hi i think i pulled a muscle in my thigh and its been hurting for a few days now. i have a track meet this saturday and basically i need it to stop hurting ASAP. does anyone kno what i could do to make it better? please dont suggest buying prodcuts i have no money
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help you.
You should just rest intill Saturday that might
make you feel better! If that don't work I
surrgest you don't go to your trak meet because you
might pull it more or break it! I hoped I helped
Em231
P.s.
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I'm getting my haircut soon. I want to get my eyebrows done as well. I want to get it done on a school night, so my hair is done for the next day. Would it be a bad idea to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time when I have school the next day? I've tweezed them before, but never waxed. I just don't want them to be all red the next day at school.
Thanks.
Hey, my name is Em231 and i think I can help ok
don't worry get your cool haircut and wax those
eyebrows because the redness goes away in 1 or2
hours plus then put this cream on them so your
eyebrows don't get irriteted and so they won't be beat red.
I hope i helped
Em231
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Well I've tried shaving down there before, but it came back thicker and darker and grosser. I wanna wax it, but I don't know how.
How can I buy a waxing kit or something? I doubt my mom will buy it for me.
Hey,my name is Em231 and i think I can help you
I think you shouldn't do that any more because you
can get a infection that makes you itchy down there
and plus your not even suppose to shave down there!
I hoped I helped
Em231
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Im in this play at my school and opening night is coming up and I'm nervous! There is going to be alot of people watching and in my role, i have to tell the story to the auidence, like a narrator. Any advice to make the nervousness go away?
(14/f)
P.S My first play! Its called "Antigone".
Hi, my name is Em231 and i think I can help all
you have to do is take 2 breaths in and out then
say"Every thing is going to be ok" that always
works with me I hoped I helped
Em231
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Im dating this boy whom I really like a lot.
But he is always really mean to me, and we fight all the time. He is always trying to make me have phone sex with him and he considers it "making up" he tells me all the time "lets fight so we can make up" and when I say no, he gets mad and starts saying I dont care about him and im selfish and I dont care about nobody but myself. He always has a way to turn things around and make me look like the bad person and feel really bad for something.
he calls me fat all the time and I only weigh 105 lbs and im 5'5. He calls me ugly all the time and then he says he is just playing. But sometimes he can be the sweetest guy in the world.
He is 16 and a preacher, so maybe he takes out his stress on me, or maybe its because he is black and im white?
Today him and I got into a fight and he told me
"If you were hangin off a cliff with lions and snakes under you, I wouldn't pull you up I would stomp you down"
I dont know what to do anymore.
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help he
is being realy disrespectful to you and thats not good I think you should end the realationship and
find a nice guy who likes you and don'tcall you
those mean names ! Every thing you said in that text
is so right (you didn't need any advice you
got it coverd)!!!
I hope I helped
Em231
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ok im a girl, i am a size C bra... is theree a way to make your boobs bigger??? i know i should be happy with the way i am, but i just wanted to know.
thanks
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help
I just would stay the way you are but if you
want to make yourselve look bigger her are
2things you can do!
1. stuff your bra with tissue paper or tissues
2.get a D bra ( stuff it if it's to big)
I hope I helped
Em231
P.s.
If you want one on one avice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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Im trying to get over this guy I liked, and my friends are trying to convince me it wouldn't have worked out anyways. hes a jock, he probalby only talkes about football and boobs. I talk about the wonderfull music were playing in band, (were in the same band class, same instrument) and how beautiful nature is, and how i love to express myself though dance yadda yadda...
are my friends right? would it have worked?
Hey, my name is Em231 and i think I can help you
I'am sorry to say (Don't get mad at me) it
wouldn't of worked out . All jocks think about
is cheerleaders boobs,buts and there selves I know!!
I see alot of them at my school I hoped I helped!
Em231
If you want one on one advice email me at ethom@Wildblue.net
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almost 16/female
this is kinda embarrassing..
but today, my guy friend caressed my shoulder and arm in a realllllyy smooth/sexy way...he was just playing around.
as soon as he did that, i felt this rush through my body...and it was mainly directed at my lower part (...) and just everywhere...it felt really nice. lol
I don't know whyy....
is this normal? :/
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help
you ok. That just means you kinda ( don't laugh)
was turned on like at this age you are more confortable with guys and It just means you like guys alot .
I hope I helped
Em231
P.s.
If you want one on one advice email me at ethom@Wildblue.net
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14/f
okay there's this girl who is a freshman and just moved here (im a sophomore) and sits next to me in in my bio class. omg she is so clingy!! and she talks soo much about stupid stuff that i dont care about! like how her uncle is visiting or how she went to some auction over the weekend..yadda yadda..
and worse, she has this awful accent so i dont understand anything she says to me. she thinks im like her bff just because i said it was okay to sit next to me. my friend who sits on the other side of me things shes clingy too but i dont know how to shake her. she's kinda nice, like she always tells me what's going on when im sleeping in class, but she's really irritating.
how can i shake her off?
thanks
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help
I think you should like give her a chance she might not have much friends.If she realy bothers you
you should try to show her to new people that share her interests you know. If that don't work tell her
she is some what clingy and she needs to find more friends than just you!Don't hurt her feelings
though. My mane thing is to give her a chance.
