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Third Wheel
I have two best buds, but they treat me like a third wheel! Whenever ones not somewhere, THEN the other one actually treats me normaly. Then my other bb comes back and there like..who are YOU again? I've tried talking to them, and they say they'll change, but they never do. And don't tell me to dump them.
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I think that you should get some friends that really care about you. Don't be mean to those other ones though. Just don't hang out with um like you normally do.
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Maybe you should try to bring another friend into the mix. Someone who's a better friend to you then to them. Because then, if your two bb's start acting up again, the other friend is always there to back you up if you try to bring this subject up to them. It's always good to add another person if there's a 3rd wheel.
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~A.Good.Lie~
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I would talk to each of them seperatly and truly tell them how you feel. You could also hang out with each of them seperatly and maybe they will like you more when you do that so when you all 3 hang out they include you too! If you have any more questions I'll be happy to answer them!
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I would reccomend you hanging out with each person seperately - maybe they don't know you as well. If that doesn't work, then don't completely dump them - just keep your distace and hang out with other people. If they do stuff together without you ... then they could realize how much they want you to be with them. I hope I helped. <3 Steph
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ok i won't tell you to dump them, but i will tell you this, if they don't change then you might just have to dump them. you can really find some friends that are better than that who can treat you like a real friend. talk to them, start by talking to them one at a time and then talk to them at the same time. if they are really your friends then they will understand how you feel and do something about it. good luck and i hope i helped.
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No don't dump them.. you could become better friends with each if you invite them out just you and one of them to get to know they better. They'll see what your like just one on one and they'll thinm your cool. Then just invite the other one out!
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If you already tried talking to them and that doesnt work. And you wont dump them as friends, what else can you do? My advice is to make new friends that treat you better but keep those friends. Maybe you can invite them over to your house because then I doubt they'll leave you out, it is YOUR house. Or you can invite just one friend to hang out one day and the next ask the other. You cant ALWAYS hang out with both of them, so spend time with each alone. Good luck with your amigas.
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
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