My name is Christine. I live in a popular town in The Caribbean island of Jamaica. I grew up in China, Texas (not a very popular town though) and then moved to Crystal Beach, Texas. We finally moved to Jamaica, and as i got older, i had to deal with the experiences of friends, teachers, school, family, mental illness, drugs, and others. I know a lot about sex, though not enough to get completely by, because i want to remain fresh until i am married. NO offence to others, because as an advice giver, i have no right to judge. I am catholic, (which is a denomination pf Christianity). I am part French, Indian, Spanish, and British. My mother was adopted, so i dont know the other side of me as much. I took my father's side more, and i am as you can say cajun which is mostly french. I look like i am American, though i can look like other races if i spoke the language. I really do hope you like my advice, i am very sweet, and experienced in certain fields, and I try to help my absolute best with anything you give me. If there is no happy answer or postive one, i will try to calm it down for you as much as i can. I am sorry if i fail to give good advice, but i try my best, Thank you in consulting my opinion, if you ask for my advice.
E-mail: lilgothicbiotch@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: texas
Occupation: student
Age: 13
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Yahoo: yes i do now sweetybodeety@yahoo.com
MSN: yes i have msn lilgothicbiotch@hotmail.com
Member Since: May 20, 2006
Answers: 145
Last Update: October 25, 2011
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i work really really hard and listen in class, do all my homework. i already talked to my teachers and everything but i can't help it, i can never do better than a B or a C in some classes!!!!!
im just stupid... idk how i will ever get into a good college with grades like that i don't know what to do!
my dad is CRAZY. he won't test me for ADD, b/c he teasted my brother and my brother had it, and he got so pissed b/c he said "ADD is for retards and i will not have another retard kid!" but he demands A's
he says B's are F's and I will get grounded
i don't know what to do I have to be smarter if I am going to survive my house and make it in life because my dad won't listen to me, I CANNOT TALK TO HIM HE WILL NOT LISTEN, and I already ahve a tutor for like everything and talked to my eachers
im just stupid.. is there a cure? PLEASE ANYTHING WILL HELP IM SO SICK OF NOT GETTING ANYTHING. IM TIRED OF MY DAD HITTING ME B/C IM STUPID IM TIRED OF BEING MADE FUN OF PELASE
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Ok, well your dad has a real problem and is pretty insensitive on that 'add' subject, you should talk to a school helper you know .. councelling..and also.. well it may not be the teacher's fault but my principle saw my C and said i deserved and A- so maybe.. just maybe some of your teachers mark hard.. since it is some of them i guess it might be a learning disorder, but you can read and type and write? i would think so since you typed that. so maybe it's add like your brother.. dont worry your dad is just stubborn
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i want to do palaties or yoga i'm not sure which one is best for me though. i'm a soccer player 15/f and i wanna becaome more flexible and i'm hoping one of them will help me shed a few pounds in my stomach and thigh area. which one woul dyou suggest..and i'll probably just go to best buy and buy a dvd workout thingy (link)
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Ok well i know yoga you are still....when doing positions, but palates, you're always moving. and i also know a part of pilates, something that helps shed pounds from your stomach and get rid of those love handles, is to lie on your back and put your hands behind your head and have your elbows pointing outwards (like you're looking at the stars) and then lift up and reach your left elbow to your right knee and your right elbow to your left knee. for the thigh area you can swim (really helps) as into NOT use your arms as much as you would use your legs a lot AND you can sit on a chair and slowly lift your bent leg up to your chest...hope i helped!
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ok I'm at a stage of my life where my personality is changing. I wear dark clothes and a studded belt and no I'm not turning into a goth I just have a dark personality. I'm giving rap a break and I'm into rock,favorite band is The Offspring. So to top it all off I want a new hairstyle. I'm thinking of growing my hair a bit long so I can go to some barber shop and ask to make it stand up staight and spikey and I want red stipes on it too. So is there any like website that has hairstyles like that?