I hoped I helped
Em231
P.s.
If you want one on one advice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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so im 20 my bf is 23 weve been together about 6 mos.. anyways i noticed that he left his xgf a picture comment on facebook saying ohh (name) lookin hot... they dated for like 4 mos. she was in love with him but he didnt feel the same way which is why he broke up with her. he always tells me he didnt really find her that attractive they just really got along and whatever. I know he isnt going to cheat on me. I cant bring it up to him because I only could see the comment while on his facebook because Im not friends with his xgf... I just dont think its right to leave comments on an exes page like that when you are in a relationship. I know if i tell him that just randomly he'll tell me he doesn't do that and etc. My question is if other people think its wrong too? and if I should just casually bring up the thing of telling his xgfs or any girls theyre hot or etc..?
Hi, my name is Em231 and I think I can help you
you are so right i don't think it's right to leave
comments like that when your in a relationship!!
You should bring it up calmly and look him straight
in his eyes and say this ( If you want to
or if you can think of something your selve).
" I saw what you commented on your ex girlfriend
and I think that is inipropreate to say those
things when your in a relation ship"!!! I hope
things go ok.
Em231
P.S.
if you need one on one advice email me at ethom@Wildblue.net
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My friend Michelle told me lies in high school in our senior year in 2004. I had lunch by myself and Michelle had a short day at school every day because she had work and she can leave the grounds in the middle of school around noon. When she left I had lunch and sometimes she didn’t have work. So I was hoping she will hang out with me at lunch. But then I never see her come visit me. Last time she came up to me at lunch time and she told me “I can’t stay to long because my mom wants me home” I ask “why?” she said that her mom doesn’t want her to stay at school if she can go home at noon every day. That was the most worst lie I ever heard. My past friends lie to me and I just couldn’t take it anymore. I only had her and Josh at school because my other two friends were at a different high school. Josh came by once in a while to hang with me at my lunch he ditch class for me! I cry so hard that day when I found out she’s been lying to me everyone in class
ask me if I was ok I couldn’t stop crying I had to go to counseling. It was a trouble year. I Ask Mandy why she lies to me and she said she has a hard time trusting people because they lie to her too in the past.
Now we are good friends and hang out all the time but deep down I feel like I can’t rust her anymore. How can I trust her again?
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help ok
you can't trust her again you just have to go your own way because if you keep making up she
will think she can keep lieing to you and she would'nt think anything of it because you keep
making upwith her. So, I think you should look for your own friend that don't lie to you . No, friend
lies to you especialy a good friend like Michelle
("But know she isn't).
Well, I hope I helped
Em231
P.S.
If you want one on one advice email
me at ethom@Wildblue.net
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So, tomorrow it's decades day at my school and my class has the 60's.
What did hippies where for shoes? lol, I have my whole outfit together but I don't know what to wear for shoes.
Thanks!
Hey,my name is Em231 and I think I can help
hippies usualy worn flip flops. Or you can
wear sandals that are green, pink or yellow
I hoped I helped
Em231
P.s.
if you need one on one advice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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there is this guy and i think that he is hot and people told me that he thinks i am too so he started to text me...i have never really talked to him but some of my friends are friends with him and everyone says that he is really nice. i think we are gunna start to hang out but i have never made out with anyone and i dont want it to be weird. i want to act like myself but i think its gunna be weird beacuse we have never really talked. how can i act like myself? and what is gunna happen if he wants to kiss..im not gunna know what to do! im not sure if he even likes sme but i think that he does?
Hey, my name is Em231 and i think i can help how
you can act like yourselve is just stay calm and
don't worry what he thinks about you! If he wants to
kiss you don't have to do it you can just say you
don't feel good and I don't want to give you a cold!! If you do want to kiss him just go slow and wear ever his head goes turn you head to the other
way!!You don't want to bang noes's!
I hope I helped
em231
If you want one on one advice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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okay well i missed one of my good friend's bday parties on saturday. since then i've been busy to the max and i feel really bad cause shes in high school so i dont see her often and i wanna get her a gift.. i mean her real bday was on monday but i couldnt get it for the tons of things i had to do. so whats something thoughtful, nice and not too expensive to get her? she just turned 15. thanks!
Hey, my name is Em231 and i think I can help ok
she just turned 15 one great thing I would get her is this
her are some suggestions:
1.Bath &Body stuff
2.Bath&Body gift card (If you can't pick anything out for her)
3. There are like thease coolphone cases I think at
wal mart .
