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Hola. I'm Leah. I consider myself as a great adivce giver so I thought I would try this thing out. Hopefully, I can help ya out.


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Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!!

To me, it sounds like shes lonely. No one likes to not have friends, be nice to her, yah, she made some mistakes, but it sucks so much to not be liked and not have friends. Accept the gift, be nice and you should hang out with her, maybe start out with waving in the hallways, you never know that it could brighten up her day, see how everything goes. Maybe you could become friends again. You never know in these type of situations.
If she jumps into it that fast, say in a nice way, i don't wanna be lied to again, so lets take this step by step, something along those lines.
Hope this helps!
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*Leah

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hi ! okay well im in 6th grade and i really want to wear thongs! because i hang out with older girls and they wear them and i feel left out ! some please give me so lines to say to my grandma ( i live with my grandparents ) !!! THANKS!

Ok, just because your friends are wearing them does not mean you have to! I think you undergarments are your buisness and not anyone elses. It doesn't matter what kind of underwear you have... If they are mean because of that, then they have problems. If you really want one, just when your at the store with your mom and you pass the underwear section, just mention, i wanna try out this underwear.
Hope this helps
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ok... there is this guy i like, he doesnt talk to me anymore but he used to talk to me alot! when im around him he acts different from wat he is normaly like. my mom and his mom both think that he likes me but i dont think he does.... i mean wouldnt he talk to me? or at least say hi every now and then? PLZ HELP!

Well, it does sound like he likes you, but i can't be sure. This happened to me too! I liked this guy and i thought he liked me and he used to talk to me alot, then he just quit. It turned out he was a mega loser. With your situation it does sound liek he likes you, since you like him, try to keep the lines of communication open, say hi in the hallways, Ask if he saw that new movie, or last nights episode of ____.
Hope this helps!
*Leah

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Where are some cheap places to find a homecoming dress? I'm basically just looking for a black one, nothing too formal.

They have some cute dresses at Ross. It is really cheap!!! Like 20$! Check it out.
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i am extreamly sick today and i have no clue what's wrong with me. i called my doctor and she said it was just a cold but it's REALLY bad. my head is pounding, my whole back is KILLING me, my throat is so soar i can barely talk, i feel like i'm going to throw up, and i keep getting those cold sweats where you start to sweat really bad but you're still cold. what is wrong with me?? i'm so miserable!

This has been going around, i just got over it. But to be sure, you may want to go wisit the doctor. Make sure you drink plenty of fluids, take your temerature, take some aspirin. To help with the back, get a heating pad, or if you dont have that, what i have is a little sack, with plain rice in it, it is sewed up and you heat it up for a minute. Try that with a pillow case, you don't have to do anything to the rice but put it in the sack. For the throat get some throat drops ( Halls are good) or get some regular popsicles. All your symptoms sound pretty normal for a sickness, but go to the doctor if it doesn't go away in a couple of days.
Feel better!
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*Leah

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Okay.. there is this guy that I think likes me. He keeps asking if i think he's hot and calling me sexy online, but he's a joker. Also, I don't like him that way and IDK if he's serious or not. I hope he's not because I don't like him that way & I really like one of his good friends. What do I do?

Just act like nothing is wrong. If you confront him about it, of course, he is going to deny it. If he really does like you and tells you about it, give him the "lets just be friends" speech, but make it sound like you mean it. But for now, act oblivious to the situation, and hey, maybe he doesn't like you in that way.
Hope i helped
*Leah

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i would lije people who have either seen this movie or saw a scary movie and had the same problem as me to answer this.

i watched this movie "The Ring" like 5 months ago,and i still get kinda scared and cant sleep.what should i do?

The same thing happens to me! Just think of happy things at night. And think about how fake it is. Watch it with a bunch of friends and make fun of it, that is what i did, it really helped!
Hope this helps
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OK got a Terrior Mix puppy about a month ago. We've been training it to go outside the entire time. But it seems like at night he still has problems. When he potties in the floor, we spank him with a newspaper, and then take him straight outside. When hes good and potties outside, we give him a treat. But he still has accidents. Any suggestions on this? ty much.

I had this problem with my dog when i got him, it took a long tome to train him. Its a puppy, you cant expect them to have total bladder control in a week, be patient, take him out every 2 hours during the day, and when he goes outside say good boy and praise him alot and give him a treat. What we did, we kept our dog in the laundry room at night, we got one of thoses babygates and at one end of the laundry room we put newspaper down, in case he did have an accident,be sure to show him wear it is by walking him to it. when he does have an accident, go in a low voice and say his name,say oooooooo,and noooo put his nose slightly in it but while your putting his nose in it, keep doing the very low voice and saying no and his name. Don't hit him! That doesnt help!
i hope this helps!
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OK i think this is really sick, but for some reason, ionno why, but my dog love to sleep in the bathroom. I mean its not hurting me or anybody else. Can anybody enlighten me on why he does this every night?

