the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :(
Um.... personally YEA RIGHT!! i think you are crazy if you give it up to him. He prolly just wants sex in the relationship then anyways. and not just that but you shouldnt give it up to a guy your not even with (especially when its your first time). If he goes out with you and you are together for a good time then maybe but dont blow it on 'just some guy' that you like now. I really dont think that its worth it. ;)If you wanna talk im here anytime!
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ok i just got my hair layered! looks better, now my hair is highlighted but fomr last jan. and i dont hav the money for more its 70 bucks for more!! to much! lol ne1 hav ne tips for makin my hair look better? cuz its dark brown at the top then light brown with blonde highlights... i need help asap!!
You could just go ahead and die all your hair one color that you really liked at home...:)
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i think i look really ugly when i smile..but everyone says that smiling makes u look prettier but i dont think i do. all my friends get mad at me when i dont smile but i dont know what to do! HELP!
Its prolly just in your head that you look ugly when you smile! Go ahead and be happy and smile!
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Alright guys.. I dont want you to think i'm some kind of hoe.. or pervert.. But.. here goes.. I'm starting to have feelings for this kid... I won't mention a name.. But.. hes 15 I think. He's a friend of my sisters. I know he likes me... and I'm 17.. I dont know what to do! someone! Please help me!!
Well, i know a few ppl that go out with people who are younger, and its not nessisarly how old they are that should matter its how they act. i mean if you really like him and all then i dont really see the problem, and also if you think about it most ppl end up being 4 to 8 years on average older than one another when they get married an stuff. lol But its your choice! Hope i helped ;)
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How do you de-stress?? I have been having the worst stressful days and I have been having horrible headaches as a result. I need to destress.
I do the same thing! When i get really stressed i get the worst headaches! It suxx i kno. But whenever i want to de-stress one thing that helps me out a lot is talkin to someone about all my problems an then writing it out or something. and then trying to take a break for awhile on certain things. Taking a LONG shower to just relax is good to an helps you think. I also pray when im really stressed out to since im Christian and that helps me too. If you want to talk about anything thats stressing you out or anything else im always here. :)
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I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.
*female 15*
Well its kinda not a good sign that he said he knows your friend likes you, but he could just be being nice an saying it for you and him. I think you should just go for it an see what happens. Dont live life to where you wonder well what if i would have done this or that! just go for it hun! and whats the worst that could happen? Him push you away and then you two talk about it an work things out? I think you should just try and see. ;) hope i helped
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Ok, I'm 13 and I get really bad depression. I've had it for like over a year now. I forgot what its like to actually have true happiness. And I know most teens go throug this, but mines pretty severe. Like I never want to do anything anymore, I just dont care, I hate life, And most of the time I just feel like dieing. And like ver since I got it, its screwed up my life. I lost all my friends and havent really had any in like a year. It seems easy when people just say "start making new friends" or "find an activity you like doing" or try to be happy or whatever, but its so hard. I don't know what to do about my depression. Please help?
Hey sweety. If you really think that you have depression then i think you should talk to your parents about it. And tell them you think that you should go to the doctor and see what he says. If he sees a problem then he will prolly give you med. to help you out. and a lot of times there is a cause for the depression, like somethin dramatic that has happened, so if there is anything you want to talk about just let me know, im here anytime and i would love to help you out and talk. But it can also just b something that happens, bein a manic depressant runs through my mom and dads sides of the family so i know about it. and sometimes my mom will jus drop and be sad for like ever how you sound. But if you want to talk let me know. and you should deffinetly talk to your parents about some of this and get help. ;) i hope i helped
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Hi well i need ur advice!!! I just wanted to become friends with this guy I just met and when I went to talk to him , he just looked at me and then looked at his friends then looked at me again and started to cuse me ou t like heck , Please help me , it hurts bad!!!
Omg! Wat a jerk! sweeti, dont worry about guys that are like that! they wouldnt be worth it anyways. and if he cant stop and realize what a great person you are then he doesnt deserve you anyways! Guys can be jerks but there not all like that! dont worry about it, its just one guy! there are plenty of fish in the sea! lol if you need anything else or wana talk about it leave me one in my box! hope i helped :)
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ok.. i am overweight and i eat like.. unhealthy foods.. well.. i want to eat salads when i am in school.. but i mean.. since im overweight people might make fun of me for eating a salad.. or anything healthy.. so i just dont eat.. i want to eat something healthy.. but i dont want people to laugh and dont say.. 0h.. just be happy with urself.. bla bla bla.. only if u know what to do.. write back.. ill rate you go0d
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Well really you shouldnt care what all those other ppl think but i kno you do, most of us do! if you want to eat something healthy then yu should go for it! i mean eating soemthing heathly is better than not eatin at all, i mean one eating helps your brain to help you to think better and since your there you need it most! and two when you dont eat your body just stores fat. But i kno how you feel. but why would someone make fun of you? Its food, as far as people know at school thats all you ever eat! healthy foods! they dont know what goes on in your life. And there could b more than one reason for you being overweight, not just eating junk food. so tell all those ppl to shove it up there butt! lol! :) i hope things work out sweeti!