4. Phone crystals
I hope I helped
Em231
If you want one on one advice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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There is this girl at my school and she is amazing. She is always happy, extremely nice...and i swear she is friends with everyone! I'm really falling head over heels for this girl. I've noticed she acts a bit different around me now a days...and I was wondering...did i do something wrong? She always looks at the floor and has trouble keeping eye contact with me. Plus, she giggles a lot? Is she laughing at me..something I do? Anyway, it would help if I knew what these meant. A few weeks ago i started a secert admirer thingy. I've sent her flowers and wrote her short little love letter/poem things. Any chance she found out or something. Should I stop with the whole 'secert admirer'...do girls think that's lame? Well, anyways, I'm planning on asking her out, but I'm really nervous and I'm not too sure how to ask. I really like this girl, i want to impress her, put a smile on her face.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! =)
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help she
is not keeping eye contact with you because she has a crush on you and it is hard to keep eyecontact
because she is shy to keep her head up because she might blush if she looks at you!
i hope i helped
Em231
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What do you think about sex before being married. I don't know if it's wrong or right so I'm asking you. Please voice opinions and experience.
Hey, my name is Em231 what i think about sex before
marrige is it is very wrong to me but thats my opinnion Isay that because if you have sex before
marrige you might get pregnant and ruin your life .
Ya, there is condoms but they might break, or they might not work!
i hope i helped
Em231
If you want one on one advice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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im 13 years old and a female and my mom treats me like im 30
she wants me to wash the dishes every night and clean the kitchen , and the bathroom , and my room, even my 8 year old brother's room
am like cinderella?
the worst part is that when i do these things she wont even say thank you or tell me that i did a good job, she just acts like's it's nothing.
but wen i do something wrong she yells so much till i just feel like crying.
at the same time of cleaning those and doing all the chores, she also expects me to get straight a's in skool
like she'll freak out if a get an 82 on test and tell me that ill never get anywhere in life if i dont do good in skool.
how do i get her to let me be a kid and just have fun and hang out with my friends and relax
thnxx
Hey, my name is Em231 what you should do is talk to your mom and let her now how you feel or talk to some other adult ! I think your mom is to hard on you I'am so sorry how she is treating you!
I hope i helped
Em231
If you want one on one advice email me at ethom@Wildblue.net
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I met this nice Italian guy on Myspace,
and he wanted to know if we could talk
over MSN, so of course, I was like, sure.
He seemed really nice but then he wanted to
get on his webcam, so I said alright.
I've watched other people (non-sexually) on webcam.
Of course I had to tell him: don't strip or anything,
and he said he wouldn't, but then I guess he
changed his mind and took all his clothes off?
I felt weird saying "No" and he obviously wasn't
going to take "No" for an answer.
Oddly, I watched him but felt really nervous the whole time.
Not to sound like a dork or anything,
but I've never really seen a guy close up naked.
However, I was kind of disgusted with this naked guy.
I was also really scared, which is weird,
because most of my friends have actually
had sex with a guy and obviously they are
comfortable with even more than just looking at that!
Is this usual? Is it ok to feel a little freaked out by...male parts?
I am really boy crazy and I love guys, so why
do I freak out so much if I see a naked guy?
What if I'm a Lesbian?
And by the way, I won't be watching that
guy on webcam again so don't worry!
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think i can help
it's ok if you get freaked out about male body parts.you are because you aren't realy ready to see that sort of stuff and it makes yourbody feel wearid! So chill out and don't talk to that guy again!
If yhou need one on one advice email me at Ethom@Wildblue.net
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ok, yano when you shave your legs, how far are you suppose to shave? you dont shave past your knee do you? my mom alwys tells me not too.
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think Ican help what
Ido is I shave down to my ankles. If you want to just shave to your knees it's your legs do what you want !I hope i helped
Em231
~breezy~
If you want one on one advice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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I'm a girl and I'm almost 16 and I have never been in a relationship with a guy. I cant figure it out! I know myself that I'm easy to get along with, im friendly to everybody, and nobody dislikes me. All my friends say I'm so cute, but I know im not gorgeous. But I like my body/who I am... I am not self-concious. I have crushes on guys, and somtimes they find out about it, but they never ask me out! So I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed. Frankly, at my age, it's embarrasing! I've liked this guy for a couple of months now, so I told my friend to slip it to him, but she said that she thinks hes already in one of those "we like eachother, we know it, and were kinda dating" relationships with somone else. and she dosn't want me to get hurt and I dont want him to feel bad or akward. I feel like all the guys and girls in the world are already coupled up and I'm the odd one out!! What can I do? About the boy I like now? What about my situation in general? i welcome any advice, or just comfort. because this is really bringing me down.
Hi, my name is em231 and I think i can help you
probaly all ready now this but guys are so
confusing I just wanrt to tell you just talk to
your friends they can help ya! Don't worry the right
guy for you will come soon just be an open book
express your selve and show the guys your available
Don't try to change your selve! I hope I helped
Em231
if you need one on one advice email me at
ethom@wildblue.net
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