Its normal, since dogs have hair all over there body, they get hot easily, especially dogs with alot of hair, (ex: poodles, bichon frise, maltese...) I have a bichon frise, and he always lays in the bathroom, the floor is cool and so is the room. Dogs like to be comfortable, so dont worry about it, nothings is wrong with your dog, all dogs do it.
Hope i helped
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*Leah

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ok im at a new school and there is this guy there currently we are friends.he can be nice but sometimes teases me and stuff like that.he also sits by me alot (like in study hall) I dont like him like boyfriend wise but im wondering if he likes me.what do you think?

-mal

age:13

Well, your situation has happened to me before, this guy was nice to me sometimes then he was mean to me too. It turned out that he liked me. I think this guy probually likes you. Good Luck!
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*Leah

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i like cheerleading and i tried this website and it went to a cheer-porno website so i clicked out but now all these popups are coming up and its been like 3 days so how do i get the porno pop ups to stop without getting a popup blocker?

Easy - Go Into the internet browser (homepage) go up to tools, go to internet options, then click on clear history and also delete the Temporary Internet Files. Hope i helped-- Please rate:)

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My Friend Recently Got Dumped By "The Love OF Her Life" She Thinks That It's Her Fault. And If She Can't Have Him Then Her Lifes Worthless. And She Refuses To Eat. She Hasn't Ate In 4 Days. Does Anyone Know A Way I Can Try To Get Her To Eat Again? It's Killing Me. I Really Really Need Your Help Really Soon.

Sincerely,
A Concerned Person...Aka Steph

Take her out, have a girls night out, go to the movies, the ice cream parlor, Or have a sleepover. Stock up on food chips, icecream, soda, anything!! She really needs to eat! If that doesn't work, let her parents know or take her to a clinic. Also tell her the cons of this guy and divert her attention to something else. Hope i helped. Please rate:)
*Leah

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I get really bad migraines almost everyday. I've tried taking advil, bayer, exedrin migraine..almost every kind of aspirin, and nothing helps. My doctor doesn't want to prescribe something to me because I'm only 15. So my question is does anyone know of a way to relieve migraines? Not regular headaches but migraines..thanks

I also suffer from migranes, I am 14. It is not normal to get migranes everyday, unless you have a brain condition. What I did is i went to see the nurologist(sp?) There are ones at local hospitals probually or ask your current physician. I went to go see this doctor, he prescribed me with a drug, (i dotn know the name)It is dissolvable and it works, there are many kinds of migrane medicines. Do go to a nurologist and talk to them,especially since your getting then every day. They may take a Cat Scan (a xray) to look for anything wrong with the brain( cancer, clots...). Remember, they specialize in this stuff. I hope everything works out.
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*Leah

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hii.. im the gurl before that was askin about Nathan and smokin weed. i dumped him, but i got really stoned one night, and fell asleep.. and woke up naked but he wasn't there. I know we had to of had sex, cuz i was REALLLLLLLY sore down there.. and was bleedin but i didnt have my period, now i think im pregnant cuz i havn't got my period this month... i am s0o0o0 scared!! i've been non-stop crying.. like im only 14 years old!!! and i cant believe that happened... he is denyin anything happened but i dont believe him. Please, pretty please give me some advice on what to doo!! please i need help, i ratee!!!

signed,
scared and want help!

Ok, well the first thing you wanna do is tell your parents, about everything, getting stoned, waking up naked, everything! Your parents will probually know what to do from there, get you a pregnancy test, test for STDs, maybe even press charges, he raped you! Tell your parents ASAP!!!!! I really hope everything works out!!
If you need anything IM me on ghettotissuebox.
*Leah

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im asking this question for my friend ... a few months ago she wanted to be homeschooled ... then she found this really nice boarding school that she liked A LOT! so she requested information and things of that sort on teh internet and things like that...well she was sure her mom was going 2 say yes...well her mom said that it was A LOT of money 2 pay especially shes one of four kids...four girls...so it kinda sux for her! i feel really badly for her and she asked me 2 write this...she cant go to the boarding school or homeschooled and she doesn't want to go 2 public/private school because in her area...they judge you at pub. and private school...

PLEASE HELP THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO HER AND ME!!

AND AGAIN PLEASE HELP!!

Anywhere you go, you will get judged, you can't escape it. Even if "she" goes to a boarding school or whatever, "she" is still gonna be judged. Schools liek that are very expensive and have the same education as a public school. It doesn't matter what school you go to. School is for learning and if "shes" judged, tell her to suck it up and have her tell those people to shut the hell up.

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My mom actually needs help with this one, but I'll explain.

