Okay I'm seeing a girl but the thing is that she's still in school and that her parents don't allow dating,, her brother hates me for some reason but we are really crazy about each other... I have no idea how to handle it,, she wants to put an end to this thing we have but I can't do it,, I have strong feelings when I'm with her and I don't know what to do or what to say to keep her here with me :'( I don't want to loose her,, she's my life... HELP PLZ!!!
You should ask her why does she want to break up? If it's because of her family then you should tell her that you want to just have a nice dinner with all of them. You deserve a chance with the one you love no matter what's the cost. Talk to her family tell them your not out to hurt her. Show them your good caring sweet side that made her say yes to dating you.
Sometimes love is a price & if she still wants to break up for other reasons then sometimes you can't stop a girl from changing her mind.
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This guy that I've been working at a restaurant with has FINALLY asked me out after months of flirting and a couple weeks of texting. We've both been dying to see Batman, so that's what we're going to do. Hes almost 20, as I'm still a senior in High school. He's the cool, laid back partier. He went to a large High school and from what I hear was very popular. I have partied before and am somewhat considered popular or well known in my small high school and the only negative thing about me is that im very self concious about my weight (im 5'7 and plus sized, but I'm deff not a whale) so anyways I am SUPER nervous about how this date will go! Can anyone give me their experience on a first date, or a movie date? This sounds so middle school-ish but what if he tries to kiss me? Haha thanks guys
I was very excited for my firs date. We did movies and it was dark and we were in our own world in an aisle alone. Movie was good but at time we wouldn't watch and we would just talk. Then i started watching the movie again and he asked if i wanted the rest of my nachos i said no and gave it to him i looked at him & just when i was going to look away he said don't, he put his hands on my face & kissed me. I was so shocked honestly, but also blown away. I was shocked because i didn't think we were going to kiss at that night but it was so romantic and simple too.
Basically if he tries to kiss you then just kiss back. Don't be scared & pull away it'll take the romance away. Trust me go with the flow. You guys are finally going out make this a great date. Wear something nice but not to over the top. If you want you can e-mail me & send me pictures of ideas you have and i can help you choose something for this perfect date. :)
P.S. i seen dark Knight it was awesome.
GoodLuck :)
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So I want a total redo of my wardrobe! I have $100 and then $50 for aero. Im looking for great deals on like camis, tight skinnys, tanks, LOTS of layers, and cute fall-winter type clothings. Since where I live its not hot till summer I am used to wearing more long sleeves than short. I like good deals and cute patters like the type of flowers that put on shirts at aero and I like plain stuff too. Something simple I can use for anything. So any good cheap sorta frilly, hippie type laid back websites? Or stores. Thanks!
You can try polyvore its this clothing store that i try it's really good :)
http://www.polyvore.com/
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When my ex and me met there was an amazing instant connection, he was everything Id ever wanted, completely perfect and we knew we were eachothers soulmates...I would have died for him. (Im 18 years to clarify) He took me out for meals, we had fun, spent everyday with eachother and for 7 amazing months were inseperable.
But 7 months in he got scared, I came back from a trip skiing and everything was re-ignited, he realised he loved me a lot and freaked out about me going to uni after my gap year (he was cheated on by his past 4 girlfriends) and said he wanted to get engaged after uni, but couldnt stand losing me to another guy there. I was devastated.
After he dumped me he slept with someone else (his choice, he was single), and came crying to me, saying he'd made a massive mistake and wanted what we had, he'd been an idiot.
I took him back, but it's not the same :/
He likes to keep his private life (me) and his social life (his friends) seperate.
He won't say he loves me because he's too scared of what it will mean.
We don't go out for meals anymore, its like Im a secret?
He always seems tired and never excited to see me...I only see him once a week for a few hours and I KNOW he has more time, he always used to make it for me.
I know he's being exclusive, but we're just stuck seeing eachother with him not acting like he really cares :( He says Im over emotional, and I do get upset about everything sometimes, but he used to cuddle me and tell me it'd be alright, and now he just gets angry :( He doesn't act romantic anymore and seems kind of bored with me :(
I'd still do anything for him, as I remember the guy he can be...I just don't understand what I should do? :(
Advice appreciated xx
This sounds like the same situation my friend had. Her bf (now ex didn't work out for diff reasons) was to scared to let anyone see her or even do things with her in public and he ran away because he been cheated on so many times.
