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ok so i have this boyfriend, he's a little older than me and we're in this long distance relationship (same state though) so most of the things that happen are over the phone. my problem is, i can't seem to get myself to be comfortable sexually with him. i mean, we're both sexual people but he is way more experienced than me. He keeps wanting to have phone sex but i just can't with him. it's not like i havent been able to do it with other guys either. but it's just weird that now that we're in love with eachother and been together more than a year i can't do it. What should I do about this? i was thinking maybe it's because i have resentment towards him over thing's we've been through(although he's never tried to hurt me in any way) but i don't know what to do anymore. and he's getting impatient (not to say he's gonna leave. he's just dissapointed, especially since I've done it with other random guys). and it's not that im not attracted to him either, he's gorgeous. someone help, im lost on what to do anymore.
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I think you might be, afraid of what might happen after, like if things will be the same, or if he will want to do it everytime. i think you should tell him that ur scared if him or you will feel different about each other after "phone sex" . hope i helped xoxoxo :)
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