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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(
*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ
Well tell her it scares you and that your worried for her, just talk to her about it and why she does it and all that. a lot of bad things could happen if she continues doing this, there are tons of sites online to help you look more into if you want, but its very serious, and if she doesnt stop when you talk to her, then you may want to tell an adult, or her parents. She should stop before she ends up with very serious concequences or she ends up dead. and it sounds like she is already not doing to well if shes having stomach problems now then she really should go to a doctor. :) hope i help
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Alright, I asked a question here.and most answers came out that i might have an infection. I am soooooooooo scared to ask my mosther if she knows anything about my prob. Can sumone help?
My ratings are as good as the answer
Well if your REALLY scared then you could maybe say that your friend blah blah has the infection and ask her about it that way. But you should really just ask her and tell her that you think you have an infection, and ask about it. you could also mention to her you were nervous about talking to her about it. :)
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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!!
Hahaha! stuff like that i think is so embarassing! i hate when stuff happens like that! But you cant just dismiss him and assume... i guess just give him a shot and see how things go! if he seems like hes not into you for the right things then forget about him! You never know maybe he wanted a reason to talk to you and bumping into you helped it out! lol just see how it goes! hope i helped! :)
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what kind of facial cleansing product do you think a person with minimal zits that wont go away, and oily skin should use to clear it up before school starts? please helpp i give 5's no matter what!!!
Hey, if you go to your doctor and ask him for a pill or something he can help you out with that. thats what i did, an then also he let me use Retna Micro and it was good but i was allergic.. lol... but then aslo using stridex pads works pretty good too i think. Also if your still having zit problems whiel school starts there is a make-up that covers and heals by maybelline its shine free blemish control concealer, and im allergic to it to but it works so good for me that if i need a zit to go away quick and cover up i still use it! hope it helps! :)
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Well I have this really birth mark/mole on my at the top of my left arm, but none of my friends know about. I always cover it up with a bangage or something that sort but the only reason I do is because people used at school used to stare at it and make fun of me about it. So my question is should I keep hiding it or should I just let it be and not care about it?
Well its just a birth mark/ mole thing! its apart of who you are, and im sure its not that big a deal, we all have little things we are insecure about and that we dont like about our selves but hey its human nature, and we all hav little things. so it shouldnt b that big a deal. Dont hide it anymore and see wat happens. :) hope things work out.
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how do i know if i need a bra?
Well if you want to wear one then go for it! But lots of gurls wear bras when they dont need them, its no big! if you wana try a traning bra go for it! an then if you have bigger boobs then you know you need one! When your just starting to grow you ask one of your closest friends, or you could even ask your mom. But do what your comfortable with i guess!! :)
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Hey yall! Peroxide doesn't help make your black arm hair turn blonde I tried it over and over again and it doesn't work...what else do yall think will work, anything around the house? if not what can I go buy, where can I get it, how much does it cost, and in what cities do they have it in??? Plz and thx I appreciate yalls help! And I will rate yall! l8er!
Hey!! You could try bleach but im not to sure that would b good for your skin. but i kno there are a lot of products out there, there would probable be something if you go to an store and look in the hair coloring isle, or maybe in the shaving isle. and if all else fails you could maybe even ask your hair dresser?? :)
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over spring break 2005 my family will be taking a 7-day cruise that will go to 3 or 4 different places in the southern caribean. this will be out 2nd cruise but the last one we went on was 3 or 4 years ago, and the farthest we have traveled is a 4 and a half hour trip, and this plane trip will be a little longer. any advice on stuff to do to keep me busy on the way there?
Hey! Taking long trips suck! But i usually get a lot of thinking done while im traveling. But you could write letters to ppl bak home or sleep! You could buy a portable DVD player and then watch dvds all the way there, and listen to cd's. You could bring a book and some magizines whatever floats your boat ;) you could buy little puzzel books with things to do in them, and then theres also homework or extra credit, if you do that type of stuff! and then theres sleep... and sleep and sleep some more! lol well i hope i helped at least a little!
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