hola! :) well i'm Taylor and i'm 14 ( in the 9th grade )im a pretty understanding person and i get along with just about everyone and i love to make people laugh! nothing is better than smiling and laughing! :) my friends say im really crazy and funny so i guess that means im gud at makin ppl laugh haha! im alwayz willing to help anyone bout anything and im the one my friends alwayz come to with problems so i figured id get an advice column! im also a pretty honest person so i tell it like it is most of the time! i hope i can help all of yall! love yall all and have a splendid day! :)
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Member Since: June 30, 2004
Answers: 60
Last Update: July 20, 2004
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I really need some advise on this thing! OK let me tell you everything. First I've liked this guy since 6th grade. It's pretty embarrassing actually since I still remember stupid stuff like the first thing he's said to me and stuff like that. BUT ANYWAYS I've liked him for a very long time and each year of knowing him we keep becoming closer and closer. I'm almost in 10th grade now (its summmmer) and I still like him! This past year we have become physically closer than ever (NOT SEX OR ANYTHING!!! just cuddling) But the problem is that he has a girlfriend... and he has had one for awhile! But at school he cheats on her so much with every other girl and she knows it... but she always gets mad at me when we're hanging out at my house. I really like his gf too shes extremely nice. But I'm afriad that I'm falling head-over-heals (heheh) for him!!! I like him so much and whenever I'm around him my heart races and I know he likes me too... I mean he's told me before.
I just dn what to do about this situation and I'm really hoping that you could help since you've helped so many other people! PLEASE HELP ME! I have no idea what to do!please!
Thanxs!!
XoXo DANCER (link)
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okay well first make sure that he does like you a lot cause i mean if he cheats on his girlfriend all the time then what is it that wont make him do the same thing to you? ppl just cant change over night.. it takes time.. so make sure that he really does like you enuf to not do that! as for the girlfriend it sounds like if he makes her that mad newayz then they shudnt even be together so itd prob be best for both of them if they split up! i hope everything works out between yall!
-*Tay
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here it goes my friends that are mad at me keep calling me and saying that they gonna make a fool out of me and i noe they will cuz they so friggin mean well do u noe what i should do. (link)
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okay something is seriously wrong with them if they wud do that to you.. obviously they arent such gud friends.. but no matter wut they say juz ignore them! im sure itll be hard but who cares wut they think? if nebody else asks u bout somin they say juz tell them that those ppl dont like u so they are tryin to hurt ya.. so juz keep ur head up and dont sink to their level by trying to get revenge! show them ur better than that and it doesnt matter to you wut they say! stay strong! and even tho they mite be mean to u dont let it get to u! shw oem that no matter what they do ull go on newayz! hope i helped :)
-*Tay
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my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~ (link)
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hmm well if hes really treating you bad then u really shudnt be with him.. but at the same time make sure that ur not trying to control him and maybe its not that he never hangs out with u its juz not as much as u want him too.. like as in that u give him time to be with his friends also cause im sure u wudnt like it if you cudnt be with yours.. but if that isnt the case and he really is just being a jerk then u shud break up with him.. u may love him now but in the end youll see that you shudnt of put up with all that and u can do better!
-*Tay
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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks* (link)
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i personally think that thats too many ppl for someone whos only bout to be 17 soon.. i wud juz slow it down a lil i mean ur gunna be young for a while so its not like u have to be in some rush.. but then again its up to you wut u want to do in ur life so if thats how u want to do it then by all means go ahead im not a judgemental person so i wont hold it against ya
-*Tay
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my best friend and i have a "fling" going and his g/f is getting really mad that we hang out ... hes having issues dumping her ... should we do? (link)
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well tell him that if he really wants to be with you than to try to go ahead and break up with his girlfriend.. try backin off n giving him some space a lil bit so that he can figure it out and how to break up with her
-*Tay
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what do you do when your friends b/f starts following you between different class periods and your best friend gets mad because she thinks me and her b/f are goin out ,,,,what do i do (link)
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just tell her flat out that there isnt nething between yall! if she really is your best friend than shell trust you and know that you wouldnt do that to her! as for the guy just tell him to stop following you cause hes going out with ur best friend and it makes u uncomfortable the way he follows you! hopefully he'll listen!
-*Tay
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this guy wanted me to break up with someone for him.. so i did because i really liked him but when i did he starts pretty much ingoring me.. and doesnt talk about liking me and is in love with this other gurl.. I cant move on that easily because i had been with that guy for 5 months!.. so does anybody have idea on how to move on? thanks so much! (link)
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try going out n' meeting new people! that alwayz helps cuz once u meet someone new u have someone else to concentrate on instead of someone in the past! or you cud juz try gettin to know a diff guy friend better and maybe there cud be somin between yall! or hey you cud juz enjoy being single and living it up! lol thats alwayz fun :)
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i like cocaine i even went as far as 2 sniff sum powdered sugar does ne 1 else do this (link)
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cant say that i do.. i sniffed pixie stix one time.. kinda hurt :-/ lol but ive never sniffed powdered sugar.. my friend did it but then again shes weird.. so maybe ur juz a lil weird too.. haha :) do wuteva ya want tho lol
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i like 2 cum in girls ears is that normal (link)
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hahaha i might just have to say no to that one.. you got a weird fetish.. lol
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umm im a lil scared becuz wen i jerk off i think of guys does that mean im gay (link)
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um it cud mean ur attracted to em and they turn u on.. so yea maybe
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this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused... (link)
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aww it sounds like such a good thing you have him in your life now! who knows why you felt like you needed to be friends with him.. sometimes things just happen for a reason that we dont know.. maybe right now tho u juz have him as a gud friend.. who knows? maybe yall cud be more than friends one day! but just get to know him more and let destiny take its course! :)
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Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
*Kris* (link)
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that guy was wrong.. u need to get over him fast so dont even waste your time worrying bout him.. ne guy wud be better than someone who wud juz use u especially on ur bday so juz forget bout him! cause he doesnt deserve someone like you who cares bout him even when he hurts you!
