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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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Okay this may sound a bit weird. . buh im 14 yrs old and i dont have like a real nipple yet.. when im cold or sumthing liek that.. yaah it looks like it but then it goes away.. please help!

It's normal, you're still growin up and developing so don't worry about it.

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My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!!

Don't pierce your own ear's. They will get infected. And you'll end up in a lot of trouble after you do it if your parents didn't want you to. Just wait unitl they say its ok. Hope it helps *AMbER*

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okay i like this guy and he likes me. well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but 2 days after, were already broken up ! he said he needs to get to know me better and i totally agree no hard feelings there but what i dont get is why cant we get to know each other by going out? i asked him why he asked me out and then broke up but he said "i jus dont think i really know u well enough" or does he not want to go out and thats why he said that, but like after that hes like i still like u but i jus wanna get to know u better maybe wen school starts. and the day after i seen him at the movies and i waved and smiled--so did he and i knew i liked him alot. do you think we eventually will go back out ? or do you think he jus doesnt like me even though he said he did ..

Just let him get to know you better and see where things go. If things go good yo guys will probably end up back together. Don't worry about it now, just be his friend and see where it takes you. Hope it helps =) *AmBeR*

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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried?

You can't really get HIV through kissing.. thats mainly from blood to blood contact w/ a person who has it or through sex w/ a person who has it. hope it helps *amber*

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Where are some cheap places to find a homecoming dress? I'm basically just looking for a black one, nothing too formal.

Just check any stores you know of that sell formal wear, or stores in your local mall and look for sales. You are sure to find something cheap somewhere! Hope it helps *amber*

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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question

The simplest thing I can tell you is it just comes naturally. Because it really does. If you're worried about it, just let the guy make the first move and take it from there. Hope it helps *amber*

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Hey, I was just wondering if you could really get an STD from giving head. Because I just read it on here, and I've given head to one of my ex's, and I never knew that there was a possibility that I would get an STD, and now I'm really scared about it. Can you guys please help me out?

Yea it is possible. Of course if you got an STD you would probably know. Like have symptoms or something by now. hope it helps *amber*

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ok...i went to my friends house and i went out with her cousin and then we broke up in like april right ... but on saturday he started holdin my hand (just me and him in a room...door closed) and rubbin my boob and then we were watchin a movie and we were cuddling and he kissed the side of my lip and part of my cheek and then like a minute later we were makin out and the problem is im goin out wit his cousin and they're rly good friends... so i dont wanna tell my boyfriend that i kissed his cousin b4 me and him hav even kissed...and do you think he'll kno that he was my first kiss?...and i cant tell my friend cuz then i wont be able to spend the night again if every1 knows we made out!!

sry sooo long but PLEASE HELP!!

Yea, sorry to say but you did cheat. I doubt your boyfriend will be able to tell whether or not he was your first kiss or not. And I suppose if you don't want anyone to know, keep it to yourself. But if you start to feel guilty you should probably be honest to your boyfriend. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!

Wel if you still feel the same way about your boyfriend, stay with him. There is no use in ruining a good relationship for another guy that you don't even know if he likes you. I'd say stay with. Hope it helps.

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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay?

You could possibly be bi. Hope I helped. Amber

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I wanna start wearing eyeliner, and in your opinion, should I wear liquid or pencil? Thanks

I would reccomend wearing pencil eyeliner because if you're not careful you can get liquid eyeliner on your eye! It lasts longer, but is harder to use. Or you could start out w/ pencil and move to liquid later when you get more comfortable with it. Hope I helped. *Amber*

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Remember 2 years ago when those lace-up jeans came out?? Like they laces up either in the back or on the sides or in the front. Are those still in style or did thery go out a year ago?

Who cares if they are or are not? Just wear 'em if you like them and if they aren't, you'll be the one bringing them back in style. Jeans are jeans so just wear what you want.