Last night my neighbors who are around my age (I'm 14) came over. My mom rented 3 movies (even though we really couldn't afford it) but being the whiners they are, they didn't want to see any of them, so we let them bring their own movie over, for my and my 11-year old bro to watch with them. They chose Scary Movie and I have no idea why their mom let me! It was really inappropriate for my brother, who's going in to sixth grade. I mean, people were giving each other bjs and hjs, a girl got stuck to the ceiling by cum, etc. It was really digusting. The worst part is that they thought it was hilarious, Nick (older one, around my age) in particular kept going, "Noelle, come here" (my mom's name) at the grossest parts. Their mom is normally a pretty good mom but I just don't understand how on earth she could think it was appropriate for my brother. Obviously her boys were too immature for it too. My mom is going to call their Mom, Denise, whom we've been friends with for many years. Denise can get offended and mad very easily, so what should my mom say? And what should she say next time the boys want to bring over a movie?

Sorry about the long question. I rate!

I personally don;t think your mom should yell at the other mom. Just because the other moms kids came over and brought a movie, that seemed too inappropriate doesn't mean your mom could of done something, she could of stopped the movie in the middle or whenever they bring another movie like that, she could just say no.Or mkae your younger brother leave the room. I would assume that your mom is an adult, and she should handle situations like one.

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ok so i got those glasses with the plastic frames last year cuz i liked them (at the time). they r blue with sparkles. i got them from da adult section cuz they werent in the kids section. at the time i didnt realize that they were too big for my small face soo i never wear em anymore. im afraid people will make fun of me, so i dont risk it. im only supposed to wear them at school and at home watching tv or sumthin anyway but sometimes i feel like i cant see anything without it being blurry. i dont want to wear the glasses at school cuz they look bad on me but i need to c the board. last year i got bad grades cuz i couldnt see anything. please dont nag me for getting the glasses in the first place, i cant fix that now. its already been done. please, i dont want to wear them cuz i made fun of enough but i need to see. what should i do?

Answers easy, does it really matter what other people think of what you are doing. If you are wearing glasses, The glasses BENEFIT you! If other people are so consumed in what other people are wearing then they need to get a life. If you feel that uncomfortable with your glasses, first wear them in class, while your doing work on the board. Then wear them more and more often, People will get used to it. I have bad vision myself. when i first got my glasses, not one person made fun of me, glasses these days are Much more common and normal!! Dont worry! I hope i helped. Plz rate:)
*Leah

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hey i'm 14 and live in florida my x n i just broke up a couple weeks ago and now i'm scared to be near him because his room is full of weapons and he was really pissed at me for breaking up w/him. and to top it off he will be at my friends house this weekend while i'm gonna be over. i really want to go because itz my friends b*day but i just dont no if i'm all that safe around him. should i just cancel and pretend that i'm sick or should i go and be worried through out the whole time i'm there. and my friend doent even no that were not going out so if i disappear she wont no where i'll be i'm just really scared plz help
~*~Scared~*~

Ok, well it is good that you broke up with him, since he has all those weapons in his room and has a bad temper. This weekend, Maybe you shouldn't go to your friends house, tell her the truth why you're not and have her come over the next day or you go over the next day to celebrate. If your afraid that he will find out why you wern't there during the party and come over on the day you two planned to hang, then you and your friend go to the mall or movies to celebrate. If he gets violent at school, makes threats, anything that make you uncomfortable, tell an adult ASAP. I hope everything works out.
*Leah

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Hey im 14 in california, and well lets say i have a lot of friends. But they seem to be always fighting about something stupid in my opnion and i alwyas get stuck in the middle. Im sick of it because im always standing up for everyone and they all get mad at me! Some of them hold grudes others are quiet about it, and others blow it up! What should i do? Im always trying to solve it and its not working! Its always happening when we go out and its not pleasant. what should i do or say????

I have gone through this MANY times. I answer is easy. If its not your problem, don't try to fix it. Be nuetral( on no ones side) It one of the person involved in teh fight say "Isn't so and so being mean?" Respond with a simple, "Im not involved in this." If they get mad for you not gossiping and not getting involved just say, " Everytime i try to help people get mad at me. so im staying out of it. Simple as that. Your friends can;t always expect you the be the Problem solver. Its there fight, so its there problem. If a fight breaks out when you guys are out, Just say something like "Drop it guys, we went out to have a good time, and this isn't my idea of one, so Quit it!"
Hope it works out!
*Leah

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i am a 14 year old girl. i am one of the few of my friends that is still a virgin, no one in my family is either. even my 14 yr. old cousin isnt anymore, it bothers me, is it normal to still be a virgin?

Simple answer. Yes, It is More then normal. I personally think (others too) that have sex at 14 is TOO YOUNG!!!!!!!!! Wouldn't you rather have sex with someone that you will spend the rest of your life with? 10000000% normal! Don't worry about it.
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