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i am 13/f, and i know this sounds really gross. but can you have a pimple on your (down there). when i was putting on my jeans the other day it started to hurt. and when i got out of the shower there is this big bumb down there. its kind of white on the top. which to me looks like a pimple. what can i do? i'm scared. how can i get rid of it? I RATE 5's!!!

ps. i am not a virgin, but its just now showing up and the last time i had sex was 3 months ago.

it probably is just a zit, id maybe take a shower every day and wash it. if it doesnt disapear then i would tell yout mom. but im pretty sure its just a zit.
h.i.h.

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Im terribl at askin people out. girls. And i wanna know how to do it. And i cant talk to beautiful people eihter. help

well i never got asked out or have i asked anyone out before but i think it would be sweet if you first talk to her and maybe lead her into a conversation and ask her out. You could also, well this would probably work good for valentines day but, you could place her favorite flower in her locker and have a note attached saying either "Will you go out with me" - your name... or if you wanna talk to her and ask her face to face tell her to meet you somewhere. but thats just a few ideas...
h.i.h. and good luck!

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my mom is a alchoholic and has been in california for re-hab for 4 weeks.. how can i handle this..?

well it's probably really tough not having her at the house but call her up on the phone everyonce and a while if you miss her. Wish that she gets better, and just keep in touch with her while shes there so you still feel like shes right there with you. :)
Nat*

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15/m a few days ago my friend asked me if i would mind if he asked out my ex-g/f and i said no because i didnt really care but ever since they started going out, i started to like my ex again. i dont know what to do. please help.

Its fine, your probably just alittle jelouce or maybe you still like her and (which ever broke up) you don't know why you did. But hey! he asked you and i think thats pretty good. But talk to him if you think you really still like her and maybe you two can work something out.
h.i.h.

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Okay. i just broke up with my man coz it was waaaaaaaay too serious a relationship. i'm 17 him 18 me a virgin him a well a slut. he was always wanting serious conversations and we started fighting coz i'd joke aroud too much and 'hurt his feelings' so yeah. i dumped him. now i want a guy that is fun and stuff but i have no way to meet one! i'm out of school with a full time - 6days a week- job so i barely even have time for my friends. it sux! how can i meet a fun guy??? i know i'll be fine in july coz it's my 18th so i can actually go night clubbing. but what do i do in the meantime? does anyone know a place where heaps of guys hang out? plz help i rate!

maybe go to the park, the stores always have a few... um, depending if u would go for sprot guyz... maybe the bball fields or w.e.
You could also talk to your friends even if its just by phone, and ask them if they know anyone. But just be patient, he'll come along soon!
Nat*

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I'm not even sure if I'm allowed to post these type of questions on this site... but... what they heck...this is actually an english-y type question... you see, I was just wondering... there's this quote that I heard and liked the sound of, but I dont really understand it... maybe some adults in here (or some really smart teens) could explain it to me please... *batts eyelashes*?? anyway, the quote is... "All is fair in love and war" please answer... i know this is a boring question; i rate high!!!

well i'd say, it means that everything that between love and war is fair. but thats just what i'm thinkin that it could mean, but hopfully i helped!
Nat*

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Well there is the girl at my school who i like but i found out today that she dosent want to go out with me and i still have feelings for her and i just cant seem to get her outta my head even though i know she wont go out with me i am still crazy about her and i dont know what to do please help i reall cant stop thinking about her no matter what i do i just cant stop thinking about her like right now i am and i just dont know what to do.

talk to her. ask her why she wont go out with you. but dont push her away. hopfully you'll change her mind.
:D Nat*

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ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



well im some coltures you can but i'd say its way to young, maybe talk to her about it but let her tell her parents, unless you think the need is very seriouce. But yes... getting married to a 17 year old at the age of 14 is way to young in my oppinion.
Nat*

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Hiya,
I've had my rabbits (I have three) for a couple of months now and I am doing great with regards to handling them. They love being stroked and stuff but they aren't so keen on being picked up. I'm pretty sure that all I can do is persevere (but tell me if you think different!). Any tips to get them used to it faster?

some animals just don't like to be picked up and cuddled with, but it also takes alot of bonding between the animal to actually get the to let you hold them even for a minute. My cat, i've had her for about 5 years now and shes finally getting to the point where she will let us hold her, so just give your rabbits some time and they'll eventually let you hold them :D
as always Natally*

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i really dont know what to say theres this girl i know.. the thing is i still have alot of fellings for her but one of my friends are with her.... the thing is my frind is going out with her but the catch is that shes best frineds with his ex and i think hes just useing her what should i do........?????????

talk to her and tell her how you feel. maybe try and hang out with her and well easiest, just talk to her about how you feel.
Good luck!

