I'm about 5 foot 7 and 13 years old, but i sound a lot older then i am. I'm a brunette with green eyes. I've been wanting to have an advice column forever and i finally made one. I think i give good advice and i hope i can help everyone. I can answer pretty much any question. Esspecially about friendship, love lives, and music (i'm a guitar player) I never give useless answers so feel free to ask anything!
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my boyfriend wont look at me straight when i talk ta him or he will just leave me on hold for a long time when eva im talkn' ta him on tha phone.1 day he asked me was i cheating on him and i told him NO WAY bcuz i would neva eva do a such thing like that but i neva asked him was he cheating on me.cause when i call him he hangs up on me on purpose but when he calls me i do tha same u kno. i kno its wrong but if any1 kno's if thats actually a sign of him cheating, bcuz he makes me cry and wanna hang up on him just pleaze HELP and i will really appreciate if u dont delete this and only gurls will answer this question thanxxxxx
noh hatas
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Just ask him if he's cheating on you. Say that if he was, it would hurt. But lying would hurt even more so ask him to tell the truth. Hope i helped!
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what should i do my friend is mad at me for some reason really upset might lose my best friend :( (link)
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it depends on why she's mad, but i'd talk to her. Try to find out what's wrong, maybe there's a family problem or something that u dont kno about and she's upset.
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ok i recently got a new computer and dsl..i had dialup and now i can leave my AIM on all the time like everyone else does with ther away msg on! well i hav windows xp (idk if that helps) and whenever i put my away msg on and then like leave the computer for even 15 mins i go back on and it lyke signed me off and re signed me on and took my away mssg on...it ALWAYS does this whenever i hav my away mssg on for lyke 15 mins! its really annoying....no 1 nos my pw or nothing...is ther nething i can do? (link)
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It didn't sign u off. When u cum back and it's on the log in menu (where u click ur name with the icon) it didn't sign u off, u just click ur icon again and everything's as u left it. TEll me if this works, hope i helped!
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my friend is doin some stupid stuff, and i want him to stop. he's always takin crazy chances, like jumpin off roofs into pools and stuff. and then the other day he was burnin himself with a lighter. and on more than one occasion he talks about he wishes he had a knife with him so he could slice his wrists. when i ask him why he does this stuff he answers "no one cares about me, so why should i stop?" how do i tell him that everytime he does something, it kills a part of me. i dont wanna seem mushy or anything, but i cant stand to see him doin this crap. please help me im freakin out, im so afraid for him.
ps-and dont tell me to get an adult to talk to him, cuz if i tell on him, he'd neva speak to me again.
thanks
xXxashliexXx (link)
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tell him exactly what u told me. that everytime he does something, it kills a part of you. Say u love him maybe not as a bf but u do and u care for him and you dont want to lose him. And say something like u'd rather die 5 times rather then him be gone forever. Say he's such a big part in ur life and it kills u to see him diong that to himself, thinking no one cares about him when u do more then anything. I kno I'm mushy but i've been in this situation and my way worked, i hope i helped!
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k im a female and my best friend he like went sicho and i dont no whats wrong with him hes bein really weird and all of a sudden he hates all his old friends and is findin a new friend what should i do i dont wanna lose him hes like a brother how do i get him to talk 2 me without cussin me out and he goes 2 church with my boyfriend and i think es gonna tell him lies about me WHAT DO I DO plz try 2 help (link)
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I have a feeling he's jealous of ur bf for 1. Tell him that u dont wanna lose him, but dont tell him he's like a brother. If he likes u or something, he'll hate to hear that u think of him as a brother. Dont talk to him on IM until u've worked everything out. I recomend u talk to him either in person or on the phone if u can't meet in person. Just say how much he means to u and that'd u dont kno what u'd do if he wasn't your friend anymore, and u hate that he's finding ppl to replace u. And if he's really a friend, he wont tell ur bf lies, unless he's REALLY jealous or just an awful friend. Just tell him how u feel, and remember, dont pull the "you're like a brother" thing. it's a bad move. Hope i helped!