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well... i hang out with friends like everyday! an there are like 4 guyz who really like me but last nite, my mom forgot to pick me up an it wuz like 11:00 an i heard will, frankie, an steve in steves back yard yellin at the tv. so i went there untill my mom picked me up. an well my didnt ppick me up till like 2 in the mornin, but frankie kept saying he loved me, an that he wanted me to go out with him really bad an everything.. but the 3 other guyz say that too but im just to confused because we went in the hott tub an steve an will started to flirt wit me an frankie kept grabbin me an sayin he loved me an that he wanted me an everything im just really really really confused CAN SOMEONE HELP PLZZ!!! 14/f/ny (link)
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hmm to me is just sounds like frankie wants to get somin from u.. it depends on how well u know all of them.. cause i mean if you barely know em and they are saying they love you then something is def up.. so try thinking bout who youre the closest with and know the most cause they are the most likely to be genuine in what they are saying
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ok if theres someone that i like and i wanna start talking to him..what should i talk to him about?? like what types of things should i ask him & stuff..? (link)
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hey there are a lot of things you could talk about! sometimes it helps just to be random and say the first thing that pops into your head! but if you arent the type to do that then try talkin bout basic stuff like wut he likes to do in his free time and what type of music and movies does he like.. that sorta thing! im sure in no time itll be easy for u to juz carry on a conversation without thinking of wut u have to say next! :)
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My best friend does REALLY bad stuff. she has sex with guys that she barely knows, gets drunk all the time, sneaks out, and even got her innocent friends started in all this gay drama. im not like that tho and i dont want her to be. what do i say to her to let her know shes doing bad things because she wont listen to me. (link)
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i have a friend that is the same way and i handled it by sittin her down and talking to her bout it.. she said she didnt understand and didnt know wut i was talkin bout but i gave her examples of stuff shes done that she shudnt of and she realized that shes been outta control.. shes calmed down a lot more since then and i know shes grateful i said something.. so just try talking to her and lettin her know you care about her and that you dont like what shes doing.. im sure when she has a friend show her that theyre worried then shell realize what shes been doin
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My X and I broke up again for the 2nd time and probably for the final time. But i still really like him but we didnt talk for a while there then he started calling me all the time but he woudl lie to me about where he would b and what gurls he was with to try to make me jealous. And it did at 1st until i got tired of it. I still really like him a lot and i wanna be friends with him but its sooo hard b/c i have such strong feelings for him what should I do? SHould i tell him how i feel? (link)
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to be truthful he just dont seem like such a great guy to me if he wud do all that to you.. i know what you mean by having strong feelings though and trying to be friends cuz im going thru it.. but u juz gotta be strong and try to move on.. i know itll be hard cuz u do feel strongly for him but its best that u prob do cuz im sure u can find someone better for you thatll treat you right!
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i think i am fat.. (i weigh 130 and i'm 5'6"). i have tried to diet by eating healty and i still do but it isn't working. also, i excercise all the time by playing baseball, running, working out, and playing with my neighbors. i keep trying but i just can't lose weight! does anyone have any suggestions? (link)
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you are so not fat.. im 110 and bout 5"6 and ive been told im too skinny so ur at the perfect weight cuz thats what all my friends weigh! so dont even try to lose the weight! plus if u really do work out all that much maybe its muscle and not fat!
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wut r some good exersices that will make u lose weight in ur stomach lol sorry i dont know how to describe it but newayz.. im a gymnast so i mean i condition but that doesnt seem to do alot well it does but i dont do it enuf i mean i already do sit-ups crunches and push-ups every night wut other things could i do?! thanx! (link)
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well i do somin called Pilates.. it mostly concentrates on the stomach area and legs.. it works really well and also try swimming.. that really helps tone up ur whole body!
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ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!! (link)
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that was wrong of your friend to do that but to make it right just tell him flat out it isnt true.. if he doesnt believe you then maybe he isnt such a gud friend after all to not trust u.. but hopefully hell believe you and im sure itll turn out okay!
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i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im shy and really afraid to ask him out.he always stares at me and blows kisses to me can some one help (link)
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aw well i know what your sayin cause im alwayz shy at first with guys.. but try talkin to him and askin if he likes you or not cause you like him.. it takes courage but once u do it u alwayz feel better! and by the way hes acting it sounds like he has a crush on u! i hope things work out between yall! :)
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