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Ok so i guess what i wanna know if if i totaly cut out sweet s and really fatty foods and start working out everyday and what not i mean like working out everyday and drinking lots more water n stuff could i lose 30 pounds and whats the most weight i could lose in one summer and when i say working out everyday i mean for like 5 hours or something i dont mean starving myself or anything but eating really helthy (link)
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Well it depnds a lot on how much you weigh already. If your about 160 or more, then yes it would be poissible. but if your more like 130, then i would say that losing 30 pounds 1. isn't heathly, and 2. isn't possible.
Its a very good thing and if your already are pretty skinny then you will find 30 pounds to be pretty hard to lose. But deff. do what your doing. Not only will it make you look better, it'll make you feel better and make you a lot more heathier.
Good luck :)
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ok does anyone know why whenever i try to log in it doesnt let me? like its hard to explain...ok so i type in my email and then my password and then whe i press log in it just reases my password so then i have to type it all over again and it just started to happen today. and its not just my email its all my friends too. does anyone know why its doing this??
try to answear it cuz some of it might not make since but thankyou (link)
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well i'm not too sure, but you could possibly have a virus or w/e and someone could have came in and changed your email address (like on myspace) so now you can't log on. but i'm not too sure. Just a thought
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Well i'm in pre-algebra as a 7th grader. And i'm a B average, but i did wonderfully on my Basic Skills test, do you think i can make it next year in algebra as an 8th grader? (link)
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yeah. i took algerbra last year and i actually loved it. I would willing take algerbra a million times if it was me. So if you ever need help next year, you can ask me :) haha. if i still remember it, i can help
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i'm not "sexually active" i mean i don't have a bf so yeah. but i'm 15/f and should i like shave "donw there" or not?
i mean like during the summer i shave like a bikini line but should i shave like all of it?
and when i do become "sexually active" should i? (link)
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that would be completly up to you. Do w.e you feel comfortable doing. and when you do become secually active, ask your partner what he thinks.
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ok sorry if this is long...
so i'm 14/f and in 8th grade. and back when i was in sixth grade me and this guy jamie really liked each other. but we always pretended we didn't, but we both knew we liked each other. then, half way through sixth grade he moved to hong kong, like actually to live there. we talked online a little bit and we both admitted that we liked each other. then during 3rd quarter that year i started going out with this guy ben. well, school in hk wasn't working out for jamie, so he came back for 4th quarter. but i was still going out with ben then, so jamie stopped flirting with me. but i dumped ben before jamie went back to hong kong, and then we flirted. so anyway, during 7th grade i talked to jamie a little bit and we both play tennis, so he said that over the summer we should play tennis together. well i forgot about it, but over the summer i got a call from him about "taking me up on that tennis match". so we played tennis and then he asked me to go to a movie with him, then he went back to hong kong. so then this year, he came back here for a week for his friend's bar mitzvah. he kind of talked to me a little, but very, very little. i think he liked me over the summer (maybe) but he's coming back this summer and i want to know what i should expect. i am willing to have a long distance relationship with him, but what should i do about it? call him when he's in town? we go to the same country club, so i'll see him at tennis, but i really want to have a relationship with him. what should i do? thanks so much (link)
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WOW. a lot of moving back and forth. Thats really hard. I would say that if he is actually going to stay were you live for a while go ahead and go for it. You both like eachother but the whole moving thing has effected both of your emotions. I would say that he would still like you. Call him when he gets home and be like so i say we have a rematch. Then hopefully you'll be able to play some tennis - which like last time could lead to the movies and etc.
