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Q: I'm really conscious about my boobs... I've always favoured smaller boobs I'm 17 and I wear a 32D, would this be considered "big"... it's annoying because I'm a petite size of 8, and my boobs make tops rise up revealing mid-driff, and my friends are always commenting about how I show off my belly, but it's because the top has to stretch over my boobs and rises up!! Bigger sizes dont work because they're too baggy for my figure.
It's a real pain, but at what size to boobs become considered "big"?
Well consider yourself lucky girlfriend that you have naturally big boobs.im a 36DD and I have implants, im originally a 34A before I got my implants.Yes a D is considered big but its a good thing dont feel bad about it!and if you absolutely hate them theres always brest reduction surgery but my suggestion is be proud of your sexy boobies!


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Q: i've had my period for about a year and a half now. i've tried using tampons but every time i do it hurts soooooooooo bad!! i can barely even get the tip in and i know i'm putting it in the right hole. i need tips on how to put tampons in because i want to use them not stupid pads. (
Are you sure you put the tampons in when youre vagina is wet?with blood or just wet in general.trying to put a tampon in a dry vagina is very painful.try using the lowest absorbancy(light) and try putting vaseline or lotion or lubricant in your vagina and then put your tampon in until you get the hang of it and then stop using lubricant.


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Q: i heard that you get discharge about 1 - 2 years before puberty and its like white creamy fluid stuff.. well i have it and i wanted to know if you get it all ur life or will it end?
The discharge is just your vagina's way of cleaning itself.You'll most likely get it for the rest of your life but it might get more sparatic or more frequent.I can't speak for everyone but im pretty sure it happens the rest of your life.


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Q: hey is it really bad for your body when u start to eat less? im about 5'5 and i think im like 110-113 lbs and i want to start eating healthier foods and just eating a little less. Its not like im doing a crash diet or anything or turning anerexic. im j/w can that do any damage to my body? oh and also im taking medicine for lyme disease, that wont make it any worse will it?
thanks!!
~*jaimee*~
As long as you are getting your main 5 food groups, and are getting at leave 1400 cals a day, you're completely healthy.It's actually better for you to eat healthier but dont try to lose weight and i wouldnt recommend eating less because you're already at your perfect weight for your height.About lyme disease, definately talk to your doctor about it first.


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Q: does anyone know any shampoos/conditioners that make your hair like really silky??? i use pantene but my hair like got used to it and it doesnt work very well anymore... 5 for good answers...
BED HEAD IS THE ANSWER!Bed head is the most amazing hair care products ive seen.I use Bed Head Self Absorbed shampoo and conditioner and other hair products.The shampoo is about $10 and the conditioner is $15.A cheaper shampoo/conditioner that I recommend is Dove.Its awesome.The foam conditioner is the best.


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Q: i am 5'4 im tall skinny and have long legs and i can never find any clothes that fit me they are either to long or too fat and i want hot clother where do i look? please help me out.



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If you have long legs and are tall how are the clothes too long?im assuming you meant too short, so shop at places that have pants in "long".such as american eagle,abercrombie,wet seal,5'7'9,pac sun, places like that.


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Q: ♥ hey.
i have a Question. At night I exfoliate and use moisturizer and i sue stridex pads. Should I use my stridex pads after i moisturize? or will that be to much? and i also have a cleanser and Do u think i should use an exfoliater then cleanse? Im so confused because I want to do all of that but it might be too much for my face. what do you think? -THANKSS-xoxo I RATE HIGH! And also if I should ue all of that..then in what order?
Okay heres what you do.If you use stridex pads because you have acne skip the moisturizer.If you dont have acne stop using the stridez pads because moisturizer will clog pores at night and make acne worse so if u have acne only use moisturizer in the morning.Exfoliate first, then cleanse your face.Then dry your face and use a oil-free/water-based moisturizer.


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Q: i have very small eyes..what make-up tricks can i use to make them look bigger? i rate=D

curl your lashes, then put maskara on right away.then right after curl them again and lift the curler up towards the sky and close your eyes halfway when taking curler off your lashes.then apply maskara again.then do the same to the other eye.then apply eyeliner from the middle of your lower lid, to the end toward your ear.then use light eyeshadow.any more questions leave it in my inbox


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Q: alright so.. This site is supposed to be a site where you can ask a question and not get embarrassed by what you ask, right? So, i'll just ask. I've only had sex with one guy, we've had sex about 5 times in the last 6 months and lets just say.. they aren't little quickies. I've noticed a big difference in my appearance down there.. are there any types of excercises a girl can do to kind of.. tighten it up a little?
Yes.Squeeze your muscles down there, like the way you would to hold in pee, hold it for 10 seconds, and do 5 repitions of that twice a day.You'll notice a difference in about a week.