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Since I'm into rock any one know any good rock bands or rock songs. I like songs played by people like Panic at the Disco,The Offspring,Greenday,All-American Rejects,Nickleback, and Sum 41. (link)
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Oh my god i love green day! oh ye its green day not greenday just to let you know but anyway im not critcizin' on that... congrats on your new change in music i used to like rap but its like ..i find random songs like smack that, some eminem songs you know? cause i live in jamaica u can not get away from dancehall and my school is the most american they got so they like r&b rap n dancehall but i love rock so much i think (not meaning to put on labels here) punk is just really fun you DEFINE YOURSELF, my friends say im goth but im not i just call the F*****' retarded that they cant learn the difference between them, i just wanna smack them uhh but we get along haha...sooo...just saying what i mean by all this is just, you like what you like i think you should put more decision and choosing of what you want before you go and ask for opinions, you can search on google and find hairstyles for goths punks emos (sorry for the labeling) that you might like i think since you have 'dark personality' and dont want to be considered as far as goth, i guess you can say that youre punk instead of wasting breath to say 'i just have a dark personality' say "im punk" cause when youre punk, you can define yourself and dress in ANYTHING you want. even if you step out of the house in all black.. thats punk....even in all pink with bracelets you made urself. .thats punk too! you might be thinking now that everyone is punk, but people who dont follow, and put their own creation and twist and define themselves are punk. i know you may be thinking i am stupid, but its true. haha so just like what you like search for styles if you have to, if you were really liking the spikey n red tips, go for it!
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Talk about bad hair days...I suffer with at least 3-4 a week. It's not that I use cheap shampoo or don't buy stuff for my hair...it' really wild...(sorry bout this) but my hair is like hagrid's from HP. Yeah and it looks awful.
Now I know I'll never have Jessica Simpson or Jessica Alba hair, but I want to get a hair cut on Friday. Something new. Something that can work with any mood; loose; ponied; straightened; curled...anything! I'm thinkin something short(shoulder length or about 1-2 inches below), layered and neat.
Does anyone know if this will work with my rounded face...and if anyother suggestions arrise please advise me on what to do
thanks,
bad hair day's everyday! (link)
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Ohh please 1-2 inches below the face or shoulders? well i am jst sayin if youre thinking about the 1-2 below face dont do it itll puff up more and your hair will get lighter and go around your face and make you look fat like it did me
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Im 14, and im 150 ilbs. I am not athletic at all, I can barely do a cartwheel. My dream has always been to be a Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader. How can I start exerciseing and doing streches, where by the time im older to be one=].
Everyone tells me I'm GORGOUS. It's just my weight! And i I'm not Athletic.
I can't join a cheer team, because they use the best! It's so imbaressing. So whats hould ido at home, Im willing to do ALOT a day =]. & how much weight would I loose, and how fast? (link)
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ok well women arent allowed to model unless they r 120 pounds and maybe i dont know just a little bit over. i think since ur not athletic .. it would help to build up muscle but the limit of healthy weight for a twelve year old that is like 5ft. is 112lbs. sooo...i think you want to range a few pounds under 120 pounds. hope i helped .. and for dieting tips:
1. Drink a lot of water
2. If you feel sick of drinking it...excercise this is required!!! because if u perspirate you will want more water which will help.
3. Don't eat junk food.
4. Don't eat white bread, go to wheat because it is much healthier plus white bread can cause diabetes.
5. this includes hamburger and hotdog buns.
6. Check calories on food.
7. don't go all out every now and then take a little break like if you want you can have like three cookies.
8. watch your milk intake cause like whole milk.i heard...is a no no go for soy or skim.
9. Swim, dance, even probably buy a salsa dance program... look online for them or paid programs of selling of dvd's of salsa dancing, cause it does burn calories.
10. eat slower take about thirty minutes to eat.
