okay so theres these guy from a town close to me that ive been hanging with, one of them i cant tell if he likes me or not but he flirts allll the time with me, but hes one of those guys who always does, but i get the feeling he likes me more than friends....then the other guy i can tell likes me, and i think i like him back...but the problem is i think i might like the other one too, whut should i do?
ahh thats a hard one.
Well, take time to think abou tit carefully. If you have doubts about the other one, then you know you dont have the true feelings for him.
Take some time and think about it really hard and then you'll get your answer.
I hope I helped!
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haha.. i didn't know what category to put this under, so this was the best i could do.
i went to get contacts for the first time today, but i could not for the life of me get them in my eye. i kept blinking, and my eye muscles kept contracting etc etc. how do i get over the fear of putting something in my eye? i'm scared the lens will scratch my cornea and infect it and all that stuff, plus i just have a really strong natural reflex against them i guess. tips?
well, you have to get over that fear first. Try looking somewhere else when you put them in, i heard that works. Or keep trying!
I hope I helped!(:
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i have this friend and ive gone with her and her boyfriend and a few other people to the movies. well when they are at the movies she lays on him and he puts his arm around her and stuff. and she sometimes like sits on him and they make out and its cute.
well im going to the movies with my boyfriend soon and i want to do that kind of stuff. how do i get him to do that. i dont just want to throw myself on him. how do i know he likes to do that kind of stuff too? i dont want to ask him cause thats kinda of weird.
First see how teh first 10 minutes is in the movies. Dont hurry to much to jump into that. you have to be patient and see how it goes first. If he gets a little touchy, go with it, you'll see if he wants to do it or not. But dont jump riight into it, you have to wait.
I hope I helped!(:
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Okay, I'm 17/m,
Recently I said some things to my gf that made her wonder whether she should stay with me or not. I called her after work and she spent half an hour assuring me that I am the one, but before I talked to her I made a promise and labeled it "An act of love"
Before all of this I had an addiction that is common in a huge % of the human population. This addiction is masturbation. So here I am, worried sick that the one I love most hates me for flirting with this girl she's worst enemies with (I told her after the phone call to my gf that I never wanted to talk to her again) When an idea pops into my head. The idea "devote yourself" so I spent the entire night tracking down anything in my home that is related to another woman and disposing of it. After doing that I made it clear that I would not do anything sexual on my behalf until I was with her. So my question is guys: If you were in my situation, would you consider this option? Why and why not? Girls: If your man told you this how would you respond?
This has been bothering me for the last few nights so any answers are greatly appreciated.
Thank you and sorry for the length.
If I was In your girlfriends shoes i would feel the same exxaacct way.
You just have to reussure her that you wont do it again. You have to make an effort to not do it again and she has to make an effort to think about it more. It takes patients.
Just try to make the best of your decisions!
I hope I helped!
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Hey guys
17/m
Here's the deal.
I like this girl. I mean, i like her a fair bit. But i'm not sure if she likes me back or not. I mean, recently she has been saying in quizzes (i know not the greatest source of all knowledge in the world) that she isn't sure if she fancies someone. And its just the timing is kind of coincidental. So I was just wondering what you guys think I should do?
See, i don't want to say anything and potentially ruin what could be a good friendship, but then again if i don't take the chance i probably never will.
So yeah, I was just wondering what you guys thing I should do.
Well, you have to make your mind up bud. hahaah Do you like her? It seems to me you really do. Just keep talking to her everyday and you'll find out more about her and you'll see who she likes or if shes even ready for a boyfriend yet.
You have to be patient and find out more about her!
I hope I helped! that was a hard one.
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I have like, a dark red sorta colour hair (dyed). Being as it's now summer and i have 6 weeks off, i wanted to put highlights in my hair.
But, i'm not sure what colour. I wanted maybe purple or blue but i don't know what colour would look good in my hair.
Any ideas?
With dark red colored hair I think you should get a dark color. I think the color blue would be awsome! That would look so great! Or if your a girl and your a really girlygirly go with pink! that'd look cute!
I hope I helped!
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I want to do something new with my room.
I can't paint my room.
I have the box room. It's really small but i want to change it around a little, because it's been the same for months now.
Any ideas?
I know how you feel. I also have a box room and its small too.