But yeah i would say as long as hes staying and not going back to Hong Kong, go for him. Things maybe a little weird at frist b/c time does change people and feelings. Moving can be pretty hard expecially for someone still kinda youngish
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so my bf and i really like eachtother and he's really sweet. yesterday he actually had the guts to say to my face that he didn't know how to make out.etc. and i really want to with him..its just he is very shy. idon't know how to get him out of his shell and just make out with me already..he said he wanted to..and i told him theres nothing to worry about..but do you have any idea's how to make him not shy? (link)
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just kiss him :) thats my only advie for that
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me and my best guy friend used to be friends with benefits for about half a year. we both promised each other that we wouldn't say anything. ok so i couldnt take it anymore and i told my most trustworthy friend that we felt each other up which was only a tiny bit of what we did. she swore she wouldnt tell anyone. well about 2 months later, drama started and my "friend" decided to tell people that me and my guy friend made out. i did not tell her that. ok so anyway now this guy wont talk to me after i apologized everyday for two weeks because people were coming up to him asking him about the things we did. now its about two weeks later. i thought me and the guy were good and going to start being friends again. at a dance we danced together and we were joking around. now today i talked to him and he said he doesn't want to be friends and that he thinks we can never be friends again because he thinks i told everyone for some sort of social status. he knows im not that type of girl. how am i supposed to get his trust back because i really care about him and he was a good friend to me. i can't apologize anymore because its obviously not doing anything for him. i can't convince him that i didn't say all of what the rumors said. i want a fresh start and he wants to forget i exist, what am i supposed to do? (link)
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Well that deff. stinks. and i hate to say it but of course trust can be broken pretty fast, and its mostly kinda hard to get it back. But does he have myspace or do you guys email or soemthing? write him a nice not too long message saying pretty much what ur question is saying. You didn't tell everyone, and that you do care about him. Just try talking to him settleing things. but don't be too pushy for now. maybe give him a little time for things to settle a little more, and try again?
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See me and and a friend lets say 'Mandy' have been friends since kindergarden. I've always thought of her like a sister but lately its more like a twin. When I told her I was going to get an Ipod she went out and got an MP3 player. When I got my ears pierced, she did. I have straight hair she has curls, for her b-day she got hair straightener! She's been using my words, my style, my life; and I'm sick of it. She's been using me, now I want to lose her. But how? (link)
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well if you want to just plain lose her..then tell her what you think. don't be afraid to be rude
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i like this guy & he's only in one of my classes. yesterday, i was doing small talk with him. & today HE talked to me! and i was like omgg. and i REALLY really like him.
well, gosh, i flirt so much! i make eye contact and smile at him and he always says like sorry to me and i think it's adohhrablee (link)
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umm...that really isn't a "step" goodness honey just ask him if he as aol, and then get his name :) its not that bad, i swear :)
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When I did Cross Country, I met this kid. He helped me throught a lot. We were somewhat friends, and we somewhat talked. It was like, a hi in the hall way, sometimes talking. You know, that deal.
He committed suicide the other day.
I hardly knew him, not well anyways. I went to his wake and it was so sad. All of his best friends, whom were my close friends too, were there, and crying. I started to cry pretty bad, becausei couldn't even imagine what theyw ere going through. I don't know what tothink, what to say.
He was such a nice guy.
I don't know how to cope with it, and I feel stupid because I wasn't even close with him. (link)
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well its always pretty sad when someone dies rather you know them or not.
I mean think about the Virginia Tech story, and how horrible that is. Sure you may or may not know anyone but its still really terrible and pretty sad.
But how to cope...don't forget about him but just try to move on. I know its hard at frist but since you said he helped you through a lot of stuff just always remember him and try to just move on without him. Its really hard and a death is always pretty hard to get over and it just takes time. Thats pretty much the one thing.
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sorry i know this was in the wrong category..
but whats on 4.20.? details please. thanks. (link)
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national drug day
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need someone to talk about my problems with in a conversation.
they are mostly friendship ones.
is there anyplace i can find people to talk to who will kind of give me a total other point of view?
since they are not my friend?
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i would totaly be willing to help you, you can either just send me the question or w/e or just talk to me on bree21221 (aim) i'm on everynight and would love to help you :)
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Please!!!!! help. I am a 13 year old girl. I am pretty small (5 ft, 87 pounds). I want to know if I am getting my period period. I have had pubic and armpit hair for like a couple years and I have had discharge for probably a year. OKAY HERE IS THE STORY! On Sunday, I noticed some blood when I was going to the bathroom, I decided I would worry about it if it happened again, then when I went to the bathroom yesterday there was a little bit of blood, and that happened again today. It is not that much blood though so I am not sure if it is my period or not, or is it a sign my period is coming? PLEASE HELP OR IF YOU DO NOT KNOW JUST TELL ME YOUR IDEAS! PLEASE, THANKS! (link)
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yep you pretty much got it/have it
welcome to womenhook ;) haha lovly cramps and bloating what a blast :) haha but hey its being a girl, so enjoy
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I have a strapless dress for prom this year. Should I buy like, a little shrug or jacket to go with it to cover myself up while I'm at dinner and whatnot? I'm not used to/too comfortable showing that much skin.
