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well, i always flat iron my hair. it takes foreverrr..but anyway, i live in GA ..so its really hot and humid here, during the summer monthes especially. soo my hair always frizzes up and gets kinda wavy. any suggestions on how to keep it stick straight all day long..thanks=D!
Maybe use a light hairspray? I know my hair waves too, but usually it looks nice. Like sexy wavey-ish. I'm not sure what else I can tell you. =o/
My sister and i sing. And we sing well. Sometimes friends and family will ask us to sing but if we are not together, we feel uncomfortable doing it alone. Alot of the times we need a few drinks to loosen us up. How do you get over the fear of singing in front of large groups and also how to do it without someone?
Well stage fright isn't as bad as it looks. I know that when I act, I always feel better if someone else is there. I practice in front of a mirror.
But I know that the people out there listening to you sing are SUPPORTING you, always remember that.
You just have to do it more often and you won't be as nervous. Good luck!
ok theres this guy i've liked for a while and he knows that. well he always wants to hang out and be friends with benifits. well i told him that i actually want to have a relationship with him. he told me he doesnt want to rush into getting a gf bcuz he just broke up with his old one. but they broke up like 5 months ago. so he said lets hang out more. is this guy just using me? is he scared to have a relationship with me? i'm clueless.....please help me
Whatever you do, don't do the 'friends with benefits'. It's alot tougher. Plus that makes me think he just wants some from someone.
Hang out with him, sure, but stick with what you said before, that you wanted a relationship. Don't let him sway you into what you don't want.
My friend cheated on an assignment of mine... we are the best of friends and I don't want her mad at me but it hurts that i spent all that time on it and she didn't but she still has a good grade.
Hm...I did this with all my friends, except we split up the work. Like 'I do front, you do back.' 'Deal.' I still learn from it because I go back through the answers anyways, but ___she'll regret it when she doesn't really know the material.___
I seriously think I might have a problem. I'm goign otu witht his boy and I totally love him. I know I do. The only problem is, once guys start likign me alot and really falling for me I start ebcomign a total bitch. I'll say things on purpose to piss them off or to get them upset. I can't understand why. This isnt the only relation ive been in. Ive been in one for about a year before too and i did the same thing. I'm 18 too. any ideas why this is happening? its kidna like i cant stop either. im starting to think im evil or sumthing.
Well just STOP it.
What are psi's?
Psi/Qi/Ki...energy, basically.
tHis iS fOr tHe gUyS oUt tHeRe....iS iT oK fOr a GirL tO aSk a gUy oUt?
Of course. What's with the double standard?!
In the election coming up, I'm just curious to see who people want to win, and why. I know it's not something I need advice on, but I have to do a current event for World History. Personally, I'm going for Bush and I have several good reasons why.. I was just wondering about everyone else?
I hate Bush. He's a dirty, evil man.
I can't vote. I do care, but I don't like any of these political assholes.
i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled!
Well don't ask for a number if you don't intend to call...also it would help if you got his name.
I say you forget it.
is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys??
Of course.
ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!?
No, your breasts do not get deformed if you sleep without a bra, I recommend sleeping WITHOUT one because it just lets them be free for a night :)
But anyways, none of that junk will make them bigger. REMEMBER, our boobs keep growing into our 20s!
I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong????
Well...the gap is pretty big right now. Your emotional (maybe physical?) maturity might not be equal, or even close! So be very careful and EVALUATE how you feel first, why you feel that way, etc.
You shouldn't have sex, you will regret it.
It's not wrong, but your relationship may be harder as a result because I'm assuming friends/family might have a problem with it.
Good luck!
Sharpie marker- her favorite color black
Placing it on her wrist
She drew a dotted line
And a heart for good measure
The empty heart that stained her skin
Looked vacant next to the scattered stripe
She didn’t have a knife..
So the razor blade would suffice
And on the dotted line she sliced
A good way to express yourself, I guess. Although I don't encourage cutting or anything...try to write about happier things, it will make you feel better...use your talent to your benefit.
well im 13 and i weigh between 110-115 and my legs are big and its all fat and my family said i have a beautiful figure and i like it and all but it to much fat for me i used to wear ones and now i wear 7 and i wanna try trimspa but im not sure if i should are not i need help and i tried exersize and it doesnt work!! help me plz
o yeah and i have had ppl tell me i wasnt skinny but i like my curves i just dont like being so big
Well you don't need TrimSpa, it doesn't really work anyways. Exercise DOES work, you just need to do it over a long period of time. Maybe sign up for a sport like soccer or basketball or something.
Also exercise won't do ANYTHING unless you watch what you eat, too. You won't see instant results, you have to take time on this.
ok , im 14 yrs. old and i have NEVER had a boyfriend in my life . i have never even kisses a guy before . is that strange ? i know alll my friends have had many b/f's . but i havent . i lie to them telling them i have . i cant say i havent cuz then they would talk shit about me . can anyone please answer my question!!??
Well your 'friends' really aren't friends if they'd talk about you behind your back just because you haven't had a boyfriend. Tell them about it, then ditch the ones that are stupid about it.
Don't worry, there's someone for everyone! (:
ok , can you die from drinking soda a lot of times!!!??? omg im so scared . please help me!!
No you cannot die. The most that would happen is maybe your teeth would rot. :P
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You're probably getting a caffeine high from it or something...try eating an apple, I hear it wakes you up better than a cup of coffee in the morning.
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Diet soda is bad for you. It contains aspartame, a sugar substitute. You might as well have the sugar, the substitute is WORSE than sugar. Research it on the net.
this isnt really an injury but when i walk my feet crack. you cant hear it with sneakers or slippers on but when i wear flip flops or just socks u can hear it. is there something wrong and how do i make it stop cracking?
Probably an early sign of arthritis or something in your feet...even if it hurts or not, you should see a foot doctor (not just a doctor, doctor) but a doctor who specializes in feet.
You'll be amazed at how screwed up your feet can get...like mine...haha.
how you you tell if your spoce was cheeting
im 31 male
Well if your 'spoce' was 'cheeting' I suggest you first go back to grade school and learn how to spell.
If you suspect they're cheating, just dig around for stuff like numbers in their dresser drawers.
im addicted to soda . is this bad
Yes. You will die from it. (sarcasm)
ok im a girland today i just found out that my really close cousin thats a guy is bi and i found out today and now i dont kno how to act around him...i mean i feel weird knowin that hes bi and yea...so wut should i do? how do i react to this?
When I found out my uncle was gay, I was like 'whoa'. I honestly had no clue. He acted no different, except maybe for scoping out guys.
Just act like you normally would, or how you would around friends. If you see him checking out a girl, maybe say 'so you like her eh?' or if he checks out a guy, maybe say...'that guy has a nice butt' or something to help your uneasiness.