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is this dumb?
i think i did the wrong category but o well.
it starts like this: i live with my aunt now and its ok but sometimes i wish i was with my mom, but my mom left me when i was 2 and my dad has always been in jail. I dont remember my parents at all. i want to talk to them but i dont know where either of them all, and everytime people mention "mom" or "dad" i get sad and i want to cry. i have no memory of them and i dont know where they are. Any Advice on trying to get over it?
~Empty Space~
i am also a columnist but this time i need help from some1 else.
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Heya,
You can't really get over it until you know why. Ask your aunt to tell you WHY your mother left you, if you don't already know...even if it's not the best reason in the world, at least you'll know and can't blame it on yourself.
Also, talk to your aunt about where they are. You don't have to meet them or even get along with them, but it'd be nice for you to know you have that option. Remember that your aunt could be quite upset that you want to know them - she probably loves you a lot and will be upset at the thought that you might totally desert her and go and live with someone else. Reassure her that you're not going anywhere, at least not just yet, and, IF your mother does want you back and you two do get on, you'll still visit your aunty.
Start out by just asking for an address for your mother and maybe you could write to her? If your aunt doesn't know, then there are special detective-type people who trace people in cases like this, or you could just try the phone directory! If your aunt doesn't tell you, warn her that you're just gonna resent her if you do eventually find your mother, because she wouldn't tell you where she was.
I hope that helped!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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i cant say i have been exactly where you have been... but my mom did walk out on me when i was six... but i did end up seeing her again and now i live with ehr and dont talk to my dad.... sit down with your aunt and talk to her about it... im really sorry... i know what its like not to have parents around... i was living with my grandparents for a while not knowing where my mom or dad were... i now live with my mom and my dad lives in another state... i dont talk to my dad but being with my mom is jsut great... and to tell you the truth just because your mom is your birth mother doesnt mean shes really a mother... a mother is someone who is there for you and who cares for you and takes care of you... and thats what your aunt is. i hope i could help you! im really sorry i know its hard
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get over it? hmmm...... lets see, the best way to get over that would be to join the army and kill an entire village of jowas. war crimes will solve any problem.
-hitler
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Well ask your aunt if she has any pictures of your mom and dad. Youll be surprised how much aunts know. To get over it, you can always talk to someone. Talking will help every one. I'm open so if you wanna talk to me about and giv me the full version im here.
BEST WISHES ----------ryan----
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