11. work out with weights if you want AFTER you lost some weight cause fat can turn into muscle, and you dont want that to happen.
12. Have a positive outlook and only if you want.. you can track your daily intake of calories
13. excercise for about thirty minutes a day when you start out and when your ready you can go for different times like 40 minutes...an hour etc.
14. take it slow and dont push it. you might want fast results but if you want it done properly you will take my advice.
15. take breaks when excercising like for about five minutes, drink water.
16. there IS a difference between excercise and work out. excercise is to burn calories and give you strength (but giving muscle and strength is not its main goal) you know? and work out is to burn calories but building muscle is its main goal.
I really hope I helped. Xoxoxoxo :D
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how do you tell if a louie vuittan purse is real?
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ok what that girl said she is right but someone might have a rich grandma like myself i wear clothes from walmart and some are actually stylish and nice and i go to academy and jc penny and stuff like that some people just like to get great deals but they might get a gift of a bag like that so dont just jump to conclusions if you see a girl with a bag like that sorry i didnt help but im just saying :P :S haha
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Ok...i am a catholic and my step mom is a babtist and she asked me if i wanted to go to church with her sometimes...is it okay if i go to a babtist church when i am a catholic? thanks in advance. (link)
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haha im in jamaica and my mom is crazy and thinks that the catholic church will teach me differently even though i AM catholic haha.. so i go sometimes with my friend sweden to an Anglican church which is popular along with catholic churches in jamaica there is nothing wrong at all they are both christian so is anglican thats christian too just so you know..its perfectly fine do you really think your step mother would want you to go to some place which is not ok with ur beliefs if she really loves you? hope i helped xoxo
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Hello. I lost my lighter, would it be okay if I lighted my ciggarettes with matches instead? Please let me know. I know this sounds dumb but I just need to be sure! Thanks! (link)
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Umm.. haha its not exactly good to smoke but im not gonna be a smart @$$ so umm ye u can, just as fine but i guess that you should by a new lighter whenever cause matches suck..:P but nothing wrong with a match against a lighter :) hope i helped xoxo
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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering. (link)
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Okay well i dont think the hot thing now for guys is cologne .. specially for a 15 year old guy...i think the thing right now that smells really nice is old spice n axe, but u know cologne can either be really smelly and bad or good but not as great as axe and old spice
ALSO sorry i didnt add this earlier that cologne can be smelly but please pick which kind u use make sure it doesnt smell bad and dont let ie be really strong, but old spice, axe cologne they all have their flaws like dont have too much on and dont let it be too strong. dont only wear the smell cause the girl likes it but dont let it burn ur eyes as a sacrifice to smelling good. :D
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i'm 14/f in 9th grade and i like this 15 year old guy in 10th grade. today was the first time i ever spoke to him because he sat at my lunch table in the caf with me n my friends ..he's friends with my friends but not with me.
i guess you could say we flirted kinda.
like when i got up to throw something out n came back he was in my seat and gave a cute little smile lol n then he handed me my books, n when i sat down, he got up and sat even closer to me n our legs touched n didnt move away, n he even gave me a lil wink..
my question is --
how do i talk to him more so i can become closer with him n let him know i like him n want a relationship? i'm very sure he's interested in freshmen, because he went out with this girl in my grade in september n they are completely over each other.
what are some signs i can give him, and how can i become closer with him? (link)
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I think that you should just go about ur daily life give him a flirtacious smile while walking past each other in the halls and just go with the flow, dont like follow him to where he is at or sit where he is sitting if he is at another table. just go with the flow ... flirtacious smile while passing, you know, dont make it too strong.