Clean out your room. Make your room have a theme. like; summer, or fashion, or cars, or whatever anything you like. Start consentrating on that stuff and get more to add to it! Be creative.
The little things are always what touch up your room!
"Think out of the box!"
I hope I helped!(:
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ok, i get really really bad chapped lips. like they get bumps on them, and swell up and no matter what i do fixes them.. can you tell me how to get rid of it? thanks
Chapstick, ask your doctor because i know there is a specific one you can get just for that problem.
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i'm 17/m
she's 15/f
i'll start out by saying that i'm one of the shyest guys alive.
so there's this girl i'm really into, she's one of the shyest chicks alive. i think she's into me too because on aim she always starts conversations with me. so we talk a good amount on aim and occasionally see each other and talk, like in school and i drove her home once and she visits me at work all the time.
thursday i asked her to go bowling with me. here's why i'm an ass: i went with a friend of mine because i was too scared to go with her by myself. i told her ahead of time though and asked her to bring one of her friends but she said that none of them liked bowling. it was really weird because me and this girl are really shy and my friend kept rambling on about his favorite subject, drugs. i talked to her , like chit chat but never got into any real conversations like i had hoped to. i texted her later that night and told her i made it weird by bringing my friend and told that next time it would be just us.
today after work i'm gonna call her, no texting just talking, and explain that i made a big mistake cause i'm an ass. we're kinda awkward around each other cause we are both deathly shy but i'm really determined to make things work. i'd appreciate any opinions or advice very much.
Your not an ass.
Your a caring guy, and as you can see, it was a mistake. It doesnt mean your an ass. hah.
Yeah your doing the right thing, tell her your sorry and make another time for you and her[just you two] and go to bowling or even a movie.
I hope everythiing works out. You guys seem like the perfect couple.
I hope I helped!(:
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my friend who is fourteen and a male has been having stomach pains and the feeling to throw up only in the morning for the past year. we are very concerned about him. we tried to look up things on google but we couldnt find enough information can you please help us. =]
Wow, i've never heard of that. You should tell him to go get checked with the doctor, trust me, that will help.
I hope I helped!
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so we went out a year ago and recently started talking again, he replies to a bunch of my myspace bulletins and ims me on msn all the time. he recently called me to walk around with him at warped tour, but then backed out, and when i saw him at warped tour he invited me to walk with him but i walked away, and when i saw him again there he stared at me and spit water at me and threw a condom at me (jerk) and then when i ran into him a 3rd time at warped he wanted me to walk with him again but i said no again, and he was supposed to talk to some other chick and i asked him if they were going out and he said i dont know and my friend told me that was because he didnt want to tell me the real answer, and ive asked him where we stand before, but that was after him and a serious gf broke up, so he was still upset over that, and like he asks me to chill, but he always just wants to have sex, even though i always tell him no not unless its with a bf.. so i dont know, what should i do. does he like me and if so, how do i find out, and if he doesnt, how do i get him to lol
well, first, make sure if he has a gf. Because if he does, that wouldnt be so good if he starts flirting with you. He's just showing you that if you guys go out, he might as well flirt with someone else. Bad signs let me tell you.
And lol. He obviously likes you. Guys show 'love' in the weirdest ways. If he talks to you right when you get on aim or myspace or w/e you can tell he likes you. Or when he asked you to walk with him, Thats a BIG sign.
Talk to him and ask if he does have a gf. And then start from there.
Oh and you obvuiosly you'have' him because he 'wants you' lmao.
I hope I helped!
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-Speakfreely
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Ok I have been datting my boyfriend for almost 9 months.Let call him 'bob'. Well bob is best friends with my best friend lets call my best friend 'stacy' so 'bob' is best friends with stacy and stacy is also my best friend. But it seems like to me they hang out more than me and him do. And it really upsets me.. beucase it makes me think that bob is doing stuff behind my back with stacy and whenever they are around eachother and they call me.. he acts completly diffrentt, and it makes me so.. mad. I dont know what to do or think.. is he doing stuff behind my back.. should I tell him how I fell ( which I have tried and it just starts a fight) what do I do? what do I say? please help me.
Thank's
Much Love XoXoX
First ask Stacey if anything has been going on with both of them. And be honest of how you feel.