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Q: Hey I have a problem...

I feel I weigh too much and I want to loose atleast 30 pounds by the end of the summer...Is this possible? and is there a healthy way of loosing weight without starving myself or anything?

Your really pretty!
Nikki*
Well first off thanks so much babydoll!its definately possible to lose 30 pounds in 2 months, but it takes hard work and determination.if you want it bad enough it can happen.Eat nothing but fruits and vegetables, make sure all the bread you eat is wheat and eat very little of it, and eat yogurt and cheese and drink milk if u can and drink no pop except diet and drink 10 glasses of water a day.the more water you drink the more fat you burn(remember that).and excersise an hour every day doing anything dancing,running,walking,jogging,playing sports,swimming just move your body!and if you do that and u cant have any "breaks" no JUNK at all if you wanna lose 30 pounds.if you stick to that without cheating i guarantee you'll lose 20-30 pounds by the end of the summer:-)

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Q: Your makeup is really pretty. Can you tell me step by step how you do it and what you use? Im tryin out new make up looks. Thanx Lotz.
well thank u!im a free-lance makeup artist:-)The majority of my makeup is Chanel and MAC but I do use others. always moisturize before applying makeup i use olay age defying moisturizer.then apply a oil-free foundation and make sure it matches your skin color COMPLETELY or it will make you look cakie like a grandma.I use Chanel Multi-vitamin make-up and Shisedo Powdery Foundation after applying foundation to get rid of shine.the first thing to always do when you apply eye makeup is to start with the maskara.using a eyelash curler and curl your eyelashes on one eye regulary for 10 seconds, then apply maskara right away.the place the eyelash curler as far back on your lashes as you can and leave it on for 10 more seconds, and as you're taking the curler off your lashes turn the curler up towards the ceiling and close your eyes when you remove it.this will give your lashes a more dramatic look.then apply maskara one more time.then do the same to the other eye.the absolute best maskara is Lancome "Black" Hypnose Mascara.im a huge fan of smokey eyes so heres how to achieve the smokey eyes i have.next step is eyeliner.its hard to apply eyeliner correctly, most women think theyre doing it right but theyre not.the eyeliner i use is Chanel "Noir" Intense Eye Pencil you need to make sure you always use a smooth "roll up) eyeliner not liquid or pencil you know what i mean right?make a thick line on your top lid, then on your bottom lid start from the very beginning of your eye and stop about a millimeter from your eye.then take vaseline and smudge a little bit on your top lid to give it a more smokey look.now for shadow : its a myth that shadow is supposed to match your clothes its NOT!its supposed to bring out your eyes, since i have blue eyes my best colors violets and lavenders.for green eyes id recommend browns and minty greens, for brown eyes grey,plum and pink and hazel would be tawny.its difficult to tell you how to do your eyeshadow since i dont know the color of your eyes, but later drop your eye color in my inbox and ill tell you exactly.ill tell you how i do mine and i have blue eyes.i use violet on my lids and lavender on my crease,then i use brown on my brow bone area.then a sweep a little bit of a tannish-brown color under my eyes and sometimes black shadow if im in one of my goth moods.sometimes ill go full on crazy and use black eyeshadow on my top lid too.Chanel "Tatou" single shadow is the best shadow.i DONT recommend blush if you have a pinkish skin tone, but if you're like me and have a olive skin tone u can use it. i use Chanel in "Mocha".i NEVER use lipstick.it makes your lips look smaller and dry.use lipliner just outside of your lips not clown looking thought.and make sure the lipliner matches your lip color or is a shade darker.i use MAC "Stripdown" .then use tinted lip gloss i use Du Wop "Lip Venom" (plumps up your lips) and MAC "C-thru" Lip Glass. and the best way to make you look your best is perfectly defined brows.dont pluck them yourself get them waxed by a pro.if you have any more questions feel free to drop it in my inbox
good luck!

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Q: do you need to be a certain age to buy condoms or can anyone buy them?
Anyone can buy them.They'd rather you be safe and have sex, because they know you'll have sex either way.


