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My friend is changing
I hav this friend last year in 4th grade and she was one of my best friends we made a club with two other girls. The next year one of the girls from our club went to a new school and the other girl was in a different class. We were in the same class and there was a new girl that moved here from Michigan. She was homesick. She also rode the same bus as my friend and she became good friends. Then towards the middle of the year the new girl was comferterble and she was wild and hitting people and stuff like that. My friend started acting like her which was weird becuz she is quiet and clam. Then soon after my friend started hitting people like the new girl. I was so mad I didn't kno what to do. But that's not where it ends. Soon my friend got a boyfriend. Rite after the new girl had one. Then my friend got blonde highlights and everyone started hitting on her. After that I became the back up friend. I now summer I try to tlk to my friend on Facebook but she hasn't been on a lot and we ever she is on she doesnt answer me. I don kno if she's mad at me or Wat but I just want to b friends again. I hope someone can give me some advice on how to get my friend back. Obviously we are girls so I wuld like some girly advice.
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This happened to me when i was Best of friends with this girl since Kindergarten and in 9th grade this girl torn us apart telling her lies about me and everything. My old best friend was gullible and believed it. I wanted her back so bad that i tried everything. I paid her money at times to get her back and it worked for about a week i was so happy we talked again but it wasn't the same i can still see the change in her. WE broke apart i couldn't and wouldn't deal with someone who treated me the way she did. CRAP.
Basically what im saying is that you have to sometimes fight the good fight and sometimes you won't win but that is okay. You will find other friends and you'll soon find a new crowd to hang with also. Sometimes people are in your life for a season and others for a reason. She happened to be a reason.
She showed you that people can change in a matter of seconds, but you have to move on from people like that. You tried talking to her apparently her other friends are better to talk to so you have to stop chasing her just to talk to her & meet new people. It'll hurt at first but there are millions of people in this world you'll find a new friend.
My saying is that God lets things happen for a reason. & There's always something & someone better out there too
Hope i helped :)
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Aw honey something like this happened to me. I know what you're going through. Me and my best bud met in 4th grade but when we got to 7th grade we met to other girls. It all went great until she( the one from fourth grade ) had left the school and started ignoring us. A whole lot of stuff happened and she even went as far as dating an 11 year old, which I always said was dating her so he could show off, her being 14 almost 15. I know that you still want to be her friend, and if it'd been anyone else answering they might have said to go for it, but I don't. As soon as my friend started ignoring me, I did the same. I met new people, people that I thought I'd never talk to, (emo kids, rocker kids, extreme nerds, jocks, etc.) I became popular with everyone, and not in a bad way. I had made more friends and I didn't depend on anyone which was something that made me stronger. Yes, sometimes I feel lonely but doing things a little more independently won't hurt at all, if anything, it'll help you in the future. Don't be afraid to hang with other crowds and pay attention to your business, let her be the other's shadow and do whatever she wants. If she talks to you, good and if she doesn't, even better. Don't waste your time trying to get this girl's attention when I'm sure they're plenty more people who can probably treat you better than she is! If anything, you know where to find me. Best of luck{:
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