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hi um i went on a cruise this summer and bein that i live in virginia there was gonna be people from all ova the united states there and alot of boyz tried to get wit me but i liked this one boy.then on the last day of the cruise i had my first kiss with him we were makin out the whole night.then when i got off the boat i planned on goin back to my regular life cause he lives in florida and i wont be able to see him again but i cant get another boyfriend. i mean yea alot of boyz asked me out but i keep turnin them down the boy i longed 4 b4 the cruise asked me out and i turned him down whats wrong with me

im 14 and a female

Well obviously you can get another boyfriend, it seems like you just don't want to. You're gonna have to make yourself realise that there ar eplenty of othe rguys besides the one in florida and find interests in someone else. Sure, having your first kiss with someone is special, but when they are that far away things just aren't gonna work most likely. Next time someone asks you out, maybe you should try and go for it and see how that works. hope it helps *amber*

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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

There's nothing wrong with that. Its kind of pointless to have a boyfriend when your young anyway becuse usually it won't mean much, I'm not saying it can't.. but when you're younger its usually a bunch of trouble. So don't worry about it, your fine =) *amber*

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ok so theres this new girl at school whos really cool and stuff and she invited me to her birthday party coming up this weekend and i dont know what to get her and when i ask her she just says "oh you dont have to get me anything" which means get me somthing but im not gonna tel you what i want got anyideas for what i should get her?

Well idk about her but when I say people don't have to get me anything, I mean it, lol. But just get her something "universal" I guess you could say, something all girls like. Like makeup or lipgloss or body spray or something. Or think about things you know about her and go along with something that relates to her interests. Hope it helps *amber*

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okay well i really like this guy lets call him joe, well everytime i look at joe i catch him looking at me and he blushes and his whole face turns red it is really cute anyway well my friend said she would ask him if he was going to the dance and if he would go with me [we are having a dance] i also found out he likes me too. so she asked him and he said no to both questions. what does that mean??

Maybe he's too shy to admit he likes you..

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omg ok...im so pissed right now...i was supose to go to the movies with the guy i like today...he has to bring his little bro every where so i was just gonna go with my lil bro too bc ther the same age and all my friends have started skool already...so we planned this 3 days ago..i called n asked wat he wanted to see and he sed a.v.p and i HATE those kinda movies so i was like ok..i was gonna see it bc i wanted ot b with him! so i called n found out the time for it and we agreed to go today (wednesday) ...and we planned this on like monday...and we used to c eachother ALOT but now we just never get around to it and we hold hands n stuff when we do see eachother n hes just sweet and so i was really excited i did chores to get the money n everything...well so i called him yesterday just makin sure he can stil go n he sed he can..so today i called him n he didnt asnwer so i figured he l eft to go...and i got droppd off with my brother and we waited...i kept callin bc there was no answer...and then he called me on his brothers cell and was like..."oh ya i cant go now" i dont have a ride ..i wa slike um ok....and he was like r u mad i was like no and then he was like yaaa...and then he was like o well i can get a ride but its from a gurl ii was like do wat u want..and then he was like ok well ill call her n see if she can take me and ill call u back...AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK! he didnt come, call or nothing to let me no wat was going on...so i was stuck seeing avp with my lil brother...im soo mad he hasnt called or nothing..wat shuld i do??

he stood you up. be pissed, or laugh it off. And don't talk to him again until he talks to you. ignore him for a while. And if he gets mad that you weren't trying to talk to him then you can call it even for him standing you up or you can just continue to ignore the problem. see where that gets you. i'd be pissed for getting stood up too.

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okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends??

he might like you or he might want to be friends. seems like i this situation if he did it in secret, he probably likes you and didn't want your sister to know.

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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18

He probably just needs time to think and clea rhe head. Maybe he's trying to see if his feelings stay the same to make sure its real. He seems like a good guy and you two do seem like you have something special goin on. Give him some time to figure things out.. maybe he's scared to get in a relationship at this point. Just let him figure everything out and see what comes in the end =) *amber*

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My friend is gonig outw ith my first love and ever and I am a little upset because he has half of my heart and i know she loves him so much and he loves her so ,much but half of me feels jealous is that normal?

Of course its normal. Remember the saying "first loves are never really over"? Thats why you feel that way. In time you'll find someone else to take him off of your mind a little. But most likely you won't get over him for a while, if you do that is. Just go out there and find someone who can take your mind off of it a little bit and see where that goes. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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