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like a couple weeks ago i thought a lot of girls were hot and i liked 2 poeple but now i dont and i dont relly think those people r hot either and i look for somebody u no like my friends that i thought was got but i dont now i mean i like girl of coures but i just cant find anybody speacil (link)
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u shouldn't like girls for their looks... but u'll find sumone. The right girl will cum when u least expect it. Just open ur eyes to the girls who aren't hot, or pretty or anything.
Hope i helped!
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well my boyfriend is sweet and everything but he is too sweet , I mean he watches out for me and he said that I was the only one in the world for him , he even promised that he didnt like no other gurls like cheerleaders and movie stars , stuff like that, but I cant stand it any more! he calls to check on me at 4:00am! what do i do ?
I dont want to break his heart but I need some time alone, plz HELP!!!! (link)
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for one, tell him not to call so early. And dont be all yelling at him or anything. Just tell him calmly that sum of the things he's doing are a little... extreme. if he rally loves u, he'll understand. Hope i helped!
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ok i like this guy that all my friends think is a dork and they dont know i have a crush on him. you see i've started going to this school a couple of monthes ago and well i am sorta dignosed with paranoia. I have a real hard time opening up to people cuz my experience at my one other school and when i was there people that i thought were my friends told the whole grade who i liked and when it happened to them they didn't care to much but i did and now i'm afraid of telling my new friends about my crush and what they'll say. PLEASE HELP!
P.S. i'm really shy 2 so that might play into all this but i dont know ;)and i'm a 14 yr old female (link)
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If you can really trust them, tell them. Buti recomend that u only tell ur closest friend and see how she reacts. If she reacts well, i still think u should keep it between u and her but if u trust another friend, u can tell them. But dont tell a lot of ppl. Not everyone is a good secret keeper so dont forget to be wise. GOOD LUCK!
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my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?
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try calmly to tell him to stop again. Then if that doesn't work, tell him if he doesn't stop dissing ur friend, then it's over. Friends are more important then guys.
Hope i helped!
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ok i put this up before but i just wanna know something eles ok well like i probably have add and i didnt tell my mom about it and im talking to a school counsler but i dont know if i should tell my mom should i?
help please
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yea u should. She prolly figured sumthing's wrong. Just tell her so she can help.
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Hey.. This is pretty general. What are some basic signs that a guy likes you? (link)
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If he flirts, smiles at u constantly, and talks to u a lot. This might mean he's just a flirty friend, but most of the signs point to a guy liking u. hope i helped!
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Hey, does anyone know where to get good quotes from? xo thnx (link)
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Yea, and there's poems and stuff here too
http://www.best-love-poems.com/
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Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?
thanks
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UR just like me. I got hurt by a crush last year. I think u should wait a lil and get to kno him more, and when the time is right, make the move. Unless he makes it first. Just wait a little, and when u think the time is right, just move in and ask him out. i think it'll work. Hope i helped!
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ok i no x mas is still not that near but also not that far and i have NO IDEA what 2 get him i mean i no him and all but i dont no what to get him guys r so hard 2 shop 4 a lil help... please (link)
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A favorite of mine is to burn a cd of all of his favorite songs. IF you dont really kno any of his fav songs, a gift card to Best buy or Borders (for music and movies) is always a good choice. But think of an inside joke if u have one and try to get a funny little thing. And as a classic, a pair of boxers is always fun. I recomend Mickey Mouse prints. lol
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ok well imm goin out with this guy and hes really great and nice 2 me and i really like him but i think im fallin 4 my best guy friend and i like both of them and i dont think my guy friend like s me back - is it wrong that i think i like him but im still goin out with my bf what am i supposed 2 do im so confused i havent had 2 many realationships plz try 2 help (link)
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It's not wrong at all to think about ur guy friend, i mean, it's like liking Orlando Bloom, Brad Pitt, etc. Ur always gonna THINK about other guys. But think it over, do u wanna risk ur relationship with ur bf for a guy that might not even like u? And maybe ur guy friend is better being a guy friend, always there to help u with ur troubles and put up with ur girl talk. lol. But if it were me, i'd stay with the bf and see how the connection is between u and ur guy friend. If it seems like there are sparks between u two, i say give up ur bf b/c it seems like u'd be happier with ur guy friend. It might seem harsh to just let ur bf go but if it makes u happy, it's the right choice. hope i helped!!