Thanks=) (link)
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well if your not too comfortable with showing much skin, then find a cut like jacket or even like the sharf thingings to go over your dress.
And i'm sure you'll look beautiful :)
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im white, not ghostly white but white. ive been going tanning for like 2 months now and ive gotten a little tanner. im going to chicago at the end of may for a wedding and for some reason i want to be a lot tanner by then lol. i know tanning is bad already, but is going tanning every other day really bad? i just really want to get tan and going every couple of days isnt enough. and everytime i take a shower i get whiter, its dumb. (link)
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Well yes tanning really isn't that great so maybe look into a spray on tan? or also sunless tanning lotion. You won't have to do this months in advance. You can just put it on that night and you'll be tanning that morning. However it does wash off. But if i were thats what i would do, either spary on tan or sunless tannning loation
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the past 2 days i have been feeling really crappy. and all my friends noticed it. like sometimes im really happy but im cranky. like im happy but not at the same time. im normally a boy freak. im always thinking someone is cute and always liking one. but lately i took a break and now im comfortable with who i am. but i dont know somethings missing. like a part of me was liking someone and now i dont. and i jsut cant find someone to like. and i have no idea what to do. how do i make it so i dont feel crappy becuase of this? (link)
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well its good that you feel comfortable with who you are. & since you are comfortable i wouldn't TRY to make too big of a change. But find something that you are happy with or that makes you happing do it and do that when you do feel really down. & also since your friends do see this talk to them about it, see what they think you've changed. You may not think that your friends would really understand or what not, but you'd be surprised :)
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How can you tell if you are in love with someone?
Thanks!
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you'll just know ;)
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how can i relax whenim with a guy like i mean hooking up...i hve avoid every relationship becuase i dont know ow to make out !!! even kiss!!! (link)
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well you know what they say practice makes perfect :)
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I really hate my life but my friends hold me back not my family because well my family sucks. My friends love me more then my family. I haven't cut because im not some worthless piece of crap.But i have had millions of thoughts about death or killing myself. Im wondering will they even care if im gone? My parents barely reconize me now so whats the point? I told my love one these suicidal thoughts and he yelled at me making me more depressed. I cried for 4 hours straight and I even told him. He likes me alot and he said he would jump infront of a bullet for me. I was recently in the hospital my best friend since 2nd grade (14/f now) died in my arms im now emotionally unstable. Anywho my love one yelled at me and said he needs a week off. Its been more then a week and i sent 2 apology letters he has yet to right me back. I haven't smiled ever since the accident which was April 2nd 2007. I have no emotions but sadness. My sister is majo worried about me and i can't handle it. What should i do to help myself smile? And how will i get my love one to talk to me!? Thank you. (link)
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"I haven't cut because im not some worthless piece of crap"
I think that was really rude to say. Expecially since you never have. I've only ever cut twice, but i can't help it. Angry goes through my body and i can't help what i do. Do you really think people cut b/c they want to??
Yeah, i think that was really rude of you to say. People can't control it
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okay, I just read this article on anorexia, and now I'm worried I'm going anorexic!! I'm 5"9 and a half and 152 pounds, and I used to eat a lot but lately I've been cutting back so I can lose weight (I walk an hour every day).
I've cut my portions back by about half and instead of eating A LOT of high calorie stuff as snacks/etc i eat healthy low calorie stuff..but now I'm really anal about what i put into my body and etc..and sometimes I'll feel really dizzy inbetween 8 am and 11 am because i eat at 6am and dont have lunch till 11.
I don't even LOOK anorexic, so its not like I'm getting harrassed for it or anything..I'm just worried Im in danger of becoming one because i HATE way-too-skinny people, IMO they look sick and diseased, and I would hate to become anorexic, because in most cases that's losing control (i heard it can be genetic too) and i hate to lose control =P
i only want to lose weight till my BMI hits 19-20 (atm it's 22.4 according to some website), which would be when I'm 135-140 pounds.
so..am i in danger of becoming anorexic? (link)
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No, i'd say your not anorexic, i mean i guess it could turn into that but it seems like you wouldn't do that. Being anorexic would mean your eating pretty much nothing. If you look at the heathy portion sizes there really not that big. SO since you may have been eating A LOT of food before, it may seems like your barly eating enough, but i'm sure you are.
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