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im 13 and think of sicide a lot i have cut my veins already in dec and dont wanna do it again is their someone i can talk to about it so when i need help they will be their my s c r e e n name is bucsbaby6969 on aol instant messanger

feel free to talk to me anytime. my sn is : xdxrxuxmxmxexrx

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Ok well i have this really really hot boyfriend and his hottness cannot compare to me. And plus it seems he doesnt really want to get in a big relationgship, and he wants to be more of a friend. WHat shood I do?

just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. that should so it.
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What are some good party ideas for a girl who is turning 14 this summer, has friends that'd she like to invite aging from 12-16, and will have guys and gals at her party? I want to throw a really cool party for her, but I'm not sure where to begin. A Suprise Party is not an option, and we don't have a pool. I'd like something fun, original, and not boring. THanks for your ideas!

what about a night at a hotel? thats always fun! and they usually have pools :)
or just a simple party with games and activities, at my 14th bday prty i had a BBQ and a swim party. and a sleep over. we played music and watched movies and danced to music and swam in the pool. but thats all i got right now.
h.i.h.
good luck!

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My mouths been so dry i dont know waht im going to do!!!!! its bothering me so much! i tried drinking lots of fluids and using this mouth wash for dry mouth and it doesnt seem to work! ive been sick lately and breathing through my mouth if that makes a difference..does anybody have any suggestions?? thank you!

drink more water... your probably dehidrated or even breathing through your mouht also makes your mouth dry because of the air (if its dry or cold) but all i can say is drink lots and lots of water... but not too much.
Nat*
HAPPY V-DAY

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I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas!

um... for fun? i usually turn the radio up REALLY laud and sing to it while im cleaning lol
makeing it faster... it helps to clean up after you use something (i do it most of the time lol) but yea thats all i got.
h.i.h.
xo

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i have a small problem. i like sex. i like it alot. i almost feel i need it like air. i know its kinda like a drug, it can be addictive, but i dont care. im a male slut, bigtime. is there a sexaholics annonmous? i mean, i know love making is best...you know, when your dating or in love with someone, but it's like i wanna screw everything in sight! help!!

ok i dono how old you are but i think thats just what comes along with a guy... um, one way to get ride of the urge is to cut off ur balls... (not trying to be rude or anything) or try really REALLY hard to keep yourself from doing it, like think of other things besides sex...
h.i.h.

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my boyfriend already gave me 2 bears and a carnation (the carnation was being sold at skool) and its not even valentines day yet. now he thinks im not gonna get him something i think because i didnt buy him a carnation (which is really dumb) but at the moment all i have to give him is boxers and i really dont want to be there when he opens the present because id feel really weird. what should i do?

give him candy or a cool CD something you think he would enjoy. Or drop the boxers off at his house lol :)
Nat

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Recently, I watched a scary movie with my best guy friend. I get scared easy so I clung to him, plus he had really good colonge on. Now everyone thinks I like him and that he likes me. I don't know if I do. I mean I like hugging him and how he holds me and stuff. So, my question is "Do you think I like him," cuz I don't really know and I just want to get an idea if I'm giving off the vibe at least. By the way, I'm female and 15.

lol well he might think that your giving him a vibe but i dono id say that you have a crush on him. and it sounds like the two of you would be a cute couple. :D
xo*nat

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Hey i'm 13 and started 7th grade alot of people have small boobs but mine are just a little bigger! Now there's a roomer going around that I stuff! It makes me so mad. I was talking to my freind and pretending to fight like a little push back in fourth in lunch line and this guy was like No pushing stuffer! I told him i didnt stuff! This went back and fourth like no I dont or yes you do! Then I just told him to shut up. How do I tell them IM NOT A STUFFER!!!!!!!!!!!

just ignore it. i know its probably tough but the best is to ignore it and pretend like you dont care about it. then they'll forget about it and move on.

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My two friends and I are the best bff's in the WORLD! But one of my friends has two other friends and at school she acts like her two other friends are her bff's and never talks to us at school. But when it's just us 3 she's normal and says were her bff's! How so we get my other friend back to the group in public and private?

Maybe you should talk to her about it. Or... confrunt her about how she always ignores you at skool. want more info IM me at xdxrxuxmxmxexrx
Nat*xo

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