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How do i get kids to stop calling me a fag!
Hey now i just moved back to connecticut form florida and i am really nervous to get back to school i mean last year alot of kids called me names like gay or fag and belive me i am not gay i have had three girlfreinds. buut how could i get people to stop saying this kind of stuff cause its not helping my self confidence and it just makes me more nervous and paranoid about everyone around me
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First Of All, Most important, don't care about what other people say. If you do, everything will become confusing and hard for you. And you don't need that.
Everyone at least gets called something once a day, and if we start caring about it, everything will just crumble up.
People call other people names for their entertainment, it doesn't mean that you "are" gay or a fag. Your neither, but kids these days dont understand how it feels.
Just ignore it, you can't change what they think.You can only change what youu think. Don't make yourself believe that their right. It takes Confidence to beat what they say.
I hope i helped!
-Speakfreely
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ok so you can't really make them stop, because kids are kids. they are really immature and you just have to be above them. ive had my share of getting called names, and i know how you feel because they sometimes go to far. just dont become the same as them. if someone says it to your face in the hallway or something, stop and look at him or her and just say, wow your pathetic, because they must be if they have such low self esteem that they have to make up things that arent true. even if it was true they still shouldnt say things like that. just dont pay attention to it, and if you dont let it bother you, it will eventually stop because they will get bored because you have no reaction to it. hope that helps a little :]
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