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okay so my boyfriend is turning 15 january 11th...im turning 15 decemeber 7th...im kinda already just THINKING of things to get him bc ive never had a serious bf lyke him and ive never got a guy a present...im kinda basing it on if he gets me a present then ill get him 1...but i reallie almost KNOW hes geting me one bc he gets me lil presents alot lyke when he went to vegas he got me a little keychain that sed my name...yannoe? just cute stuff like that but ii wanna get him something nice...hes a skater boii n he lykes H.I.M and BAM....ne ideas wat i coudl get him? (link)
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Get him a cool BAM t shirt or something, if he doesn't already have one. Or maybe a new skateboard, or money toawrds a new skateboard. Or make him a cool card or scrap book, those are always nice.
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Mk, I really like this guy named Mike. This past summer he asked me out on a a date twice, but sadly I had to reject him due to some things that had been going on in my life. So far this school year, he wont talk to me, but he will stare at me all time. But he asked some other to homecoming. I cant figure out if he is just trying to make me jelious, or if he has given up on me...I really like him and I want to figure this out! Please help!! (link)
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try asking him out
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i was datin this guy for almost 3 months but i wasnt really happy so i broke up with him! i thout i didnt like him anymore and that when i broke up with him i wouldnt think about it anymore...well i was wrong...WAY wrong! he is all i can think about! day and nite! i thout i didnt like him but now that i dont have him i want him sooooooo bad!!! i want to tell him but i dunno how...i dont want him to get freaked out or not feel the same way or for him to have some other gurl! i havent talked to him in about a week because he has been at his moms house but he comes home friday n i jus wanna talk to him! we have been broken up since monday november 1 and monday november 8 would have been our 3 month anniversary! what do i do?? (link)
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Write him a letter saying how u feel and that u want him back, ask him to write back. But dont be surprised if he doesn't write back right away. He's prolly thinking of WHAT to write. But just say something in the letter like "i made a horrible mistake and if i could go back, i would have never let you go" and add ur own touch. I'm almost sure it will work. Hope i helped!
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ok im 12/f and not very popular but im not a loser and i like this one guy and hes popular and we flirt all the time and talk a lot and but he doesnt really act like he likes me its like all he wants to do is flirt and thats it but i really like him...what should i do to try and send him hints that i like him more like a boyfriend then just someone to flirt with
o yea my friend likes him to but like weve talked about how it would be ok to date this guy if he ever asked either of us out... sorry this is long thanks... (link)
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drop hints AND flirt. it'll work, if he likes u
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ok i'm 15...n i meet this guy the other nite n he was so0o0o awesome i mean...he was so prefect for me n everything..well he looked about 15 (he also told me he was) well i called up my friend Chris n was talking to him about it n he was like dude that boy is n 7th grade his like friends w/ my lil bro! n i was like wtf...omg! yeah it was crazy...so i talked to him last nite n iwas like y didn't you tell me blah blah...then i was like so how old are you really n his only 14..n idk wat to do...cuz his so cool n his so awesome n everything...n his suppose to come to my house on firday to hang out...idk...wat n the world should i do
*plZe don't delete!* (link)
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I have a guy who's a year younger and i'm in the same situation. But i dont think age should matter, as long as he makes u happy right? If sumone teases u for it, they're prolly jealous cuz they're alone. Just take the chance with him and see how it works. Hope i helped!
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