hey i know this is kinda low but i like this boy but i really dont like his looks i know i shouldnt even care about that but when i see him in person i run or dont look at him i mean he is so sweet and would probly be a great boyfriend to me but i just couldnt really see me going out places with him plus my boyfriend now hates him i mean they almost got into a fight but i mean i talk to him online and everything but in person its a whole different story and i mean i dont know how to deal with this and i mean my friends dont like him they all think hes just a hard ass that is all talk i really need some advice what do you think i should do? .. katie :(
Short_N_Punky answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:44 pm: Ok first off if you really like him then go with your instinct and go with him. Dont bother what your friends or any one thinks. Once you get dating him and get to know his real inner beauty it wont matter anymore. If you were a true friend to him you wouldnt let your friends talk bad about him in the first place. And if they were your true friends and you went out with them they shouldnt care and just be happy for you. He may not have outter beauty but he may have inner beauty. Give it a shot and good luck! hope iv helped and dont be afraid to write back. Good luck on any choice you make and follow your heart.
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Babyxtx09 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:42 pm: thats alwayz a hard one.. cause they can have the best personality in the world but no matter wut ppl say looks do matter atleast a little so dont feel bad cuz it bothers you that he isnt the best looking guy in the world.. but first decide if you like him or ur boyfriend more.. if you like ur b/f that you have rite now more than it doesnt matter bout the other guy cuz u already got a guy of ur own! but if u like the other guy more than maybe u really shud try lookin past the looks.. ppl alwayz are more beautiful once u get to know them! cause thats wut really matters is the personality.. looks may fade but who they are remains the same! and who cares wut ur friends say? if u do care bout him enuf then ull tell ur friends to juz try n be happy for u that u found a guy u like and cares bout u! good luck!
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