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ok so i have this boyfriend, he's a little older than me and we're in this long distance relationship (same state though) so most of the things that happen are over the phone. my problem is, i can't seem to get myself to be comfortable sexually with him. i mean, we're both sexual people but he is way more experienced than me. He keeps wanting to have phone sex but i just can't with him. it's not like i havent been able to do it with other guys either. but it's just weird that now that we're in love with eachother and been together more than a year i can't do it. What should I do about this? i was thinking maybe it's because i have resentment towards him over thing's we've been through(although he's never tried to hurt me in any way) but i don't know what to do anymore. and he's getting impatient (not to say he's gonna leave. he's just dissapointed, especially since I've done it with other random guys). and it's not that im not attracted to him either, he's gorgeous. someone help, im lost on what to do anymore. (link)
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I think you might be, afraid of what might happen after, like if things will be the same, or if he will want to do it everytime. i think you should tell him that ur scared if him or you will feel different about each other after "phone sex" . hope i helped xoxoxo :)
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my mom and i have a very special relationship. so, i can't just NOT tell her things. But, I'm tired of her having to say something bad about everybody. She can't stand my boyfriend and he really likes her and her reasons are really silly, like she doesn't like the way his father drives or something. What should I do? (link)
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Right when i saw this first thing came to my mind is that, since you and your mom have such a strong relationship, she may not want to come to the idea that you are growing up and more and different people are coming into your lives, she might like him too, but she only finds silly things probably because she only wants you for herself and doesnt want to share you with other people yet and she doesnt want you to go on to other people too soon... hope i helped xoxoxo :)
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Okay, so homecoming is coming up and I know that there will be slow dancing. The problem is that I can NEVER slow dance. The last time I've slowdanced with guys I ended up just stopping and just stand there and talk..=/
It's just really awkward that you move around like a foot and not talk...erm so yeah.
1-What are good tips for slow dancing
2-Should I talk to get rid of the awkward silence ness or should i just keep quiet
3-Where the heck am I suppose to look cuz looking into their eyes sounds corny and is WEIRD.
Erm, anything you can give me advice on, I'll love oyu for it..literally (link)
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slowly move from side to side, not stepping on his feet so no big pointed shoes that are long...and yeah you could just talk, make him laugh a little n stuff and then you could just rest like rest your head on his shoulder and he'll do the same. sorry if this doesnt work but ive done this before so..yeah
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im 13/f and i weigh 140 im pretty much FAT and i hate it. my goal is to be 120 by the end of october. i need you to tell me what a good diet is.. like what food to eat and im only 13. i cant cook that well.so give me som easy stuff for breakfast lunch and dinner.. and i was also thinking about walking like and hour a day and a workout from on demand.or do you wanna give me a workout plan? tell me if this is a good plan or not. please!!! (link)
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hey i got some solutions...you can drink green tea, drink lost of water, and dont go on a hard core diet every now and then you can take a break but not for too long. check the calories on everything you eat, dont fry your chicken you can probly have it grilled if you eat it at home...and eat non-hormonal chicken its great. salad is nice too dont use ranch dressing though really bad for ya considering how healthy the other dressings are. instead of using crutons you can toast wheat bread dont use white bread it can cause diabetes....dont use too much butter at all....eat peas and corn....for breakfast you can eat wheat bread with a little butter before you toast it so you wont have to add any.... uumm for a sweet fix you can also have black tea, very sweet and it also helps to fill you up some....if you have a ps2 you can do dance dance revolution (or xbox or any other game console that ddr can be used on) um....you can swim, ride your bike but dont go to the gym just yet! when you build up too much muscle, all that fat turns to muscle so you wont be small just healthy and kinda big..so i suggest you lose it before you work it with weights n stuff but you can excercise...do crunches after losing a few pound but 20 pounds is a lot to lose and i wish you the best luck....all these practices above have actually been used by me and i reccomend them to the max. wish you luck!!!
Christie
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does being a virgin mean you've never had sex? what about fingering/blowjobs etc does that count, and if youve done one, are u not a virgin anymore? someone please explain.. (link)
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It means you have never had a penis inside your vagina, all that kinky stuff doesnt count. also tampons, or if you break your hymen horsebackriding, or doing something extreme to break it, that is just technically saying your not a virgin cause your hymen has been broken. BUT generally...when i penis is in there....then you can say your really not a virgin.
