to talk to them but i dont know where either of them all, and everytime people mention "mom" or "dad" i get sad and i want to cry. i have no memory of them and i dont know where they are. Any Advice on trying to get over it?
~Empty Space~
i am also a columnist but this time i need help from some1 else. (link)
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i cant say i have been exactly where you have been... but my mom did walk out on me when i was six... but i did end up seeing her again and now i live with ehr and dont talk to my dad.... sit down with your aunt and talk to her about it... im really sorry... i know what its like not to have parents around... i was living with my grandparents for a while not knowing where my mom or dad were... i now live with my mom and my dad lives in another state... i dont talk to my dad but being with my mom is jsut great... and to tell you the truth just because your mom is your birth mother doesnt mean shes really a mother... a mother is someone who is there for you and who cares for you and takes care of you... and thats what your aunt is. i hope i could help you! im really sorry i know its hard
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Hello!! I hope ya'll can help me! I'm sorr its so long but its a long story!! Okay here is my scenario. My birthday was at the end of January, and my boyfriend had already been planning our Valentine's date. He asked me if it would be alright if he gave me my birthday gift along with my Valentine's gift because it would make it easier on him, so of course i told him yes. Well, On Saturday (which was our Valentine's day because i had to work Monday) he took me to dinner, then he blindfolded me and took me to... a hotel. BUT before you judge, it was very romantic. He had his friends come and light the candles he had set up EVERYWHERE and rosepedals, the whole deal. And we had planned to have sex for our first time, not necessarily then but we had stopped ourselves a couple of times because we wanted to wiat until it would be special. Which this was. Okay, well moving on, besides all of this, he didn't get me like flowers or a bear or even a card. I spent like $70 on him with gifts and whatnot. But i wasn't too mad because i assumed he had sent me a carnation at school (Our school has sales where you can buy a carnation for someone for V-Day and writea message and then we got them on Monday 9*) Well i of course sent him one, and i waited but he never sent me one. I went to his house after work and i brought over peanut butter heart shaped cookies (His fav!) and still nothing. This made me really mad because he didn't even get me a stinkin carnation!! I got pretty upset and left. Now am i overreacting? I mean he did spend money on me but i'm the type of person who appreciates little things like a flower or a box of choc, he didn't have to go buy a hotel or anything, i just wanted a carnation :( Lol, AND he still hasn't given me anything for my birthday!! Shouldi be mad? (link)
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you are not overreacting!!! i would be mad too... but him being with you should have been the best gift... money and presents arent everything.... having him should be the best gift of all... and it was really sweet and romantic what he diod for you with the hotel... and this could help you leard to respect the little things! talk to him about it if it keeps bothering you! hope i helped.
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i read your advice and it was really good!!!
im a beginner and if it is ok id like to read more of what you have to say.
oh yeah, for the fitness questions i have an exercise that i do a lot and it kinda fun.
Tell them to do elbows and toes. Its where you lay on your tummy and push up on your elbows kinda like a half pushup and it works your shoulders down to your calves.
that was just some thing i had to tell you.
well... hope it works and helps alil.
THANX babygurl14 {savanah} (link)
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why thank you! anytime you need some adice you can surely ask me ive been through a lot and i know a lot so anything you need ask and if i know anyway to help ill tell you. but thank you very much.... ive always loved helping people! i appreciate the comment!
-Here2HelpU- {Amanda}
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ok, there's this guy who i am really trying to get over, but its not working very well. i really like him and he's sending mixed signals, flirting with other girls, but he flirts with me and is like all over me all the time. anyways, i'm trying to get over him but i'm not having any luck. i've tried avoiding him, but he will come up and start flirting, which doesn't help at all. how do i get over him?? HELP!! (link)
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find someone new... you need to go out find a great guy that is so much better then him and itll show you that u dont need him... it may be hard to find someone new and it may take some time but trust me if you give it time itll work!hope i helped
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okay my friend are the so called popular group and they have all had or have boyfriends and stuff and are slutty and stuff like that and i am friends w/ them and i have never had a boyfriend (though i have grinded w/ guys b4)and like when ever they bring up the subject of like boyfrinds or hooking up i always fell uncomfortable.......also i have been cutting latly because i have just become so overwelmed w/ every thing!help me out? (link)
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just ebcause you dont have a boyfriend doesnt mean you cant fit in... so what... your time will come when you find that guy! when they talk about boyfriends just try to sqeeze in who you think is cute! then mabey they can help you hook up with someone!!! dont cut... its just wrong... it wont do anything but hurt yourself... trust me i used to do it myself... its really not worth it! talk to your friends about it if you really need to they will understand.... if they dont... mabey they arent you should make some new friends!?! hope i helped!
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i have a naturally quiet voice, especially when singing, any advice on how to sing louder? i have to sing in fron of judges ina couple weeks and thats one thing i would like to work on (link)
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all you can really do is try your hardest and practice singing loud! you cannot really control how loud your voice is... just sing as loud as you can im sure youll do great... hope i could help!
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ok im catholic and im also 14/f...i dont want to be bi but i feel like im turning to do so, though i like guys a lot... me n my friend were joking around and my mom said i better not turn bi or any such, though 1/4 or so of my friends are either gay, bi and les...what r signs that ur turning bi...can someone help me? (link)
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thinking a girl is good looking doesnt make you bi.... its when you feel for a girl strongly... you knwo what its like to have a crush on a guy so if you feel that same way for a girl you probably are bi.... i dont ever want you to think that is wrong though... there is nothing wrong with being bi... some people may say there is but its your life your decision... i hope i helped.
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I think the way I come off to people is just mean and that I don't like anyone. Today I heard some kid say (about me) "Yeah, she hates everyone" and that is not true. I tend to tell people to shut up and I guess I'm not the nicest person... so how do I begin to change? I don't want to seem a rude, hateful person anymore! (link)
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just think before you speak... before you come off and yell SHUTUP! think about it and be like can you please be quiet... say hi to people that you dont usually... all you really can do is try!
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