He's soo scared of losing you that he think he's protecting himself from the hurt of losing you, but he don't realize that doing this makes him push you away further.
You have to give him some time, but not too much time because then he will get comfortable. You should talk to him and let him know that your his. You took him back for a reason because you love him no one else. Guys who been hurt so many times needs a little reassurance.
You should do something romantic for him tonight and show him that your his. That your not going anywhere. & slowly he will become this romantic love bird with you again. He's just scared of getting his heart hurt again. & He's pushing you away while protecting himself.
You have to remember guys aren't like us girls. When we see someone we like we get attached quick guys can just hit & run so when they get their heart break that means he really truly cared. & He's afraid of truly caring for the wrong one again for a 5th time.
Show him that he's giving his heart to a good protector and your not going to destroy it.
Goodluck :)
Hope i helped
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Ok so I have this friend and I feel like we both kind of "find an excuse" to touch each other. Like if we're sitting in the car then we'll fall asleep (even if we're not tired) just because we want to lean on the other person. Or reach over to grab something just to touch the other. Ya know little stuff like that. But I'll give you a list of things that have happened:
1. We lay on each other during movies and put our legs on each other
2. One time we were in my pool and she untied my bathing suit and hers and said she wouldn't give it back until I got out of the water and jumped in with her and also later took her bottoms off
3. We were in my pool again and kept wrestling under water and she kept wrapping her legs around me
4. (I have a big butt) and she asked if she could grab it and I let her
5. We are always wrestling and getting on top of each other
6. She wanted me to tell her something and twisted my arm back and was like right behind me and we stayed there for a while
7. We grabbed onto each other during a scary movie and kept holding each other even after the part was over
8. We were watching a movie and her legs were wrapped around mine and she asked what would you do of this was a guy, like that would be awkward and I was like yea!
9. She lured me into one of our guest rooms in the basement that is kind of scary and weird things happen down there. But all of a sudden she acted scared and grabbed onto me and we were laying on the bed and just holding each other really close and all you could hear was us breathing (and we were in the dark) and then finally we got up and she was still acting like she was scared and was grabbed onto me and her body was really close to mine and then I got to the door and turned on the lights
10. She's always acting horny around me like randomly humping poles and walls
11. She had a remote control and got on top of me and was acting like she was raping me (using the remote control as her... Penis)
So yea also answer (based on what I just gave you) if you think that she'll be up for a kiss like if she'll do it. And also how do I go about kissing her? Its all I think about but I really don't just want to ask her so what do you guys think I should do? How do I make moves on her to get close and how can I find a way to kiss her?
Honestly you should have her alone and kiss her in private for the first time. Apparently she really likes you and wants to take it further too. When your alone with her or even in the movies go see a romance movie and just reach over and kiss her. Somewhere romantic for the first time or even in your basement just the two of you will be awesome too. Don't be scared to do what your feeling. She likes you i can tell so just go in for it. & Don't think about it too long because you might get scared and back out of it.
:) Hope i helped
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Hey! So I recently bought a shirt that says free hugs because I thought it was cute and funny. I am now thinking that maybe it was a bad thing to do. Will people think it means something "naughty" if you know what I mean? Or take it in a "naughty" way. Like if you saw someone in the mall with it on or in public, would you think it makes them look kind of bad? So overall, would it be better to wear it around friends instead, or is it okay to wear it in public once in a while?