And with your boyfriend, You have to trust him. Everyone gets that feeling of something going wrong. Just sit down with him and say you dont want to fight. Tell him how you feel, and if he says nothingis goign on with him and Stacey, you just have to believe him. It takes trust for a relationship.
And also, he'll see how much you care about it once you tell him how you feel.
I hope I helped!
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how can i get the smokey eye look with eye shadow/mascara/eye liner. what colors do i use?how do i put it on so it looks perfect?
ohkay, with the eye shadow use a lot of light blue on the eye lid.And ontop of the eye lid use grey eyeshadow and try to blend it in with the blue.
With the mascara, put it on how you regularly do.And with the eye liner, dont put too much. Just put it under your eye and ontop, but not to thick.
I hope I helped!(:
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15/f
hey!
i'm trying to plan something for me & my boyfriend of 6 months to do on our "anniversary"
i'm completely out of ideas! going to a movie theater is out because my parents don't trust me with him at a movie theater by ourselves (haha) so any ideas would be appreciated!!
Well, where did you first meet him? Maybe you should just take him out for dinner and have little things representing of where you first met.
I dont know, It really matters who the guy is and what he likes and dislikes.
Think out of the box though!
i hope I helped!
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I'm in a summer intership in Iowa and I had this friend from Italy which I was close to at the last week of her intership.
Problem is that she like a guy that was hitting on me. I always ignored him,he would tell me he loves me etc. But my friend didnt ignore him,she got to REALLY like him. My best friend and I saw bad intentions in that guy's eyes,but we didnt get involved in it. At the end of the program he hits on both of us at the same time so I decide to talk to her even if I didnt know her. She got crushed and now she is back in Italy. Apparently the guy sends her love letters,tells her he missed her and loves her while he;s been sleeping eigth different girls in here and he is hitting on me again.
She just found out about this...and she just told me she believed in him and they had sex...she is extremely hurt and wants to pay back.
I dont know what to tell her,cause I believe she does need to do something,the guy is an()*)&&^&^/
Thing is I dont know if I should take "justice" in my hands since im still in the intership.
Like do exactly what she did to her excluding the sex.
Any advice on what should I do?
or how to take revenge?
I will highly appreciate it
Ha , this biggest revenge that he would hate is for her to ignore him. Just tell her not to even talk to him. He'll soon get frusterated and get the piont of what your trying to do. He'll soon feel guilty, and let me tell you, it would be really worth it. If he just takes advantage of girls, he needs to have the best of pain.
I hope I helped!
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For about a year now me and my step sister have not been on the greatest of terms. we used to be really good freinds until middle school came along and she turned in to the snobby prep i couldn't even talk to. I feel like she doesn't treat me as a freind but more like her enemie i think it might be because o f my changes to with freinds and hobbbies we have grown apart i need help on finding out how to make that freindship agian
Start by talking to her alot. Try to show her that you want to be the best of friends agaian. Just show signs, no need to actually tell her. She'll eventually get the idea and might make the effort to talk to you again. And if that doesn't work, then tell her!
I hope I helped!
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-Speakfreely
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How do I dress like a rock star???? Is it expensive? Please help asap
You should search a rock star and see how they dress! Trust me it will help!
I hope I helped!
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Just wondering when can you take a pregnancy test?
Im pretty sure there are pregnancy test things at your local store. Or go to the doctor and check it out!
I Hope I Helped!
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I need help finding a knew hairstyle thats emo and i know i sound like a poser.
well, I know alot of kids who are the emo type , and their hair is always dyed with blue streaks or something.
They usually have cut long straight hair.
I hope I helped!
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Hey now i just moved back to connecticut form florida and i am really nervous to get back to school i mean last year alot of kids called me names like gay or fag and belive me i am not gay i have had three girlfreinds. buut how could i get people to stop saying this kind of stuff cause its not helping my self confidence and it just makes me more nervous and paranoid about everyone around me
First Of All, Most important, don't care about what other people say. If you do, everything will become confusing and hard for you. And you don't need that.
Everyone at least gets called something once a day, and if we start caring about it, everything will just crumble up.
People call other people names for their entertainment, it doesn't mean that you "are" gay or a fag. Your neither, but kids these days dont understand how it feels.
Just ignore it, you can't change what they think.You can only change what youu think. Don't make yourself believe that their right. It takes Confidence to beat what they say.
I hope i helped!
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