I really need some advise on this thing! OK let me tell you everything. First I've liked this guy since 6th grade. It's pretty embarrassing actually since I still remember stupid stuff like the first thing he's said to me and stuff like that. BUT ANYWAYS I've liked him for a very long time and each year of knowing him we keep becoming closer and closer. I'm almost in 10th grade now (its summmmer) and I still like him! This past year we have become physically closer than ever (NOT SEX OR ANYTHING!!! just cuddling) But the problem is that he has a girlfriend... and he has had one for awhile! But at school he cheats on her so much with every other girl and she knows it... but she always gets mad at me when we're hanging out at my house. I really like his gf too shes extremely nice. But I'm afriad that I'm falling head-over-heals (heheh) for him!!! I like him so much and whenever I'm around him my heart races and I know he likes me too... I mean he's told me before.
I just dn what to do about this situation and I'm really hoping that you could help since you've helped so many other people! PLEASE HELP ME! I have no idea what to do!please!
Thanxs!!
XoXo DANCER
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mizz_C answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 9:48 pm: YOu need to remember that he does have a gurlfriend.Let yourself have enough respect for yourself to know that if he really like s you he would break up with hiz gurlfriend. No matter ho close you are getting to him he does styll have a gurlfriend even if she doesnt care if he cjeat s or not. It just respect cause i kno that if he started dating you wouldnt want him tobe with any one else but you. And plus you said you like her as a friend so yu wouldnt wanna hurt her. I say either make him break up wit her or just be friends.
Babyxtx09 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:38 pm: okay well first make sure that he does like you a lot cause i mean if he cheats on his girlfriend all the time then what is it that wont make him do the same thing to you? ppl just cant change over night.. it takes time.. so make sure that he really does like you enuf to not do that! as for the girlfriend it sounds like if he makes her that mad newayz then they shudnt even be together so itd prob be best for both of them if they split up! i hope everything works out between yall!
Strawb3rrybabi3e answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:34 pm: HEY WELL FIRST OF ALL DOES HE LOVE HIS GIRLFRIEND? IF HE DOESNT HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER THAT ARE REAL THEN MAYBE YALL WERE MENT TO BE TOGETHER FRIENDS ALWAYS TURN INTO SOMETHING MORE MAYBE YALL KNOWING EACH OTHER AND BEING SO CLOSE WILL MAKE YALLS RELATIONSHIP MUCH STRONGER WELL I HOPE I HELPED Xo MUCH LOVE oX KATIE SUMNER [ Strawb3rrybabi3e's advice column | Ask Strawb3rrybabi3e A Question ]
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