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i want a relationship!
I'm a girl and I'm almost 16 and I have never been in a relationship with a guy. I cant figure it out! I know myself that I'm easy to get along with, im friendly to everybody, and nobody dislikes me. All my friends say I'm so cute, but I know im not gorgeous. But I like my body/who I am... I am not self-concious. I have crushes on guys, and somtimes they find out about it, but they never ask me out! So I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed. Frankly, at my age, it's embarrasing! I've liked this guy for a couple of months now, so I told my friend to slip it to him, but she said that she thinks hes already in one of those "we like eachother, we know it, and were kinda dating" relationships with somone else. and she dosn't want me to get hurt and I dont want him to feel bad or akward. I feel like all the guys and girls in the world are already coupled up and I'm the odd one out!! What can I do? About the boy I like now? What about my situation in general? i welcome any advice, or just comfort. because this is really bringing me down.
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I am in the exact same situation you are except I'm 17! I get compliments all the time saying I'm cute and skinny. And like yourself, I know I'm not drop dead gorgeous but guys like cute girls too. I normally get really really really creepy guys hitting on me or asking me out and I turn them down immediately. A guy that I've actually liked never likes me back.
About the boy you like know I'd stay away from him for a while if he's trying to get with someone else. I think if you got in the middle of it it'd only make a huge mess. But ask your friend to keep you updated on whether or not he's still with this other girl. And about this whole situation in general just know that you're not the only one! I'm going through the same thing and I'm older then you! Our time will come soon. =)
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Hi, my name is em231 and I think i can help you
probaly all ready now this but guys are so
confusing I just wanrt to tell you just talk to
your friends they can help ya! Don't worry the right
guy for you will come soon just be an open book
express your selve and show the guys your available
Don't try to change your selve! I hope I helped
Em231
if you need one on one advice email me at
ethom@wildblue.net
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You sound like many single adults. Sometimes it's not gonna be the one you choose but it doesn't mean it won't happen. If you are all those great things you say you are then you don't have to be out there searching for him. Plus many men like to do the chasing, once you let them see that you like them too much, they get big headed and want to see you sweat.
The way you describe yourself sounds like when you do find that right man he wont be turned away by your personality or your over-experience. No man likes a girl that has had too many boyfriends and too many kisses at 16.
It's something you will learn to respect, when a man doesn't take advantage of the fact that you like him. When it's your time, you will find the right type of guy that will like you for the right kinds of things. Don't rush, all good gets rewarded.
Stay a good girl and watch and see!!
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dont be shy talk to boys more flirt around a little bit maby someone will start to talk to you more
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well to make you feel better I'm not in a relationship so not everyone is coupled up. You say you are friends with almost everyone and talk to almost everyone then just talk to this guy and maybe ask him to go somewhere like the movies or something and then ask him there if everything went well. Hope all goes well!
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