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I was watching a movie today and it was kind of like the movie Thirteen, it's pretty much the same story just the movie I watched was based a true person - it was one of those lifetime original movies, Augusta Gone or something like that. Well I would never smoke because personally, I think it's a disgusting habit. But one of the girls on the show said that smoking (ciggarettes) helps quicken your metabolism. I was just curious as to whether or not that was true. And if you say that it is true, what's your proof? If it isn't true, how do you know for sure?
I promise this will in no way impact whether or not I smoke, I think smoking is gross, but I was just kind of curious when I heard that. I guess I could probably look it up myself, but my internet connection hasn't been very good and I've been getting really frustrated waiting for pages to load so I just assume this would be quicker on my part.
Thanks in advance for the answers.
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ye i have watched that movie, so umm.. i think it can make you skinnier because you lose appetite also. i think it could quicken your metabolism i think it varies frome person to person. because my mom smokes she is skinny and eats very little. though if she eats just one helping of dinner she is "stuffed" but my cousin is overweight but smokes **only about two cigarettes a month** and so then it varies from how much you smoke, how long you did it, and how your body works.
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i have very, very bad sunburn down my back, my arms and half od my torso, and some of my face it gives off a constant burn and is killing me, my gf is probally coming over today and we are very physical and i deathly want to be physical with her but im afraid my sunburn will end up hurting alot(which i can take if it means even a min. with her but i'd rather avoid). so if anyone has a quick remedy, or somthing to reduce its redness and the pain, plz for the love of god tell me. (link)
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tyr aloe vera, helps a lot. you can try the stuff in the bottle, but the plant is great too. just cut off the leave from the plant and smoothe it onto your skin, it may smell bad, like a "plant" bad, like medicine a little with a plant smell,..but it helps a lot, the burning..itching and redness
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If you have sex while on your period can you still get pregnant? and if so what is the likely hood? Or if you use a condom? (link)
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Yes, you can get pregnant, you can get pregnant ANYTIME there is no SAFE time. Actually, when your on your period, you are at your most FERTILE. oh and i am just adding this is because people say the chances are low, but it varies, they can be high, low or normal like if you werent on you period so... i know this because i asked three different doctors, because i had that very same question.
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my best friend has bein with her boyfriend for 5 months rite they have had sex about 17 times...
He doesnt believe in using a condom,and they havent once. 4 times shes put me under pressure saying shes pregnet and i have bein with her through it no matter what. She lost the baby the last time and the last 3 times was jus a miss hab. But now you see its happeing again she she hasnt come on here periods 4 2 months and can feel movement in her womb what shall i do?? Shes only 14 and her mom will kill her but i think she wants to keep it Please help me!! (link)
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Your friend did not listen to you, though hormones can get in the way of real advice from a friend. She may be pregnant, but as what you're telling me, she seems too paranoid about being pregnant, so she MAY THINK she feels something in her womb. rethink this, if you do tell her mom ..what do you think will happen? If you don't...what do you think would happen? I think the worst consequences are if you dont tell her mom, but you should tell your friend to FIRST get a pregnancy test, to make sure that she IS pregnant, you should warn your friend to tell her mom if she is, but if she doesnt tell her mom you have to take action, your friend may be mad at you, but think about the consequences if no one tells her. THEY WILL BE WORSE. Please do what you think the consequences will turn out best.
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i broke up with my boyfriend of like more than a year and he got really upset. i told him that it wasnt his fault i just didnt think we had the chemistry. so was it wrong to break up with him weither he still loved you so so much? ill rate plz answer ♥ (link)
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No it was wrong at all, he hasnt realized that you two arent right for each other yet. it's just that he got a little attached because you two have been together for a long time. don't worry at all.
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