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clingy!
14/f
okay there's this girl who is a freshman and just moved here (im a sophomore) and sits next to me in in my bio class. omg she is so clingy!! and she talks soo much about stupid stuff that i dont care about! like how her uncle is visiting or how she went to some auction over the weekend..yadda yadda..
and worse, she has this awful accent so i dont understand anything she says to me. she thinks im like her bff just because i said it was okay to sit next to me. my friend who sits on the other side of me things shes clingy too but i dont know how to shake her. she's kinda nice, like she always tells me what's going on when im sleeping in class, but she's really irritating.
how can i shake her off?
thanks
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i used to know a girl just like her. i asked my mom what to do and my mom told me that i had to think about her situation. i did, that girl had no real friends, no siblings, and her parnet werent' that close to her. so just for her i was nice. also if you tell them "could you tell me someother time cause right now my mind is drifting" they will stop, of corse dont use that all the time but.. anyways just think about her situation and how many people she actually knows. then base your dicisioins off of that :)
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okay like she's clingy so people obviously aren't gonna like her, and if people see you with her it will ruin your reputation, trust me i've been through it..ugh, but alright just think about yourself in this, she'll move on AND she'll learn to be less annoying, it's okay to be rude once in awhile for your benefit. ask her if she's made an friends since she's been here. then say something rude like "because youve been talking to me more than anyone else". or just completely stop talking to her and go about your business then when she finishes a sentence just look at her and look like "uh?" for a second then go back to your stuff. BUT BUT BUT, if she seems alright, you could join in her conversation and be a nice person and maybe become friends with her...but i don't think you want that.
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Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help
I think you should like give her a chance she might not have much friends.If she realy bothers you
you should try to show her to new people that share her interests you know. If that don't work tell her
she is some what clingy and she needs to find more friends than just you!Don't hurt her feelings
though. My mane thing is to give her a chance.
I hoped I helped
Em231
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