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Q: i havent got my period yet and i want to try on a tampon to c wat it feels like and my friend said u can like get a disease or sumthing??
so i was wundering cen i try on a tampon??
The disease your friend was talking about is Toxic Shock Syndrom or TSS.It happens when you dont change your tampon and the bacteria(blood) stays up there. They say you can keep your tampon on for up to 8 hours..but that still seems risky to me.So heres what I do:I change my tampon throughout the day EVERYTIME i go to the bathroom.Then at night I wear a pad instead of a tampon.

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Q: omg...I'm 14/f and I masterbate I'm sooo embarassed is it a bad thing? Does it mean that I want to have sex or sumthin? I know I don't want to but still i don't know whether what i've been feeling lately is bad or good it makes me feel really guilty
Its not bad at all!it's completely normal, almost everyone does it even if they refuse to admit it.It doesnt neccessarilly mean you want to have actual sex, but it does mean you're having sexual feelings.Everyone feels guilty right when they start doing it, but chill its normal and NOT a bad thing.

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Q: my mother is a lesbain i cant stand her gurl friend she treats me like im a mosquito and just wants to kill me or somthing i know she hates
but here's the thing i never bother her unless i have a question or need help but my mom won't do any thing about her attitude she's always telling me we'll move but but she's been saying that for the last 2 years

ali
ignore your mom's girlfriend!if shes a bitch, either ignore her or be a bitch back to her.she's not your mom, so you dont need to be nice to her or talk to her.

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christine

Q: waht about popping a cherry



and what the hell is masterbateing ..


and how do you no if you bleed when ur cherry pops

please help me !!
Popping a cherry is when a guy breaks your hymen during sex.meaning you lose your virginity.Masturbating is when you pleasure yourself, by using objects and sticking them into your vagina or using your fingers to play with yourself down there until you reach orgasm.You'll know if you bleed because usually there will be some blood on the bed, but not everyone bleeds when their cherry is popped.

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Q: Hey you looked like a reliable person to ask a serious question.

Okay here's the deal. Recently I gave up my virgnity to a guy I thought was going to be the one. He was just trying to get me in bed.

I thought I was pregnant (we didnt use a condom) and I havent had my period. I told him I was, and he got freaked out and told me he wanted proof.

Well I went to a clinic today and it came out negative. I still havent had my period though, but they said to come back on the 13th but I've gota feeling that its still going to be negative.

I know I shouldn't have said I WAS pregnant until I knew for sure, but I wanted to hurt him the same way he hurt me.

Now I'm getting deep feelings for him and I want to be with him. But I don't know how... I was a bitch, but only because he hurt me and was a dick . I want to be with him. I like him alot. What do I do? What can I say?? Please help.

thank you

Well why would u want to be back with someone who was a dick to you, and used you for his own needs?but whatever reasons you have, if you want help to get him back I think I can help you.If you go back to the clinic and its still negative, tell him that you used a home pregnancy test and it gave you the wrong results, which could happen with home pregnancy tests.then tell him that you still have feelings for him, and ask if he still has feelings for you.but remember you cant force someone to like you, so if he doesnt want you dont get upset.if you have any more questions leave them in my inbox.

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Q: ok i am going to try to word this as maturely as possible..i used to uh masturbate with shampoos and conditioners and that stuff because i was afraid to get real lubricant..i have a tanline now and one side of my uh penis is like a lighter color than the other..i use hand lotion now and havent used the others in a while but it wont go away...does anyone know how i can make it go away?
Don't worry, talking about masturbation does NOT make you immature at all.I dont think that the discoloration has to do with masturbating with shampoos and conditioners.You should ask a doctor about it.

Q: ok. i have a really really bad problem with porn. i cant stop. i went one week with out looking at it but thats only cuz i was on a mission trip. i need help. i feel like i am slipping away from god. what do i do?
Take your computer out of your room.Therefore, you wont have the chance to look at it.And if your parents ask why you took it out, say it distracted you from sleep and homework.

Q: If someone smokes pot for about a week straight and stops 4 or 5 days before they are given a dip test for urine testing, will they pass the drug test?
Sorry, but no.Pot stays in your system for about a month.

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Hey my name is Christine, i'm 22, im a model/makeup artist and I've been alot of places,been through alot of things so I know I can help you no matter what the problem is.Don't be afraid to ask me anything.You can also IM me on aim (ILivvOnElmStreet).Also check out my upcoming website www.forbiddenxo.com
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