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My name is Christina. I love to help people out&give advice. :]

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is teenfreeway.com just a fake or do they acutally send free stuff? has any one ever had experience with this and would like to share??? thanks

yeah they actually send you free stuff but it's pretty lame. but if you wanna try it out, go ahead. hope i helped :]

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everytime i masturbate [which isn't often], I feel so much shame.

I'm 14 and I just feel like masturbation is wrong - yet I can't help it when I have hormones. What should I do? Should I keep masturbating and keep it a secret from my mom, or just stop because I feel ashamed?

it's not really normal to share that you masturbate with your mom. if you feel ashamed, don't worry about it! masturbation is a normal thing and tonsss of people do it. it's healthy and it's nothing bad. hope i helped! :]

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how do you views someones photobucket? like there pictures and stuff

You could try searching for them. But if you can't get to it then maybe there photobucket account isn't public. Hope i helped:]

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hey guys....
okay so i did the thing with my boyfriend on sunday...with no protection....we're both fine and everything and he pulled out before anything came out but ive been reading things on the "pre" stuff if you know what that is and it is possible that you could get pregnant that way...i read that nothing really happens till after the first 5 days and today, wednesday, the third day, i feel fine i dont think anything happened....do you think i should take a pregnancy test just incase?

you may have a high risk of being pregant since he didn't use protection. even if he pulled out before he climaxed, there's still stuff called pre-ejaculation that comes outtt before that. you should definately try a pregnancy test, or better yet go to the doctors to get checked out. hope i helped! :]

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I am going on vacation for a week and my neighbor has offered to water my garden and vegetables while we are gone. She is an older lady, not elderly but older. She lives next door, but we have a lot of land so it will be a hassle for her to come over and get out the hose, then roll it up again...but she offered and I need the help so I accepted.

My question is, I want to do something nice for her in return but I don't know what. I was thinking maybe a gift card to a grocery store or Wal Mart, but how much $$ is appropriate? Thanks for your advice!

A gift card is a good idea. I think for a week maybe between $30-$50 would be good. You could also try picking her up something while you're on your vacation. Or maybe a giftbasket/fruitbasket type of thing, or a dessert. A thankyou card would probably make her feel happyy too! I hope i helped! :]

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My bf is such a hypocrite. Well for starters he is about 30 pounds overweight. I am about average; and he keeps telling me I need to lose 20 pounds although he never thinks he has a weight problem. He also gets upset if he thinks I'm too friendly with the opposite sex; but he flirts outragiously right in front of me. He also has said the he thinks he's smarter then me even though I know a lot more things like about movie and television trivia and mental health and other topics than he knows. He thinks he's king sh_t. It is really beginning to tick me off. He also copies ideas of mine and passes them off as his own and he never gives me any credit for them. Should I confront him? He really needs a reality check before his head swells up any more.

Yes, definately confront him about this. If he still continues to act like this, you definately should get rid of him. You deserve better and you don't deserve to be treated liek crap. It might be hard but you may be better off without someone putting you down&being such a hypocrite. I hope i helped!

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Last night my step-dad beat me. He's done it before, but last night was the worst it has ever been. I called the police and they came to examine me, but they didn't find any marks. But TODAY my face is REALLY swollen and bruised up. What should I do to make him get in the trouble that he deserves? I can't call CPS because I've already had three cases with all of them with the same problem, but they have all been dropped. I'm tired of being hit and I want him in jail.

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. That's rediculous that they keep dropping the cases. Get help.. immediately. You don't deserve this.

http://www.childhelpusa.org/get_help

National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD.

I Hope I helped. & Again You definately shouldn't be going through this. Stay strong hun!

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okayy this guy i know wants to have sex with me. i don't care if we do or not ... but i'm just scared that i would get pregnant. like REALLY scared ... that's my biggest fear.

i'm a virgin & i don't care who i lose it to ... whether it's my husband or just some hot guy ... i'm not in a hurry to lose it but i would definately like to.

this guy is veryy experienced so i'm sure he knows what he's doing with the condom & everything but i don't know ... i think i'd feel safer with a guy i actually loved.

has anyone ever gotten pregnant from a condom breaking when you used it correctly?

personally, i think you should wait until you find someone that you truley care about, even if you don't love them, but it'll probably be a better experience for you. well moving on, if you're thattt worried about getting pregnant, definately go on the pill&use a condom. hope i helped&sorry i got off topic! :]

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okay see theres this band called " straightlight run", i don't know if you people have heard of them or not. you probably have. but i want to listen to them but i can't find a website that has them. any suggestions ? i already checked myspace, and yahoo.. nothing.

i'm pretty sure you mean straylight run.
you could try out
www.purevolume.com/straylightrun
or just try out the sites you've already checked.
hope i helped! :]

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how can i become flexable without taks qymnastics?

Try stretching a lot everyday. That should work, or atleast make you more flexible. I hope I helped! :]

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Are smoothies with strawberries and bananas and milk bad for you? I heard they were, but I dont get how they would be.

