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i've tried so hard to get his trust back
me and my best guy friend used to be friends with benefits for about half a year. we both promised each other that we wouldn't say anything. ok so i couldnt take it anymore and i told my most trustworthy friend that we felt each other up which was only a tiny bit of what we did. she swore she wouldnt tell anyone. well about 2 months later, drama started and my "friend" decided to tell people that me and my guy friend made out. i did not tell her that. ok so anyway now this guy wont talk to me after i apologized everyday for two weeks because people were coming up to him asking him about the things we did. now its about two weeks later. i thought me and the guy were good and going to start being friends again. at a dance we danced together and we were joking around. now today i talked to him and he said he doesn't want to be friends and that he thinks we can never be friends again because he thinks i told everyone for some sort of social status. he knows im not that type of girl. how am i supposed to get his trust back because i really care about him and he was a good friend to me. i can't apologize anymore because its obviously not doing anything for him. i can't convince him that i didn't say all of what the rumors said. i want a fresh start and he wants to forget i exist, what am i supposed to do?
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You can't get his trust back just by saying you're sorry. You need to earn it back. Don't ask him what you need to do to get it back, just give him space to cool down.
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comfront her in front of him.Not in an attacking way. Just pull her aside not around anyone else with him and say "I want you to say i said these things to our faces" I mean how is she going to lie right in front of you? It really shouldnt be that big of a deal anyway. Its not like you had sex. I would pull him aside too and ask him whats really bothering him.
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Well that deff. stinks. and i hate to say it but of course trust can be broken pretty fast, and its mostly kinda hard to get it back. But does he have myspace or do you guys email or soemthing? write him a nice not too long message saying pretty much what ur question is saying. You didn't tell everyone, and that you do care about him. Just try talking to him settleing things. but don't be too pushy for now. maybe give him a little time for things to settle a little more, and try again?
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