My Friend Recently Got Dumped By "The Love OF Her Life" She Thinks That It's Her Fault. And If She Can't Have Him Then Her Lifes Worthless. And She Refuses To Eat. She Hasn't Ate In 4 Days. Does Anyone Know A Way I Can Try To Get Her To Eat Again? It's Killing Me. I Really Really Need Your Help Really Soon.
pinklemonadestand answered Monday August 23 2004, 1:01 pm: Okay Steph sit your friend down and tell her that there are more guys in this world then that ONE! She is better off without him... And to be honest i went through the non eating stage when i got dumped.... If she doesn't eat tomorrow then tell her mom! It is important for her to eat and beleive me she is better with out him! She is lucky to have a friend like you in her life and stay by her side!
Sunshine answered Monday August 23 2004, 2:59 am: You just need to be there for her, and let her know that everything will be okay. Try to get her to at least drink milk or juice. It wouldn't hurt to keep her favorite foods on hand to tempt her into eating. The pain of heartache willsoon fade, it always does. [ Sunshine's advice column | Ask Sunshine A Question ]
SaraEliKirk answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:37 am: ~Steph~
I was in a 4 year relationship with the so called love of my life and it didnt work out, but listen very closely to what im gonna say, everyone falls in love once but not everyone falls in love twice! I did, i went out there and met new ppl, and i found the person that i know im suppost to be with...Tell your friend that if it dont work out, it wasnt meant to be, i know its hard, ive been there and believe me it gets easier! They might even get back together! :*:SaRa:*: [ SaraEliKirk's advice column | Ask SaraEliKirk A Question ]
iLjaG answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:29 pm: Theres not much one can do in this situation, except talk to her and try to help her out. Sit her down and tell her to eat, tell her that if it was meant to be, it would have happened. You can try and help, but, ultimately this is something she will have to come to terms with by herself. I wish I could help more, but I can't think of anything else to do. If she doesn't start eating soon, call the paramedics. [ iLjaG's advice column | Ask iLjaG A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Sunday August 22 2004, 10:20 pm: This is really sad. Try to explain to your friend, that not eating will not solve anything. it will only hurt her more. And none of this is her fault. If this guy really loved her, he wouldn't have broken her heart. She has to gte up and move on. Its gonna be hard but you will be there for her right by her side to help her be happy again. trust me, she really needs a friend right now. good luck! :) [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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