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I need advice urgently about revenge
I'm in a summer intership in Iowa and I had this friend from Italy which I was close to at the last week of her intership.
Problem is that she like a guy that was hitting on me. I always ignored him,he would tell me he loves me etc. But my friend didnt ignore him,she got to REALLY like him. My best friend and I saw bad intentions in that guy's eyes,but we didnt get involved in it. At the end of the program he hits on both of us at the same time so I decide to talk to her even if I didnt know her. She got crushed and now she is back in Italy. Apparently the guy sends her love letters,tells her he missed her and loves her while he;s been sleeping eigth different girls in here and he is hitting on me again.
She just found out about this...and she just told me she believed in him and they had sex...she is extremely hurt and wants to pay back.
I dont know what to tell her,cause I believe she does need to do something,the guy is an()*)&&^&^/
Thing is I dont know if I should take "justice" in my hands since im still in the intership.
Like do exactly what she did to her excluding the sex.
Any advice on what should I do?
or how to take revenge?
I will highly appreciate it
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I highly advise that you don't do anything drastic to try and get revenge. Vengence is hardly anything that is worth your time. I truly believe he'll get what he's got coming to him in time. I think the best thing you can do is help you friend get over this guy and tip off these girls that he's been messing around with.
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Ha , this biggest revenge that he would hate is for her to ignore him. Just tell her not to even talk to him. He'll soon get frusterated and get the piont of what your trying to do. He'll soon feel guilty, and let me tell you, it would be really worth it. If he just takes advantage of girls, he needs to have the best of pain.
I hope I helped!
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-SpeakFreely
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Revenge rarely ends up well in the end. My advice to both of you-- ignore the guy and move on. He's clearly not worth it, and revenge just really isn't either. If you both just forget him and move on, that's probably going to end up giving you the most/best closure possible.
Sorry.
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