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Ok.. there is this guy in one of my classes that i thought was really hot. I never really had the courage to talk to him but then i got over my little shy thing and started talking to him on aim. I sent him pictures of me like naked and he sent me a picture of his .. you know lol. We started hanging out and I really like him now. I gave him head.. and he wanted to have sex [hes a virgin] but we didn't have time so i told him know. He says that he likes me and I like him too. I want to date but im not going to ask him out. Anyway he IMed me like 20 minutes ago saying he wanted to ask me a question but didnt want me to take it personal. Well asked me if I'm looking to be in a relationship with him and I told him i dont know i was like " I really like you, and I would date you but I'm not going to be here like oh my god we need to date" he told me thats good because right now he doesnt want a girlfriend because of drama.. and then hes like no that you cause drama.. im like ok hes like dont like when they are all clingy and then hes like not that your clingy.. and all this other stuff. Oh ya thens hes like I dont want to get tied down to one girl.. not that im like a man whore.. and then hes like but i really do like you i just dont want to be in a relationship right now they make me feel weird.. and all this other stuff. What should I do at this point? Should I just hangout with him and get him to like me or and more till the point he asks me out.. or do u think it will even get like that?
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I think there might be a possibility of you two getting into a relationship in the future. I'd still hang out with him and maybe try and show him how great it is to be in a relationship. I wouldn't get sexual with him though because then he's definitely using you.
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One thing is for certain. he doesn't want you as his girlfriend. It sounds to me like he wants you to be one of those girls who are just there when he wants his sexual fix. He just wants to play around and get as many goals as he can, so to speak.
Be his friend if you want to, but don't let him force you into doing anything you don't feel comfortable with.
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He is using you. If he is telling you he doesn't want to be with you and wants to be with other girls, he just wants the physical aspect of what you're willing to offer. "Friends with benefits" if you will. Your best bet is to keep it at a friendship level without crossing that physical line. I am pretty sure he won't ask you out no matter how long you hang out with him.
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