Thanks! :) xoxo
Lols obviously you haven't seen some of these crazy shirts people wear now a days. That type of shirt is fine honestly. It don't say nothing sexual or anything & if people think so it's because that's their naughty mind telling them that not the shirt
Hope this helped :)
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I have a iPhone. I was wondering what the setting is to change the message setting where when you get a message it doesnt preview it. It just says 'text message' or'iMessage' HELP PLEASE (:
Yes i have one to go to settings notifications go down into Notification center and press messages & change your settings in there :)
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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6months now, we've been on 2 "breaks" because I felt like I couldn't deal with his ways. I'm 22 and he's 24, we're both in college, he just recently got a job 2 weeks ago because he needed to pay rent. Our first date he paid for dinner but after that we began taking turns and now it seems like in always the one paying for dinner, movie tickets, dates etc. One of the reasons we took a break was because he's a bum aka doesn't have a car, didn't have a job and has no money/ broke all the time. I felt shallow because I wanted to break up with him but he convinced me to take a break. Then a few weeks later we took another break because I just couldn't take it anymore! Instead of finding a job he would be at his apt playing video games all day!! I made a list of pros and cons of staying with him and I definitely had more cons but I was still with this guy!! Whyyyyy I can't tell you because I'm
not so sure myself! I consider him to be my first "real" relationship so maybe that's why I'm still with him? He says he loves me but I know I don't love him...yet or even at all, I don't know to be honest. Am I expecting too much from him? Should I finally break up with him? I mean the times we have together are good not great. I feel awful that I'm breaking up with him for this reason. Help!!
You have to put your feelings first before anyone. And apparently there's confusion there with your feelings towards him. & Really it don't seem like you do really love him. He needs to be the 24 year old man and not a child. He got a job to provide himself not himself and a gf. Im sorry but that's what it really looks like. I don't think he can take care of himself and on top of that he's trying to have a gf. You seem like a strong Independent woman who can take care of herself and is going down because of her slackish bf. Go with your first and only instincts and end it before it's to late & you get in too deep and then you go bankrupt paying for him and being his "MOTHER" he needs to clean up his act before he can take care of any gurl & you need a real independent MAN who can take care of himself and then you
Hope i helped :)
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So...I have a guy-friend who I've developed feelings for...(I'm putting this in the "friendship" category because he is taken, and I've made it clear to him that I have no intention of trying to break them up, I just think me liking him might be relevant in some way)
Anyways...after he asked me whether or not I liked him, he told me it was okay and that he understood and that we would still be friends...we talked, texted, hung out quite a bit...and then he just stopped. He vaguely told me he was upset about something, but nothing more...I've tried to break the ice a few times, but I have not been badgering him or making him feel like he is obligated to me or anything...I DID tell him he could talk to me about it if he wanted, but has said nothing to me at all ever since.
What the heck?! We were getting along so well. It just sort of...happened. One day we were hanging out, and then he just stopped all contact with me. I really miss him. =( I never put any "moves" on him unless we were jokingly flirting with each other...but I do that with a lot of my platonic guy friends...I honestly don't think there was anything I did wrong, but perhaps some of you might have experienced something similar? Please tell me what would cause this kind of behavior...
When guys like other girls when there dating they get scared and run away. That could be what he's doing. He's probably scared that you guys will get further into something & he don't want to hurt his GF. Yes nothing really "serious" happened with you guys but maybe he's thinking ahead. Like if you guys keep talking it'll get worst since you guys like each other. Give him some space and he'll start writing you again. He just confused & needs time to think. I'm sure he will hit you up though just be positive and hopeful
:)
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Okay so theirs this guy , we met 3 years ago were the same age 14 and well the day we met he asked me out ;o but me not knowing anything about him I rejected him I felt this was right plus I didn't like him at the time . But after that he suddenly stopped going where I would see him and a few months passed and I saw him again he kept staring and staring he would give me all these signs that he likes me but he wouldn't talk to me and when I told someone to ask him if he knew who I was he said no o.O but he started going again we didn't talk but his friends would always stare at me and they would kinda like give him a little push as a signal I was their and when I pass by they would start saying his name and he would start blushing and when we had these games he would show off a lot infront of me this one time we were playing soccer and I had the ball and he saw and he went straight for it and chased me but we still didn't talk but he makes a lot of eye conact with me and now last Friday he texted me :o and he wanted me to go to his house but I couldn't since it was 3 in the morning and he also asked me if I had a boyfriend ;o and he kept winking faceing me and then on Saturday it turns out I had to go to a party where he lives and when he saw me get outta the car he went up to his immediatley to change cus he was wearing the same shirt he had on Friday and he came back down and he kept staring and staring but didn't do anything and where I'm confused is he stopped texting outta nowhere on Friday but my question is does he like me ? I want to know since I'm starting to fall for him /:
ay and hasn't texted back /: but my question is does he like me
Since he blushes and went upstairs to change his shirt i would say he likes you, but might be shy. Which is fine. Sometimes a girl just got to make the first move. Maybe he feels you don't like him. And maybe he feels threatened by your friends cause your prob with them a lot. Like i said he's probably scared and shy. Just text him and talk to him let him know your interested because i promise you it seems like he most definetly is :)
Hope this helped
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Im pregnant im 15 rite now i was born in november 17 1996 and my boyfriend is currently 18 but its going to turn 19 September 22.. i just found out that im pregnant but i wanna be with him now so i want to marry him we live in virginia..my question is would he get in trouble since we conceived when i was 15? Please help? I dont need telling me i did wrong and blah blah blah all i want is straight answers thakuyou...& oh im also scared Bcuz My social worker once told me that if she found out we.had sex he would go to jail
He can go to jail because the VA law is anyone under 18 having sex with someone over 18 is considered illegal & rape. Also he got you pregnant which makes it worse for him . I'm sorry to give you this bad news.
Good luck on the situation and hope everything works out :)
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a long time without protection because we always trusted each other,and we swore not to ever cheat on each other.The thing is that lately, things are no longer the same and I'm afraid that he might be cheating on me,and that I might be making a mistake.It's no longer a loyalty matter right now,but a healthy matter actually.I don't know what to do cause if I ask him to wear a condom,I know that he'll feel frustated and he won't trust me either at the same time.Is it wrong what I am thinking?I need some advice,thanks!
You should always wear a condom unless your married. You can get prego an STD or anything and somethings can't be terminated like a pregnancy if something was to go wrong. Its not a bad thing that your thinking this way. You should of been thinking this way since day 1. It doesn't matter if you trust eachother you should be like i trust you have a condom or we aint having sex. Lols but seriously you should ask him and tell him how your feeling because if he does get mad then that means he aint a real man & he's doing things. Trust in your instincts there God's way of speaking to you
GoodLuck :)
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So I met this guy in omegle, before you think that there are horny creepy dudes there, there's actually some nice trolls, so there he was, he kinda pulled one on me, but as we talked, it was getting really serious, like on religion and racial differences. It felt like we knew each other before. We became friends in Facebook, it was nice, it's like having a best friend talk to you, it wasn't awkward. But then there's this weird feeling of talking to someone you barely even know but you get along with each other so well, like stranger danger, so what should I do?
You can talk to him, but don't get in too deep or serious. Let him just be a fb friend and that is all don't give out no phone numbers or anything. If he wants you to call him block your number so he won't have it. You have to be smart with things like this. There's nothing wrong with talking to people online it just have to be in a smart friendly way.
:)
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I hav this friend last year in 4th grade and she was one of my best friends we made a club with two other girls. The next year one of the girls from our club went to a new school and the other girl was in a different class. We were in the same class and there was a new girl that moved here from Michigan. She was homesick. She also rode the same bus as my friend and she became good friends. Then towards the middle of the year the new girl was comferterble and she was wild and hitting people and stuff like that. My friend started acting like her which was weird becuz she is quiet and clam. Then soon after my friend started hitting people like the new girl. I was so mad I didn't kno what to do. But that's not where it ends. Soon my friend got a boyfriend. Rite after the new girl had one. Then my friend got blonde highlights and everyone started hitting on her. After that I became the back up friend. I now summer I try to tlk to my friend on Facebook but she hasn't been on a lot and we ever she is on she doesnt answer me. I don kno if she's mad at me or Wat but I just want to b friends again. I hope someone can give me some advice on how to get my friend back. Obviously we are girls so I wuld like some girly advice.
