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my mom and i have a very special relationship. so, i can't just NOT tell her things. But, I'm tired of her having to say something bad about everybody. She can't stand my boyfriend and he really likes her and her reasons are really silly, like she doesn't like the way his father drives or something. What should I do?
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Right when i saw this first thing came to my mind is that, since you and your mom have such a strong relationship, she may not want to come to the idea that you are growing up and more and different people are coming into your lives, she might like him too, but she only finds silly things probably because she only wants you for herself and doesnt want to share you with other people yet and she doesnt want you to go on to other people too soon... hope i helped xoxoxo :)
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Well if you and your mother have a very special relationship and can talk to eachother about things, let her know that what she's saying about your boyfriend's hurting your feelings, and if she could please keep those kinds of bad comments to herself.
Ask her why she can't stand your boyfriend exactly, on a more serious level. Ask her to give you one good, serious, reason as to why she doesn't like him, and let her know he likes her and has no problem with her at all.
If you two have the special relationship you say you do, then I'm sure she'll understand and respect your wishes and stop saying something bad about everybody.
I hope I helped.
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