Nope. It sounds pretty healthy to me. Unless you loaaad sugar into it, then it's bad for you. If you want to add some sugar, try sweet n low instead. I hope i helped! :]

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Hey does anyone know a good recipe for a good strawberry smoothie? Or any other kind? thanks a bunch!!!

here are some different smoothie recipes;
1)http://tgcmagazine.com/recipes/html/9.shtml
2)http://kids.cdkitchen.com/recipes/recs/1816/Tropical-Strawberry-Smoothie84505.shtml
3)http://chetday.com/smoothierecipemenu.htm

I hope I helped! :]

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ok i burnt my finger with my hair straightener on thursday nite and today its all blistered and bubbly. anything i can do ?

you could try putting a vitamin e ointment, or an aloe cream on the blister. besides that, just leave it alone and let it heal. i hope i helped. :]

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I need more fiber. Any suggestions for meals? I want something that has fiber in every meal [3] I have.

Is there any cereals that have a lot of whole grain and less sugar? I can't really go into the store and take my time to look..

I can't have beans** that last time I did, i threw up [i dont know why] i can't digest them?

So any recipes? Anything good with fruits? :]

Any help is wanted!

i looked this up online;
since you're looking for fruits-
dried fruits are good&high in fiber(apricots, dates, prunes, raisins)
blackberries, blueberries, raspberries, strawbetters, oranges, apples, avacado, kiwi, mangos, pears

http://www.healthcastle.com/high-fiber-foods.shtml

there's a website with some more foods.

I hope I helped! :]

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I was goin to bed downstairs with my parents room being upstairs, when i finally was in bed i heard a scream, so i got up wondering what was wrong then i heard all these sex noises moans and such, i was freaked out, wouldn't you be? so i called my 19 year old sister and she came home to comfort me. I couldn't sleep even after they had stopped, it was stuck in my head.
The next morning i was discusted, but still decided to talk about them about it, all they said was "we are in love you should be happy that we are still together in so in love" i go "i'm not...it's discusting to me!" they just said "you should get over it" now i can't get the noises out of my mind and i keep picturing them doing it i know they are in love but i still think it is really discusting i mean blowjobs, kissing, naked! that is what is stuck...please help me to be relived of that!

wow my friend had this same exact problem. i don't mean to disgust you, but it is normal. i know it's gross& all just to picture your parents. next time it happens you could try putting on loud music. maybe that will help. i hope i helped. :]

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14/f. i really want to buy a tredmill so that i can exercise everyday without leaving the house and while watching TV. but there are some problems.

1) my parents don't want to buy one becuase they are expenisive.

2) and i definitaly don't have the money to pay for one all by myself.

what can i do? i really want one so that i can stay in shape during school. i can't go running outside, so i really need this tredmill. what can i do?!?!

thanks so much for any help that you can give me

i thought of a few things you could do
1)instead of getting a treadmill, you could try joining a gym. if you're worried about staying in shape, going to a gym could work out a lot more places than just what a treadmill does.
2)you could start saving up money to buy a treadmill, or get a job. even though they're extremely expensive, by saving up with your own money, you'll be proud of yourself that you bought it yourself without your parents help. or maybe your parents will reconsider&help you out with buying one.
3)you could look though the newpaper, and maybe find a used treadmill. it could be crappy, but it'll be a lot cheaper than buying a brand new one- and it'd be better than nothing.
I hope I helped! :]

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I really need a better room cleaning strategey. Does anybody have anytips on better ways to clean my room and keep it clean. everything just seems so overwhelming when it gets messy and then I just dont know where to start.
Anything would be helpful.

I have the sammeee exact problem as youu. I recently moved into a new room- and I realized how much junk I actually had that made my room a disaster. Try getting rid of all of the clothes you never or rarely wear, magazines, papers, garbage, etc. You'll realize how much neater it is after you get rid of all the junk. Next try to buy or find an organizer/shelf type of thing. I tried to find a picture but I couldn't find onee. I hope I helped ! :]

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Does anyone have any babysitting tips or websites?
Thanx,
Jaime

You could try;

1)http://www.urbanext.uiuc.edu/babysitting/
2)http://www.sosnet.com/Safety/babysitters.tips.html
3)http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/school_jobs/jobs/babysit.html

A good tip before babysitting is maybe have something planned to do. If you bring a bag full of activities such as coloring books, crayons, stickers, etc.. the kids will loveee it. Make sure you know all of the emergency number& you know where the parents are going. Tryyy not to use the phone a lot, only when you need too. If you're gonna have visitors, make sure you ask the parents first. Well I think those websites might cover the reessst. I hope I helped!! :]

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picture day is coming up. what kind of shirt should i wear. i have light skin dark hair and dark eyes. how should i do my makeup also? thank you for any help.

try to wear a plain colored shirt, don't wear a shirt with a crazy pattern because all attention will be drawn to your clothes, not your face. wear a necklace. wear mascara, some eyeliner (either on the top or the bottom, if you do both it'll be too much) blush, and maybe a little bit of bronzer because of your light complexion. i hope i helped :]

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What's a really good masacara? Something that makes your eye lashes look really think but doesnt clump. Mine clumps so badly and makes my eye lashes stick together and it is almost impossible to wash out (covergirl)

I use Revlon Lash Fantasy. It works really well& it isn't that expensive either.
I hope I helped. :]

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