This happened to me when i was Best of friends with this girl since Kindergarten and in 9th grade this girl torn us apart telling her lies about me and everything. My old best friend was gullible and believed it. I wanted her back so bad that i tried everything. I paid her money at times to get her back and it worked for about a week i was so happy we talked again but it wasn't the same i can still see the change in her. WE broke apart i couldn't and wouldn't deal with someone who treated me the way she did. CRAP.
Basically what im saying is that you have to sometimes fight the good fight and sometimes you won't win but that is okay. You will find other friends and you'll soon find a new crowd to hang with also. Sometimes people are in your life for a season and others for a reason. She happened to be a reason.
She showed you that people can change in a matter of seconds, but you have to move on from people like that. You tried talking to her apparently her other friends are better to talk to so you have to stop chasing her just to talk to her & meet new people. It'll hurt at first but there are millions of people in this world you'll find a new friend.
My saying is that God lets things happen for a reason. & There's always something & someone better out there too
Hope i helped :)
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I have a really close friend and we have been friends since kindergarten mayb longer. And she is really nice and all but sometimes she copies me like I get these boots and then she gets them ( btw copying is not Wat irritates me). She also lived in an apartment. But then she moved into this really big house and now she seems to act like she's all that. For example: she barley ever wants to come to my house now, shes always tlking about getting new clothes and she sometimes acts like she's to good for other people. And I just miss how she used to b. how do I tell her tht i don't like when she act like a rich chic without breaking into a fight. And I kno this probably seems stupid but if you knew her you probably wuld understand. Thx 😃
I know you don't want to do a fight with her, but if that is what you have to do to get through to her then that's what you have to do. People are so scared of losing friendships that they become scared of not speaking up for what they know they should speak up about. Trust me if your best friend is the bestest friend you ever had & you want that closeness back with her then tell her what you just wrote on here. Tell her how you feel maybe no one told her about herself and it's always good to hear it from a friend. You just have to be the one to tell her like it is & be honest no matter what the consequences are. Sometimes a good argument is good too. I do it at times. It shows her that you really care and your worried about her. She'll be mad at first but then she will realize what your saying is the truth. & She will start to talk to you and change back to normal. You just have to be willing to do what ever it takes to get your best-friend back.
Hope this helped :)
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When i was 16 year old he kissed me first time and after that slowly we moved to complete sex. After 1 year relation i got pregnant at the age of 17. After completing 3 months we came to know that i am pregnant. We got scared and we abort that child. Our relation was not stopped there it lasts for 8 years. When i had completed my graduation my father gets seriously ill and admitted in the hospital. At the same time he met another girl and married her. I was feeling to made suicide at that time but i thought about my family as i am the elder sister and i have 2 younger sisters and 1 younger brother. After 3 years my father had expired and i decided to settle down my sister and brother and then to die. But each day i am suffering from a pain like hell. My 2nd number sister got married and got 1 cute baby but still another sister is got to marry and brother is still studying. I don't have patience to live more. I really want to die. Few months ago, I had told about my relation with that boy to his or my family. His wife and mother insulted me a lot. I am still meeting that boy as we both cant live without each other. But he is not accepting this in front of every one. He is not ready to leave his wife as he has got one girl child from her and he don't want to do injustice with that baby. But, what should i do? I tried to think about another boy to marry but it's not possible for me. I think to quit this life is the best solution in this situation.
Just because a boy screwed you over when you needed him at the most saddest part of your life don't mean you should let him empower you to suicide. Like you said you have family to think about. Your the oldest. That is going to be hard, but you have to live through the pain to fight it. By this i mean guys are jerks. There going to screw you over one point in your life, but you have to think of it this way. That was one boy and are you going to let him get the best of you? You have to be tough and show him that he lost something GREAT!! Then he's going to regret cheating & he's going to feel like the dumb ass at the end. The whole point of these break-ups is to make sure the other person don't push you down. You have to stay strong in the break-ups so he can know your stronger wiser and much better without him that your a SURVIVOR.
