Personally, as someone who's been in that kind of position, I don't think you want a "friends with benefits" kind of relationship. If you say you love this person, do you really think you can pull it off? That's the whole point of friends with benefits, not having a commitment. But it seems to me that you want a commitment with this person, because you're "in love." So I don't think that that's the way you want to take if what you really like this person.

Gee...this one's hard. Um...shit...this one is REALLY hard, haha. The way that I see it, is that there's a difference between loving someone and being IN love. You can automatically love someone. I really don't think it's that hard to start to love someone. But to be in love. That's a whole other scale. To be in love with someone is just overwhelming. I was in love once...and I'm not even sure how to describe it. It's just a feeling of like, "Wow, this person's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with." And I still do feel that way about the person. So it doesn't go away too easily. But the word love is such an overrated words now-a-days, so I wouldn't rush into things too quickly.

Well, seeing as though I've been in that kind of relationship before, I know that there are some good qualities and some bad. A good one is that if you're single and don't want a commitment, then there you go; you still get some action. But a rather awful one (that happened to me) is you could fall for him/her, or vise versa, and the person wouldn't feel the same back. You'd imagine that it'd be sort of akward after that. So I'd say that it's really the person's choice, but there are a few major ups and downs to it.

I think people hate it because the singers are sitting there singing about how much they hurt on the inside and such, when they have millions of dollars. I don't know if that's true though, I just heard someone on the radio say that. I personally like emo.

Yeah, it took me a while to figure out the colours, as well. Alright, well, first you go into "Column Settings". Then you go down to the bottom where all the colour schemes are. Then it should say "If you're confused...about how these work over here" and the last part should be a hyperlink. You click in there, and there are all these different colours with their own little code. So you pick out a pink that you like, copy the code next to it, and then go back to "Column Settings" and paste that code in the boz where is says "Page Background Colour" (if you wanted a pink background). That's all. It's pretty simple once you know what to do. Hope it looks good!

One of my good friend's uncle is Bon Jovi's guitar player, so she gets in to their shows for free. I'm so jealous!!! lol. And my dad knows all sorts of sports people. Some Phillies, some Flyers, and some Eagles. And he also knows Mike, from Boyz2Men. Mike and his wife used to own a ribs resturant near where I live, and his wife was actually gunna come over and cook for us. Weird, huh?

Pop Your Cherry basically means that you're not a virgin anymore. That's all.

Should you really care what the people from your old town think now? So what if they said all that crap about you then. You're not with them anymore. Now you're in a new town. Different people, different opinions, new start. So I would say you should go with the people that you live with now, because it's THEIR opinions now, and not the old town's.

Maybe you should try to bring another friend into the mix. Someone who's a better friend to you then to them. Because then, if your two bb's start acting up again, the other friend is always there to back you up if you try to bring this subject up to them. It's always good to add another person if there's a 3rd wheel.

He told you he wanted some action? No offence, but that seems a little shallow. And I mean that in the best possible way. But moving on...the panicing. Everyone panics about this kind of thing at least once. Or else they're like, a major pimp. All you have to do is take a deep breathe, and just ask yourself what you're scared of. Are you scared of kissing? Of getting intament? I think you have to figure out what's making you panic before you can solve it. Maybe your sences are just trying to save this for someone more special to you, like an actual boyfriend. My best advice in this one is to hold off until you find someone that you really like, and then maybe you won't be so panicy.

Because guys have this thing about not wanting to harm their ego. They know that we're gunna say that they weren't bad kissers, but they wanna hear us say it, so it won't damage their ego any.

Why don't you tell them that you want the band to sing in the talent show, and if they say they don't want to, then ask if you can still sing, only with another band? They really shouldn't say no, but in case they do, then don't worry about it. Maybe, because you have "The Voice", you should try doing a solo. You were gunna be the lead singer anyways, right?

Don't rush into anything that you're not ready for. Maybe you are ready for making out with a boy, but it should be with someone that you really like. You shouldn't feel like you're obligated to make out with a boy just because all of your friends have. That makes you different, and being different is what makes us humans :). But when the time does come that you start to hook up with guys, don't worry about it. That sort of thing comes completely naturally, so you'll know exactly what to do.:)

Your friend should rub vacaline inside of her before he tries anything, because vacaline has a tendency to make things slide easier. He could try that, but if that doesn't work then I'd suggest going to a doctor. Hope the vacaline works, though!

No offence sweetie, but that seems pretty simple to me. You don't NEED a friend like that. I'm having trouble figuring out why you would even want one. You can do so much better than to have friends like her bringing you down. I mean, does it REALLY matter to you whether or not she likes your friends? So she talks shit about them. She's only trying to put you down in that area, because it sounds as if she is, indeed, a bitch. But you don't have to put up with that. Just forget about her, it's almost a lost cause. Face it, she's gone to Hell, and she's not coming back.

Sweetie, I went through the same thing this year. There's a statement from a song that I compared to my feelings towards him, and I figured out that I was doing exactly what the statement meant. "Holding on to feel the same." I think you're holding on to the memory of him because you want to feel the same way you did when you were with him. And I also think that you're not letting in other guys because you believe that they can't make you feel as good as he did. It's not an unusual problem, don't worry. You might have to go to the sorce with this one. Tell your ex how you feel. Maybe he'll support you and try to figure out a way to help. But I strongly believe that you have to bring it up with him to move on.

Is she younger than you? I think she's copying you because she wants to be like you. Everyone needs someone to look up to. Just tell her to lay off some. Sure, it'll be hard, but it's really the only way to get her to stop trying to be like you.

This is why I took specialty singing :), haha.
Well, when you're up on stage, they usually have a microphone. If they don't, then that's pretty weird. But, just in case there isn't one, then you have to REALLY open your mouth. It would help to lift up your eyebrows and drop your jaw as far down as you can. After all, the more open your mouth is, the more sound can come out.

Absence of a girlfriend makes a boy a pig, basically. No offence to you, but I don't think he likes you in a serious relationship way. It may be because you have grown in certain ways, and he's noticed that, and he's become interested. And when I say interested, I don't mean dating wise. Maybe the reason that he's touching you is because he may want to get with you. Blame hormones.
But, if you're uncomfortable about him touching you, then you have to tell him. And if he asks you why other guys can touch you, all you have to tell him is "Well, yeah, that's cause I LET them touch me." If he's a true friend, then he'll respect you and stop. Because the last thing any girl needs is a guy pretending to be their friend just so they can touch them.
But yeah, it's probably just hormones. Maybe you should find him a girlfriend, so he can touch her instead of you and not get slapped in the face.

Another person really shouldn't assume that a guy is gay. It's kind of discriminating. The only real way to know if someone was gay is if they came out and told the people. But there are some steriotypical ways that people judge other people on...
If you act kind of girlish at points
If you're really into fashion
If you have somewhat of a high voice
If you most of your friends are girls

But, like I said before, those are just steriotypical. They're not always true.

So, I decided to start this up again after having it idlized for over 2 years. I would have made a new site, except I really like the name that I had. So yeah. Here I am now. A.Good.Lie is back.


I'm a cosmetology major. I love art. And music. And..yeah...

I'll update this later.

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