Hope this helped you alot :)
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I like my best friends ex boyfriend. Yesterday we hung out at her house and I felt a connection between me and him. She left the room for a little and he sat down next to me on the bed and we started playing around. He then stole my phone and I tried to get it out of his pocket and he smiled and said "Yeah that's how I like it" joking around. Later on we were in the hallway and he had his arms wrapped around me trying to get me to go back in the room. Then later he was talking in the phone with his mom so to screw with him I went to where he was and started saying random things. He covered my mouth and then got serious and said "Shh" he uncovered my mouth but kept his arm around me. Another friend came and we walked back. The awkward thing is that its so obvious that my best friend still likes him. She flirts with him. Also she's the one who dumped him. I dont want to ruin our friendship but I like him a lot. Should I talk to my friend? Or just forget about him?
There is this rule me and my friends have. Wait 3-5 months after break-ups and then the other person can talk to them in a relationship way. Since your saying she still likes him then it will be best for you guys to talk about it. Just ask her & be like do you still like him and go from there. I think you should tell her so it won't get weird & so things won't be bad between you two. Cause it will be wrong if you like him and she ended up saying she still likes him so u feel like you have to back off. But also be careful see if he likes you first so you won't look like a fool at the end of all of this.
Hope this helped :)
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My name is Leslie and I need a name for my new advice column (a traditional "Dear Abby" style column. So of course I already thought of "Dear Leslie". Boring. Any ideas?
Can mix it up and say Ask Leslie-Ann
Ask Leslie
Leslie Knows Best
Leslie's Advice
If its about something specific like love you can say
Leslie's Love
Les Answers
Hope some of these helped :)
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I don't really know if this fits in this category, but I'm writing a story that I hope to turn into a movie fairly soon. I don't have a full story line for some of these yet, but tell me what you would be most interested in. Also, let me know if they're too sad. I'm really better at comedy, but I just thought I'd take a shot at drama for a change.
A. A story about a boy and a girl who fall in love after being introduced to each other by their fathers, who are old friends. Their relationship gets serious, even though the girl's father doesnt approve and feels akward about the situation. Then, the boy is involved in a car accident and taken to the hospital. The next day, the girl goes to visit him and sees that other than some cuts and bruises, he seems fine. Shortly after she gets home, her roommate tells her that she's just heard that the boy had just died from internal bleeding. I don't know the rest of the story, but it will involve the girl's family helping the boy's family deal with the agony of losing their son and it will have some kind of lesson about love and friendship.
B. A story about a man whose wife is murdered and his infant son is kidnapped from their house one night when he was gone for a very short amount of time. The man spends twelve years looking for his son and after he discovers that the man who stole his son passed him off as a child put up for adoption, he goes looking for the couple who adopted him. Then, he must choose between bringing his son home or allowing him to stay with the adopted parents who raised him.
C. A story about a man with a wife, a daughter, and a son who are involved in an accident together and taken to the emergency room. The daughter dies, the wife is declared brain dead, and the son is near death from damage done to his heart. The man gets to the hospital and the doctors tell him that they want to take his wife off of life support so they can give their son her heart. The man doesn't want to let her go, but if he doesn't, he will lose the only member of his family with a chance of survival and he has only minutes to make the decision.
I honestly really like B & C. I love B because of the Love story it brings with a father and his son. There are really not a lot of shows focused on a dad and his son. It's usually a mother and child situation. I like this one a lot. I will love to see the hardship this father has to endure along with the son & what the son will think and choose at the end.
I like choice C because it's a tragic love story with a family that quickly turns into a life changing decision in a matter of seconds. This will be a beautiful movie to watch also. Again when a father has to make a tough decision that will effect the rest of his life.
I love how your having the men and son bonding time in these movies because of lot of movies really don't have dad & son.
I love them both. I love the ideas your getting to & when you decide which one you will do im positive it will turn out great.
I hope i helped :)
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My boyfriend loves girls in skirts but I don't own any, He likes school girl skirts, I want to find one I could wear in public that would be sexy, cute, and appropriate. But I'm tall 5'8" and I can't find any skirts that are that perfect length. I've looked all over Ebay and amazon.
Any good sites/finds for skirts at a reasonable price below 20$
You can go to the site polyvore. Beautiful clothing for tall beautiful girls and cheap too
:)
heres the name of the site
http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/shop.browse
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